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ok as for lack of motivation...im writing in again, even tho i should be doing math right now. one thing i have to say about senioritis, at the high school level, is that it is NOTHING compared to the end of the semester laziness that comes with college. high school may seem like a pain in the ass, but take it with a grain of salt- a little jacking around here or there isnt great, but it isnt terrible either. HERE it can get you kicked out no problem. and staying in is all a matter of motivation. in high school you GET taught what you need to know, in college you teach yourself, which is a complete pain in the ass.
really my motivation doesnt come down to money, knowledge or women, i think those are questionable reasons to do anything. Ok, maybe not knowledge! what i choose to put up with the shit i do in college is choices...as simple as that. if you dont choose to finish high school, thats fine, there are people that succeed doing that although not very many. the more education you get, the more chances you will have to screw up later if necessary. and it may sound dumb, but a little peice of paper insures that you will get more security and money just because you put up with some useless shit in school.
money - i find this a bad motivator because you dont need to go to school to get it. try drug dealing, construction or garbage collection. they all pay well and require very little book smarts. i wont say they dont require intelligence tho...money also sucks cause it doesnt insure happiness, no matter what you are led to believe. i choose school because i know i may find what i truly love to do, which will make me happy no matter what.
knowledge - this is a good reason to gget an education, but not for the sake to memorization or anything. there are idiots in college, and some of the smartest people i know have never completed high school.
women - COULD be a good motivator, but generally a better distractor. and i think there are 'good' and 'bad' ones no matter what the 'education' level.
again this is my jacked up look on life...hope it means something/
i had major motivation issues for 4 years..........did fuck all....basically the concept I've come up with which remedies for me.......
is that existence is about stretching your mind in various ways.....and that also means work.........but work makes play so much better and guilt free.......
also......that ultimately we are creatures......that feel higher when we accomplish things.......and move through struggles.......
no pain no gain.......cliche's are often true........
khalil gibran wrote:
"pain is your inner-physicians pill"
this applies to many things......it makes you stronger.
this is how I've come to love and need some of the things my laziness makes me h8. I now h8 prolonged laziness in myself more than anything.
peace
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| Originally posted by {b.s.e.} ABT - does Ritilin actually help at all? If I can get something to make my head stop jumping around and actually let me pay some attention to my school work, I might make something of myself yet. Doesn't it piss you off, Rob, to know that you're damned intelligent, but you lack the motivation to use it? It does me... only I'm too lazy to care. ![]() Anyways.. be cool! Stay in School! |
) It makes you very serious about finishing what is at hand... i LOVE the stuff.... i think they should dish out ritalin pills with every bowl of cereal had in the morning. Hey, there are no bad side-effects that i know of or i ever experienced taking it.

i know what u mean about the ritalin abt (DAMNIT! every time i write ur name i have to go check that it's ABT and not ATB...LOL) anyway! when girls have add, it's a bit different. i was definately a hyper active child...always runnin around and talkin all the time. but as i got older the opposite started to happen. i was just always day dreaming and forgetting stuff. i was always in a "zone". ppl would be talking to me and after they were done, i'd be like, "wait, so WHAT did u just say??" hahah basically i come off as an air head but im really not. i am highly intelligent, i just have to apply myself (as is the case for EVERYONE w/ add) im sure it's annoying to other ppl. my dad can always tell when im not listening to him and he'll be like, "YOOUU WHOOO JAMIEEE!" anway, i tried the ritalin and it DOES make you concentrate better, BUT...i felt that it made me hyper. it was weird. i was smoking like a pack of cigs a day when i was on it and it would get me kind of nervous. it's like mild speed (why do think these moron kids snort the stuff!) i read up on the side effects of ritalin and the most common one is nervousness. now the LAST thing i need to feel is nervousness, cuz i feel that way already without it. i have some kind of anxiety disorder i think...my stomach is always in knots and i've had several actual pannick attacks in the last few months. i have an appt. w/ a shrink on thurs to talk about that and maybe get on some xanax. so i that is why i try to stay away from ritalin. i try to use more natural methods. gonna seem cheesy, but oh well. i am going to sign up for yoga classes this week and i also take herbs like ginseng and ginko every morning. it also helps to eat right and have a regular sleeping schedule. eat lots of carbs (they give you more energy) and try working out or going for walks. they help you clear your mind. every day i just take my dog and a tennis ball out to this grassy area and play with him and chill there for like a half hour and and just THINK! i love to just think about the dumbest shit, it's fun...lol anyway, set a time aside for you to think that way u can focus on studying after u've had ur "time". maybe it'll work, i dunno....
