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take a flask of vodka to school and have a drink before the presentation to take the "edge" off.

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Originally posted by fitom tiel and we have nipples that, if we were girls, would be breasts. but we don't usually. have breasts.

actually they would be nipples in females. and you don't have breasts?

You could always pop a pill.... MDMA makes it nearly impossible to feal anxiety or fear (that's why it used to be used in psychotherapy for terminal patients... it let them discuss their fear of death without experiencing the fear itself).

Dude! I feel EXACTLY the same way as you. I know almost everyone, know the topic, and I still feel so nervous! It sucks doesn't it!

Almost everyone feels a little anxiety. The key is minimize that aniety. The more you can convince yourself that you know what you're talking about and that you won't mess up the less anxious you'll be. Also, the more you do it and realize that nothing bad will happen the easier it gets.

I actually used to practice talking my way out of screw ups in my presentation...

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Originally posted by Boomer187 actually they would be nipples in females. and you don't have breasts?

excuse me: we have nipples that, if we were girls, would belong to breasts.
i don't have breasts as such, no.


this is quite a debate

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy i was going to say the ame thing. best way to do this is, when ur relaxed or feeling totally like urself. study what position ur body is in. how ur breathing is different and what ur thinking abt. and if u study those u can baically make urself feel that way anytime u please by recreating that.

You should remind yourself that when you drop E.

Re: Why am I being a "girl weener? Help guys

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Originally posted by Lil-H Hello folks... Im just wondering about something, if you guys think this is funny, fuck off I am "scared" of talking in front of groups, say a presentation in class, even though it's only 15-20 people, AND even when I know most of the people. Why do you guys think some people are like this, like nervous when talking in front of e.g. a class? Besides from that I am normal (trust me ) lots of friends and its not like im only staying at TA and have computer friends.. hehe Are there any "cure" for this? well, you know what I mean Edit:for topic Meant to write puss Y, but only got ***

one of the biggest fears people have is speaking in front of groups

i have the same issue.

so relax, its normal.

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Originally posted by Lil-H Well, Im having my talk tomorrow in English. its a review of the movie Hero.. Anyone seen it?

nice... good film. loved the cinematography, esp. the colour schemes in a lot of the scenes.

presumably if you are presenting on that film because you liked it, yeh? when you're presenting, try to focus on the parts of the movie that you are most passionate about (if the presentation format permits) - if you are talking about something that you feel strongly about, sometimes that can help overcome peripherals like the crowd of people you're talking to. think of them as a group of people you are trying to convince of the phenomenal nature of the film.

i find the fear of judgement is often more strong than the fear of actual presentation. try to take the stance that you really don't give a shit what they think, then go with that.

oh, and picturing everyone in their underwear or whatever is just a lose-lose situation.........

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Originally posted by igottaknow take a flask of vodka to school and have a drink before the presentation to take the "edge" off.

actually, that works like a charm....

used to do that before playing a gig. was scared shitless... having a couple shots beforehand just means i don't care as much when i fuck up! hehe

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Originally posted by fitom tiel fyi, girls do not have 'weeners'

Four words:

Her



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Heshe

It was moderately amusing until you spelled Heche wrong.

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Originally posted by kossack actually, that works like a charm.... used to do that before playing a gig. was scared shitless... having a couple shots beforehand just means i don't care as much when i fuck up! hehe

Drinking is pretty much a prerequisite for me to spin. Takes the edge off. I don't know if it translates to speech making though.

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Originally posted by Sunsnail Dude! I feel EXACTLY the same way as you. I know almost everyone, know the topic, and I still feel so nervous! It sucks doesn't it!

Yup, its sucks major balls

Now its over and done with, and I feel so much better
I did very good today, I have noe idea why. sure I messed up some words (the pronounciation) but overall I think I did mighty good

Before I was going up and doing my talk, I got this feeling, almost want to puke (in a strange way and my stomach feels like "empty") I thought of one of Coldplay's songs, Green Eyes. Its really good folks.
Check it out (A rush of blood to the head)
Once I was up there it wasnt That bad, but bad enough...
Ive come with a conclusion: My talks in english goes better than my norwegians ones. Could it be because I know I can "fcuk up" when im doing it in english?!

cheers anyway

Take amphetamines to fix this problem. Injet 3 times daily.

Re: Why am I being a "girl weener? Help guys

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Originally posted by Lil-H Hello folks... Im just wondering about something, if you guys think this is funny, fuck off I am "scared" of talking in front of groups, say a presentation in class, even though it's only 15-20 people, AND even when I know most of the people. Why do you guys think some people are like this, like nervous when talking in front of e.g. a class? Besides from that I am normal (trust me ) lots of friends and its not like im only staying at TA and have computer friends.. hehe Are there any "cure" for this? well, you know what I mean Edit:for topic Meant to write puss Y, but only got ***

You lost your balls. This is a common disorder, called lostballsitis in the medical community. There is a surgery available to correct this called ballsreplaceoplasty, which is similar to, say, a rhinoplasty, only instead of the nose being reshaped, the balls are reattatched.

And on a serious note, being scared to talk in front of people is actually normal, if you define a normal action as an action that a majority (>50%) of people partake in....or don't partake in. Speaking in front of groups is rated higher than death or heights on a random-sample list of fears.

Easiest way to get rid of it is through practice, start with small groups (or just one person, or maybe just yourself and a mirror), and work your way up.

Re: Why am I being a "girl weener? Help guys

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Originally posted by Lil-H Hello folks... Im just wondering about something, if you guys think this is funny, fuck off I am "scared" of talking in front of groups, say a presentation in class, even though it's only 15-20 people, AND even when I know most of the people. Why do you guys think some people are like this, like nervous when talking in front of e.g. a class? Besides from that I am normal (trust me ) lots of friends and its not like im only staying at TA and have computer friends.. hehe Are there any "cure" for this? well, you know what I mean Edit:for topic Meant to write puss Y, but only got ***

Lil - H, you disappoint me


I thought(judging by the thread title), that this was going to be a relationship/ girl thread.


Off topic, how are you finding Australia & the women?
Btw , good luck on your talk.

I fing the women alot hotter here. might be because in norway we have to wear fur coats, while the aussies only wear bikinsi hehe

The australians are Really nice people, like welcoming people truying to do their best, I like it alot
more trance here than norway too, but still Lots of hip hop/rap amongst my friends


Went to dockers vs west coast today. it was really great, peter bells wife took me down to the changing rooms before the match and we went down there after the match too
peter is cool

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I too was scared of public speaking/performances, I decide that the only way to get over this fear was to confront it. So while I was in schoolI employed the implosion method of conquering my fears and I signed myself up for a student reading. I wrote a piece and I performed it in front of 200 people. I was scared witless but once I was on stage I realized that with the stage light on I really coudln't see the peoples faces that well and I just settled in and performed it. It wasn't flawless but it did help my conquer my fear of public speaking.

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