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I agree that there is a notion that associates being nice with being weak, and it's total bullox. Being nice is a lot easier than the opposite. Why would I be an asshole just to attract a certain type of female? Why pretend to be something you are not, if you cannot appreciate my kindness and genorosity then fuck off. If you abuse my kindness and genorosity, then fuck off again. Problem with a lot of nice guys is that they are pushovers, they let girls walk all over them.
What baffles me beyond belief are these girls who fall for that image. Why the fuck would you want someone who treats you like shit? I don't want a bitchy girl who treats me disrespect. The only reason why guys like that exist is becuase of stupid girls that put up with their bullshit.
It's a lot easier to be an asshole, you simply don't have to give a shit about anything, and voila, you're an asshole. Try the opposite for once and see what it feels like.
And the whole 'game' thing is ridiculous. I can't believe what puppets some girls are, who fall for the cliche sweet-nothings-in-your-ear bullshit. If words can sweep you off your feet then I truly feel sorry for you. As the old saying goes, action speak louder than words.
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| Originally posted by Enraptured As for the "game"... I detest it. It's horseshit as far as I'm concerned... you can drive yourself crazy thinking, "Should I call? I don't want to look desperate... but if I don't call, will she lose interest?" Part of the problem I think is that many girls have been programmed by society not to "tip their hands"... or give away to much... it's crap. If you are interested, why hide it? Playing "hard to get" is really dumb... and it doesn't WORK! |
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| Originally posted by trancechaos dude, dont think so hard, you'll hurt yourself. trust me, thinking can get painfull at times. or maybe its coz i have a simple mind...lol |
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| Originally posted by bARTovsky Nice guys finish last. You're running out of gas. Your sympathy will get you left behind. Sometimes you're at your best, when you feel the worst. Do you feel washed up, like piss going down the drain Pressure cooker pick my brain and tell me I'm insane. I'm so fucking happy I could cry. Every joke can have its truth and now the joke's on you. I never knew you were such a funny guy. Oh nice guys finish last, when you are the outcast. Don't pat yourself on the back, you might break your spine. Living on command. You're shaking lots of hands. Kissing up and bleeding all your trust, taking what you need. Bite the hand that feeds. You lose your memory and you got no shame. |
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| Originally posted by oldschool420 thats my biggest problem! i over think EVERYTHING wayyyy too much... i need to relax and just let things roll out! |
Girls say they want nice guys, then they go for assholes. After the assholes hurt them, they complain about how there aren't any nice guys left.
Just shows to prove that GIRLS DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT!
Yeah ive pretty much given up on dating here. I wait until i travel before i even bother. Not that i have any problems here but im just sick of having to pretend to be something that im not.
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| Originally posted by trancechaos dude, dont think so hard, you'll hurt yourself. trust me, thinking can get painfull at times. or maybe its coz i have a simple mind...lol |
Re: The official nice guys thread
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| Originally posted by Jayx1 Nice guys unite!!! Why is it that our society labels nice people as being weak? Why is it that our society labels nice people as having "ulterior motives"? It's time to let our guard down and stop pretending to be assholes and nonchalant just because that's what the opposite sex wants. Oh they say they want "nice guys" but then they end up with mustang guido! Women in other cultures appreciate a nice guy. It's time to take back Canada! ahahahahahah |
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| Originally posted by DC- Is your Zodiac by anychance a virgo? |
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| Originally posted by oldschool420 nope i'm a Pieces |
Re: Re: The official nice guys thread
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| Originally posted by Skipper You say "we" like you're one of em or something! |
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| Originally posted by trancechaos hey so am i |
you guys need d1abolic back here...
Yay Pieces! 
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| Originally posted by AwakenedAddict Yay Pieces! |
Re: Re: The official nice guys thread
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| Originally posted by Skipper You say "we" like you're one of em or something! |
Aquarius all the way, baby!
My Ex was a pisces... evidently, Aquarius and Pisces are NOT a match! Not matter HOW HARD YOU TRY!
Re: Re: Re: The official nice guys thread
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| Originally posted by StereoPrincess my toughts exactly. |
Well, you eloquently told me to "grow a penis" was it?
Do YOU know ME?
Is that something you would say to my face?
Or were you "kidding"... or was that one of your "opinions"?
EARTH to GUYS!!!
"Bad boys" DOES NOT mean "Assholes". You can be a bad boy and not be an asshole.
Two different things.
Bad equals not good. Or not goodie goodie.
Bad does not equal mean, rude and hurtful.
Therefore, you can be a "bad boy" and still be nice to others.
Bad boys tend to have more fun because they like to do crazy things and sometimes get in trouble for them. These things are not mean-spirited and most of the time stupid but you can't hate them for it.
Assholes are assholes, mean bastards that cheat, lie and steal in order to help only themselves and hurt others. They have nothing good about them.
The term "Nice Guy" is misleading. It has a bad connotation because it is unanimous with "boring" "pushover" "shy" which aren't good qualities. We need to think of other terms to describe the true "Nice Guys".
But this is just really my opinion.
the LOL behind it meant it was a joke
Thats the shitty part about the internet. You cant always properly display the context you mean with tone of voice or facial expressions.
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| Originally posted by StereoPrincess EARTH to GUYS!!! "Bad boys" DOES NOT mean "Assholes". You can be a bad boy and not be an asshole. Two different things. |
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| Originally posted by Jayx1 Reese's Pieces? |
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