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Posted by smokeape on Feb-03-2005 03:19:

Whole story was boring as hell. Is she gonna put out or what?

If yes, continue relationship.


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Posted by whiskers on Feb-03-2005 04:49:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
omg its "teh lett0r" quick send it to dan rather to have it authenticated



i need to finish the other two pages. that's where he talked about a date at mickey d's and about all that other good stuff




quote:
Originally posted by ThomBizznitch
*makes her w0w face*



whiskers- you are the "nice guy" it seems and that other dude is the "bad boy" and a girl is always gonna go for the "bad boy" until she is ready to be with the "nice guy"! maybe it just isn't the right time yet -for her-

and my advice- move on...






"whawhaaat?"


Posted by whiskers on Feb-03-2005 04:50:

quote:
Originally posted by Emil
Post a picture of her. Do you like Rocky Road or Rainbow Sherbert ice cream?



nice sig there. i changed my mind about pulp, however


Posted by Arbiter on Feb-03-2005 05:51:

Sounds like she's a bit of a dim one. Blonde?


Posted by Emil on Feb-03-2005 05:52:

quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
nice sig there. i changed my mind about pulp, however



That's nice, I have had the sig for months and you just noticed? Needless to say, it will stay. Wow, I'm a poet and didn't even know it.


Posted by t�bias on Feb-03-2005 06:25:

A popular dating technique is called 'branching'.

Essentially named from the idea of climbing up a tree and grabbing onto a branch and not letting go of the last branch until the next one is firmly in hand. Many people have a fear of being single and will keep their options open, and have people in reserve should things not work out with their current flame.

When you like people that are in relationships you end up getting hurt most of the time. People are often afraid to make the tough decisions and leave even the worst of relationships, and even if they have a better option available.

It really comes down to what you want in how to deal with it hey. If you want some fun and don't mind a large head fuck then hang around, and most likely you'll not want her even when she does leave the other guy. Personally I'd not put myself in the position to be hurt by liking someone in a relationship because these things can really drag out and you end up beign used a bit of an emotional boxing bag.
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Posted by Geoff on Feb-03-2005 10:32:

run away real quick and don't send the letter


Posted by Spartan on Feb-03-2005 13:37:

Re: Fuked up Situation

quote:
Originally posted by Andrew Thomas
ok here it is ready??
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she thinks im a great guy and can find more good to say about me then him


what can u guys say that can make any sense of this we both want to know


no no no, you've got it all wrong...
there is obviously only one solution to this problem...

You have to kill this other kid.
Only when blood is spilled shall her true feelings be unlocked.


That is the way of TranceAddict, Don't let us down!


Posted by whiskers on Feb-03-2005 13:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Emil
That's nice, I have had the sig for months and you just noticed? Needless to say, it will stay. Wow, I'm a poet and didn't even know it.



no, i've seen it before. mr. poet, don't quit your search for doctor jobs. and quoting me saying something hilariously stupid is like shooting fish in a bucket.


Posted by tribu on Feb-03-2005 14:02:

quote:
Originally posted by kr00t0n
Nah, she's just making the most of the fact that she has you wrapped around her finger

If she decides, and you bugger off, she wont have a lapdog no more, believe me, I spent far too many years when I was a teenager as a lapdog


+1000


Posted by insecurity on Feb-03-2005 14:03:

many people have made excellent points (especially regarding spelling)

I think that this girl has many issues, sadly you won't be the solution


Posted by Spartan on Feb-03-2005 15:03:

quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
oh and btw



don't forget about the invitation to McDonalds.


Posted by Mr. Pink on Feb-03-2005 15:14:

Rasta

sounds like every person involved in this situation is young and dumb.


If she wants you, she will be with you.

Dont be a pussy, accept it.

now, if she chooses the other guy who she is "Worst" off with, then fukit. Dont even be her friend. She's a hoe.

If she chooses you, SCORE!!!!!!!!

but you still sound like you're young if you're coming to *us* for advice on how to get women! HAHA!!!!!!!!!!

half of the people in here are reading the thread waiting for some helpful tips, like you. lol


anywayz, good luck and dont get your dick caught in an exhaust pipe.


Posted by Matt on Feb-03-2005 15:43:

regardless of what happens, remember that p0rn you


Posted by Emil on Feb-03-2005 18:50:

quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
no, i've seen it before. mr. poet, don't quit your search for doctor jobs. and quoting me saying something hilariously stupid is like shooting fish in a bucket.



But, but, but I love you whiskers.






Posted by Billabong on Feb-03-2005 19:17:

quote:
Originally posted by t�bias
A popular dating technique is called 'branching'.

Essentially named from the idea of climbing up a tree and grabbing onto a branch and not letting go of the last branch until the next one is firmly in hand. Many people have a fear of being single and will keep their options open, and have people in reserve should things not work out with their current flame.

When you like people that are in relationships you end up getting hurt most of the time. People are often afraid to make the tough decisions and leave even the worst of relationships, and even if they have a better option available.

It really comes down to what you want in how to deal with it hey. If you want some fun and don't mind a large head fuck then hang around, and most likely you'll not want her even when she does leave the other guy. Personally I'd not put myself in the position to be hurt by liking someone in a relationship because these things can really drag out and you end up beign used a bit of an emotional boxing bag.
a


Hit the nail on the head. This can also apply to a situation where two parties are just friends. The situation im in revolves around a girl that im friends with, we get on great when we hang out. But its always me making the first move all the time. So ive held back, this method is a really great way of seeing who your friends really are, and if someone "likes you" more than a friend.

If they never bother getting in contact with you, you know A/That they are only using you for their ego and B/Using you as a friend as a last resort when they get lonely because their regular friends are not about.

I dont know why the world has to work like this, and personally ive grown up from using people for any purpose, i dont see why people treat their supposed friends like shit, but dont stand for it.


Posted by l�cid on Feb-03-2005 20:11:

Re: Fuked up Situation

quote:
Originally posted by Andrew Thomas
she expects me me to stay friends with her and maybe try things after if they dont work out..

this is the biggest reason why you need to get away from this girl immediately!

basically she's just keeping you around as a 2nd option incase things don't work out with the more "convenient" guy (he lives closer and she sounds very needy and dependent so this works well for her even if they're not 100% compatible). she's manipulating you, making you think you're her "friend" when really she is just using you as a fallback plan. sure, she might see that you guys have things in common, but that is not what a relationship is built on. many girls are attention whores and they'll strive for attention from any guy even if they don't really care about him.

the reason i'm being so blunt about it is because i was that girl 3 years ago. i had 2 different guys believing i wanted to be with them for about a year until one of them finally moved out of the state because he didn't want to deal with my shit anymore (it's fucked up but true). sure, i liked both of them but i didn't give either of them what they deserved. rather than giving 1 relationship 100%, i was giving two relationships 50%. granted, i realized my mistakes and have learned a lot from that experience and it's made me a wiser and better person.

t�bias also summed it up quite well with the "branching" theory.

i'm curious, how old are you and how far away do you live from this girl?


Posted by whiskers on Feb-04-2005 01:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Emil
But, but, but I love you whiskers.








sorry, i'm not like that. i'm METROsexual.


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