btw, i am very impressed that you all are sharing your experiences and not putting on this front. i think that is really cool...most ppl are ashamed of having that sort of problem, and all of us, obviously aren't
It's all about being an ADD kid. 
Too bad I didn't get the hyperactivity that some kids did.. I was such a boring child. 
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| Originally posted by Slylee it also helps to have a regular sleeping schedule. |
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btw, i am very impressed that you all are sharing your experiences and not putting on this front. i think that is really cool...most ppl are ashamed of having that sort of problem, and all of us, obviously aren't |
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| Originally posted by Slylee i know what u mean about the ritalin abt (DAMNIT! every time i write ur name i have to go check that it's ABT and not ATB...LOL) anyway! when girls have add, it's a bit different. i was definately a hyper active child...always runnin around and talkin all the time. but as i got older the opposite started to happen. i was just always day dreaming and forgetting stuff. i was always in a "zone". ppl would be talking to me and after they were done, i'd be like, "wait, so WHAT did u just say??" hahah basically i come off as an air head but im really not. i am highly intelligent, i just have to apply myself (as is the case for EVERYONE w/ add) im sure it's annoying to other ppl. my dad can always tell when im not listening to him and he'll be like, "YOOUU WHOOO JAMIEEE!" anway, i tried the ritalin and it DOES make you concentrate better, BUT...i felt that it made me hyper. it was weird. i was smoking like a pack of cigs a day when i was on it and it would get me kind of nervous. it's like mild speed (why do think these moron kids snort the stuff!) i read up on the side effects of ritalin and the most common one is nervousness. now the LAST thing i need to feel is nervousness, cuz i feel that way already without it. i have some kind of anxiety disorder i think...my stomach is always in knots and i've had several actual pannick attacks in the last few months. i have an appt. w/ a shrink on thurs to talk about that and maybe get on some xanax. so i that is why i try to stay away from ritalin. i try to use more natural methods. gonna seem cheesy, but oh well. i am going to sign up for yoga classes this week and i also take herbs like ginseng and ginko every morning. it also helps to eat right and have a regular sleeping schedule. eat lots of carbs (they give you more energy) and try working out or going for walks. they help you clear your mind. every day i just take my dog and a tennis ball out to this grassy area and play with him and chill there for like a half hour and and just THINK! i love to just think about the dumbest shit, it's fun...lol anyway, set a time aside for you to think that way u can focus on studying after u've had ur "time". maybe it'll work, i dunno.... btw, i am very impressed that you all are sharing your experiences and not putting on this front. i think that is really cool...most ppl are ashamed of having that sort of problem, and all of us, obviously aren't |
yea an-
LOOK AT THE LITTLE BUNNY!
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| Originally posted by mr_sax yea an- LOOK AT THE LITTLE BUNNY! |
wow, thx for all the feedback peeps! Much appreciated! 
bad news though....ive tried just about all your suggestions (except ritalin, :P)...n im still unmotivated....how tha hell do i still have a 3.8 gpa (w/ three AP classes)? hmmm, i need some help lol
im out....
