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Posted by nchs09 on Jun-07-2005 16:05:

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
I didn't talk to my mom for over a year but we started talking again over the past few months. I guess that's a good thing.
unless its teh nasteh talk...

Posted by Psy-T on Jun-07-2005 16:06:

i dont connect with my parents on any level,
i just go through what society seems to require as long as it doesnt take much effort

Posted by UWM on Jun-07-2005 16:06:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
unless its teh nasteh talk...

What's wrong with you?

Posted by nchs09 on Jun-07-2005 16:07:

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
What's wrong with you?
im a perv

Posted by jonze on Jun-07-2005 16:08:

1. not really
2. she emails me at work all the time
3. they're still together
4. i dont remember sleeping with my parents
5. a gift certificate to tiffany's

Posted by Estella on Jun-07-2005 16:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
so do you think then that you choose men on ideals of what you would've like your father to be like?

hmmmm... Well, to be blantantly honest, when I think of him I am disgusted. So I guess my ideals are based on past relationships, my mom's relationships as I was a third party witness, friend relationships and then of course.... socities ideals.

Posted by Estella on Jun-07-2005 16:10:

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
What's wrong with you?

Posted by Floorfiller on Jun-07-2005 16:12:

your mom goes to college...

Posted by Psy-T on Jun-07-2005 16:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
your mom goes to college...

snap?

Posted by Estella on Jun-07-2005 16:16:

Posted by mentalbarter on Jun-07-2005 16:16:

I think the older you get the more you appreciate everything your parents have done for you, regardless of the fact you didnt ask to be born and thus they are obliged to give you whatever you want
Both my dad and I are fairly quiet and as such we dont really speak much, which is a bit shit really, cos i dont know anything about his life pre-marriage. Get on good with my mum, though im a typical bloke and rarely ring to find out how they are.

Posted by EpiphanE on Jun-07-2005 16:20:

Mothers and Fathers are on total opposite sides of the parental spectrum. I can't find too many similarities in my mom and dad, makes me wonder sometimes how they have remained together for over 20 years!!!!

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NO. I've never met my father. I can say that has definately distorted my perceptions, yes.

I have a step brother that has never met his dad and it has always been hard on him. He has made some poor choices as a result too.. I have experienced what you are going through, and am sorry that you are.

Posted by Vlad on Jun-07-2005 16:28:

I still live with my parents and Im 21, my mom does my laundry and stuff... than again I dont live by myself.

As for socializing, hardly at all, if anything I prefer that my parents dont talk to me at all for the most part. Most of what gets uttered out of their mouth has nothing to do with me or its some pessimistic/negative remark and I personally dont care to hear it.

I kiss my best friends mom when I see her, but I dont kiss my own.

Posted by Estella on Jun-07-2005 16:29:

quote:
Originally posted by EpiphanE
Mothers and Fathers are on total opposite sides of the parental spectrum. I can't find too many similarities in my mom and dad, makes me wonder sometimes how they have remained together for over 20 years!!!!

I have a step brother that has never met his dad and it has always been hard on him. He has made some poor choices as a result too.. I have experienced what you are going through, and am sorry that you are.

Thanks! It has never been hard on me though. You can't really ponder and sulk on something that was never there.

Posted by Slylee on Jun-07-2005 16:30:

i'm not a dude, but i am extremely affectionate with both of my parents. i jump on my dad and kiss his cheeks to death whenever i see him and my mom and i kiss and hug every time we see each other too, which is like at least every other day (she lives 5 minutes away). verbally too... we say, "i love you" on the phone when we hang up every time. i think that's so important.

i've had boyfriends who don't even say "i love you" to their parents...i get mortified by that. i just do not understand it. my family is so loving and affectionate.

Posted by Vlad on Jun-07-2005 16:35:

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Originally posted by Slylee
i've had boyfriends who don't even say "i love you" to their parents...i get mortified by that. i just do not understand it. my family is so loving and affectionate.

My parents dont say it to me nor do I say it to them.

My parents and I are just on 2 different universes.

Posted by zokissima on Jun-07-2005 16:40:

I can't remember the last time, if ever, that I told my parents that I love them, or that they've said it to me. We both know it, so it's not like we need to say it every time to reaffirm it. There is no affection between myself and my mother. Once in a while, it'll be a hug, at home, but that's it. It's just our family dynamic.

Posted by mentalbarter on Jun-07-2005 16:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
i've had boyfriends who don't even say "i love you" to their parents...i get mortified by that. i just do not understand it. my family is so loving and affectionate.

Don't even??? I wouldve thought most blokes never say that to their parents, except in birthday cards
I haven't since i was maybe 3 or something

Posted by Miss Bliss on Jun-07-2005 16:50:

That a man loves his mother is pretty much a requirement for me to date someone lol.. I think it shapes his attitudes towards women and shows that he's a caring person... I can't stand people who unjustly hate their parents and are ungrateful...

Posted by nchs09 on Jun-07-2005 16:55:

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Originally posted by Miss Bliss
That a man loves his mother is pretty much a requirement for me to date someone lol.. I think it shapes his attitudes towards women and shows that he's a caring person... I can't stand people who unjustly hate their parents and are ungrateful...
we should make babys asap.. i lav my mum i kid

Posted by Vlad on Jun-07-2005 18:01:

Posted by Slylee on Jun-07-2005 18:50:

i guess guys are different, but i'm with miss bliss. unless u had horrible abusive parents, i am turned off by a guy who has a shitty attitude towards his parents...more specifically his mom.

i'm not saying my family is right to be like we are...actually, my parents gave me way too much attention and love when i was a baby/kid, so i'm sure that's the reason for my constant need for affection and attention from my partners. but i give it back just as much as i expect it, so i should probably be with a guy who is very loving and kinda needy in that respect too so we can just smother the crap out of each other.

Posted by EpiphanE on Jun-07-2005 19:05:

Never would have thought a girl would judge a guy based on his family attitudes. Nice to know I guess.

Posted by kr00t0n on Jun-07-2005 19:09:

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Originally posted by EpiphanE
Never would have thought a girl would judge a guy based on his family attitudes. Nice to know I guess.

Thinking bigger picture and future like, it will obviously have a huge impact on how he would function in his own family

Posted by Dervish on Jun-07-2005 19:32:

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Originally posted by Slylee i've had boyfriends who don't even say "i love you" to their parents...i get mortified by that. i just do not understand it. my family is so loving and affectionate.

I'm one of thouse, with my mum I'm not atall touchy and all that stuff. My dad I'll toy fight and stuff, and when we are both pissed we'll talk about that kinda stuff.

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