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| Originally posted by Slylee i know what u mean about the ritalin abt (DAMNIT! every time i write ur name i have to go check that it's ABT and not ATB...LOL) anyway! when girls have add, it's a bit different. i was definately a hyper active child...always runnin around and talkin all the time. but as i got older the opposite started to happen. i was just always day dreaming and forgetting stuff. i was always in a "zone". ppl would be talking to me and after they were done, i'd be like, "wait, so WHAT did u just say??" hahah basically i come off as an air head but im really not. i am highly intelligent, i just have to apply myself (as is the case for EVERYONE w/ add) im sure it's annoying to other ppl. my dad can always tell when im not listening to him and he'll be like, "YOOUU WHOOO JAMIEEE!" anway, i tried the ritalin and it DOES make you concentrate better, BUT...i felt that it made me hyper. it was weird. i was smoking like a pack of cigs a day when i was on it and it would get me kind of nervous. it's like mild speed (why do think these moron kids snort the stuff!) i read up on the side effects of ritalin and the most common one is nervousness. now the LAST thing i need to feel is nervousness, cuz i feel that way already without it. i have some kind of anxiety disorder i think...my stomach is always in knots and i've had several actual pannick attacks in the last few months. i have an appt. w/ a shrink on thurs to talk about that and maybe get on some xanax. so i that is why i try to stay away from ritalin. i try to use more natural methods. gonna seem cheesy, but oh well. i am going to sign up for yoga classes this week and i also take herbs like ginseng and ginko every morning. it also helps to eat right and have a regular sleeping schedule. eat lots of carbs (they give you more energy) and try working out or going for walks. they help you clear your mind. every day i just take my dog and a tennis ball out to this grassy area and play with him and chill there for like a half hour and and just THINK! i love to just think about the dumbest shit, it's fun...lol anyway, set a time aside for you to think that way u can focus on studying after u've had ur "time". maybe it'll work, i dunno.... btw, i am very impressed that you all are sharing your experiences and not putting on this front. i think that is really cool...most ppl are ashamed of having that sort of problem, and all of us, obviously aren't |
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| Originally posted by astroboy don't overdo the ginko and ginseng. IF you get nervous and get an upset stomach (like before exams - i used to get this bad when i was at school)try ginger: you can just chew on it, but it tastes like soap so you can get dried and powdered ginger in capsules... btw its also good for motion sickness (at least as effective as conventional drugs apparently). Yoga and Tai Chi (or any form of Chi Gung) are good, cos they help you know your body/mind and control them yourself rather than relying on drugs/herbs if you know what i mean. |
i dont really like ginger though...they serve it w/ sushi to get rid of the taste when u have diff kinds of it
when I was in highschool and had something I HAD to do I'd usually put it off until the very last minute and then at 10pm the night before it was due make myself a big batch of chocolate fudge, sit down and do it. My reward was that I got to eat all that fudge and the next day on top of being tired from staying up until 5,6 or something not going to bed at all, I was so sick from eating the whole batch of fudge that I usually just dropped my assignment off and went straight back home to bed....no questions asked cause I looked like hell hehe
if you're a fudge fan, pm me, I'll give you the recipe mmmmmm good!!!
-bug_bite 
p.s.
this is not a good resolution if you have an exam to study for...exams and sick from fudge do not mix well haha
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| Originally posted by trancaholic ABT: Apparently there's one thing you *do* enjoy: Writing. With all those never-ending posts here, your ability to get worked up on just about every single subject and the way you back up your opinions with solid arguments, you ought to pursue a carreer in jounalism, authoring or politics. IMO. |
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| Originally posted by bug_bite Okay I know I just posted a reply to the original thread but I've got to reply to this and say something to you all... I, like ABT, have finished highschool and just basically fucked around with my life. I have student debt because I went to school and hated it and my student debt is WAY higher than it should be because I was careless and just spent spent spent...not to mention I have been bumping around from job to job for a while. I had a number of really good jobs because I'm good at whatever I try (working for a bank, working for an isp, working for a university) but I get bored quickly. It's gotten to the point where no good jobs will hire me because I'm a risk, I move around too much, and so I'm working in food service which I really despise, and making barely enough money to make my loan payments each month. The thing is though, I know I want to go to school and after my last failed attempt I decided I wan't going back unless I honestly wanted to take the program because that was the only way I knew I would stick with it. It has to be something that not only interests me but that I want so badly that I look forward to going to school because I know myself and I can't do it if I am bored. |
, that is the EXACT same thing i did and problem i am dealing with...... the only thing is i don't know what i want to do. I wanted to try and join the Air Force or something, something to do to pass the life away, you know? getting kinda boring. I really like computers and stuff, but it seems like no matter how much you learn, there are still a million 10 year olds out there who know more than you.... plus that job market is so volatile - this one friend of mine (a real computer whiz), worked for this networking company and he was making good money- now they went under and he can't find another job...... that sucks!
PHACK!
This is phacking twice my post got lost!! GGGGRRRRR!!!
Ah, screw it.. I was going to make a contribution by adding graphoanalysis into the picture but this post-submit is *bitching* at me.
So unless someone (uh) could motivate me to write it again the third time, give me shout!
ARGH!
u4ea <-- busy scribbling
pleeease u4ea post up your post...lol
you are always posting significant and worthy posts, they're interesting to read...helpful n intelligent too! 


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| Originally posted by plastikE pleeease u4ea post up your post...lol you are always posting significant and worthy posts, they're interesting to read...helpful n intelligent too! ![]() ![]() |
School
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| I'm not stressing about it though. As everyone else said, NOT stressing about it is the key. That's why i'm not depressed or anything. you just got to shrug it off and say "f#ck it!! I'll live each day at a time, and do what i have to do!" that works in the chillax department. And like was mentioned earlier, when you get projects, if you do the bulk of them the DAY they are assigned, you feel so good about yourself the next 2 weeks until its due. It feels like a giant weight is off your shoulders. ....... Man i miss that feeling. |
Heck, laugh at the chicken scribbles you doing with the left hand! ..YOu can also draw, it's recommended.
Hey u4ea, I found that last post extremely interesting. Could you suggest some books for me to read if I wanna learn more about this?
Yeah, interesting stuff. 
The only problem I have with graphology (from what little I know of the subject - namely a book my parents own, god knows why, called "Handwriting analysis" by some chap called Chris Morgan..... there's a book for you astroboy
) is that handwriting traits are often developed more from what you have been taught in school with regards to the style, form, conventions and whatnot of handwriting, rather than because of your latent personality type.
For instance, my class, in grade 4, was taught, by our teacher, to use "loops" in our conjoined handwriting style, where as the other two grade 4 classes were never taught this way. Thus, the majority of my class ended up using loops in everyday handwriting (as I still do today) whereas few - if any - of the kids from the other classes ended up using this style.
Now, in this book I'm mentioned before, it uses the preponderance and style of loops - or lack thereof - as ways to determine your sensibility, pragmatism and sexual drive (in the lower zone - y, g, p, q etc) or your intelligence, imagination and enthusiasm in the upper zones (h, k, l, b etc.). Also, the use of loops (particularly pronounced or large loops) demonstrate flair or creativity. Now, taking this in mind, how can you possibly apply these techniques the those who have been made to incorporate them into their writing style (in my case) or those who have never been taught how to incorporate them in the first place (as with the other grade 4 classes)?
There are other similar objections I have to graphology as a psycholanalytical tool (which I lack the motivation to go into right now - excuse the pun), though, having said that, I think it can, when applied loosely, give some limited insight into certain personality traits.
For instance, when I first flicked through this book (a couple of years ago) one thing that really stuck with me was how the slant of the handwriting style can be used to infer psycological orientation. If, in the writings of a right-handed person, the slant of the writing is to the left then it implies introverted tendancies, if it slants to the right then it implies extroverted tendencies. The differing degrees of the slant (or the severity of the slant) determines just how strong one's psychological orientation is. Since I read that, I have looked at the writing styles of my friends, and it does ring true that the more conservative of them do slant their handwriting to the left, whereas the more extroverted ones slant it to the right. For whatever reason this may be, it does seem to more or less ring true time and time again, which has never failed to impress me.
Similarly, as friends are supposed to have common interests - be similar people - I do notice that many of my friends, particularly the ones I am close to, have very similar styles. My best friend, for instance, has a remarkably similar writing style: noticably slanted to the right, short, tight loops in both the upper and lower zones, tight, compact lettering and an overall flowing style. It may seem like bollocks, but even before I knew what graphology was, I'd noticed the similarity in the way we write.
So yeah, to cut a long story short, I think that graphology can offer some useful insights into general personaility traits (if we take it from the Jungian perspective, we can possibly ascertain psychological orientation and the dominant and inferior personality types from the four categories) but I think to use graphology as a specific analytical tool - in the Freudian sense of all actions being governed by the super-ego to the extent where all actions are deliberate psychological reactions to any given stimulous - is where it begins to grasp at straws somewhat.
Nonetheless, it's all very interesting.
My point? None really.
Carry on then. 
my brain is full:P
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| Originally posted by astroboy Hey u4ea, I found that last post extremely interesting. Could you suggest some books for me to read if I wanna learn more about this? |
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| The only problem I have with graphology (from what little I know of the subject - namely a book my parents own, god knows why, called "Handwriting analysis" by some chap called Chris Morgan..... there's a book for you astroboy ) is that handwriting traits are often developed more from what you have been taught in school with regards to the style, form, conventions and whatnot of handwriting, rather than because of your latent personality type. |
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| For instance, my class, in grade 4, was taught, by our teacher, to use "loops" in our conjoined handwriting style, where as the other two grade 4 classes were never taught this way. Thus, the majority of my class ended up using loops in everyday handwriting (as I still do today) whereas few - if any - of the kids from the other classes ended up using this style. Now, in this book I'm mentioned before, it uses the preponderance and style of loops - or lack thereof - as ways to determine your sensibility, pragmatism and sexual drive (in the lower zone - y, g, p, q etc) or your intelligence, imagination and enthusiasm in the upper zones (h, k, l, b etc.). Also, the use of loops (particularly pronounced or large loops) demonstrate flair or creativity. Now, taking this in mind, how can you possibly apply these techniques the those who have been made to incorporate them into their writing style (in my case) or those who have never been taught how to incorporate them in the first place (as with the other grade 4 classes)? |
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| There are other similar objections I have to graphology as a psycholanalytical tool (which I lack the motivation to go into right now - excuse the pun), though, having said that, I think it can, when applied loosely, give some limited insight into certain personality traits |
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| For instance, when I first flicked through this book (a couple of years ago) one thing that really stuck with me was how the slant of the handwriting style can be used to infer psycological orientation. If, in the writings of a right-handed person, the slant of the writing is to the left then it implies introverted tendancies, if it slants to the right then it implies extroverted tendencies. The differing degrees of the slant (or the severity of the slant) determines just how strong one's psychological orientation is. Since I read that, I have looked at the writing styles of my friends, and it does ring true that the more conservative of them do slant their handwriting to the left, whereas the more extroverted ones slant it to the right. For whatever reason this may be, it does seem to more or less ring true time and time again, which has never failed to impress me. |
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| Similarly, as friends are supposed to have common interests - be similar people - I do notice that many of my friends, particularly the ones I am close to, have very similar styles. My best friend, for instance, has a remarkably similar writing style: noticably slanted to the right, short, tight loops in both the upper and lower zones, tight, compact lettering and an overall flowing style. It may seem like bollocks, but even before I knew what graphology was, I'd noticed the similarity in the way we write. |
I don't know what the heck you mean by those descriptions. Pictures does wonder for my eyes! hehe :P | quote: |
| So yeah, to cut a long story short, I think that graphology can offer some useful insights into general personaility traits (if we take it from the Jungian perspective, we can possibly ascertain psychological orientation and the dominant and inferior personality types from the four categories) but I think to use graphology as a specific analytical tool - in the Freudian sense of all actions being governed by the super-ego to the extent where all actions are deliberate psychological reactions to any given stimulous - is where it begins to grasp at straws somewhat. |

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| Originally posted by Slylee my brain is full:P |
"...Where is my motivation! I'm losing my motivation! Im smoking my, INSPI-RATION!!!!!...."
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