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Posted by Mr. Pink on Jun-13-2005 17:47:

man....... i love girls that are freaks.

not kinky, oh my god wtf are you doing, kinky...

but oh my god thats so damn sexy, kinky

....if that makes sense

Posted by Slylee on Jun-13-2005 17:50:

u like to have your balls stomped on with stilettos don't lie.

Posted by JeasusIZaPimp on Jun-13-2005 17:50:

LOL! Yes, I agree. I've had those 'beginings' where Im like "whoa, maybe this will be that NICE LOVE MAKING I hear about" but that just never seems to be the outcome. I would say love making is for people who dont have ADD because I cant keep that slow pace for the life of me.

Posted by Aiwendil on Jun-13-2005 18:00:

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Originally posted by Slylee
u like to have your balls stomped on with stilettos don't lie.

I prefer she use a large pipe wrench!

Posted by l�cid on Jun-13-2005 18:36:

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Originally posted by Slylee
making love is gay now that i think about it. i mean really, what the hell is "making love"

gazing into each other's eyes and crying and saying, "baby i love you forever" while you "fuck"?

hahahah

it seems like every time i try to be romantic and light candles and get cool whip and "MAKE LOVE", i end up screaming, "oh yea baby fuck me harder" and it just kills the mood.

i think making love is more about what you feel inside, than what your settings are around you. anyone can light candles and be romantic and that's what all my past boyfriends did when they thought we were "making love"... but really, making love is not about candles and roses and pure moods shit. making love is about being so deeply in love and just wanting to pull your partner closer and deeper, like you just want to consume them entirely into your little bubble of passion. when that feeling is mutual, it's amazing.

making love doesn't have to be sappy and romantic. it doesn't have to be slow and gentle. it doesn't have to be on special occasions. in fact, it shouldn't be. it's almost like people are trying too hard sometimes. it should just be intense and passionate, physically and emotionally (hence why you can make love and fuck at the same time)... and that's something you can't force with just anyone. it takes 2 people on the same level and you'll know when it's there.

Posted by Slylee on Jun-13-2005 18:49:

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Originally posted by l�cid
i think making love is more about what you feel inside, than what your settings are around you. anyone can light candles and be romantic and that's what all my past boyfriends did when they thought we were "making love"... but really, making love is not about candles and roses and pure moods shit. making love is about being so deeply in love and just wanting to pull your partner closer and deeper, like you just want to consume them entirely into your little bubble of passion. when that feeling is mutual, it's amazing.

making love doesn't have to be sappy and romantic. it doesn't have to be slow and gentle. it doesn't have to be on special occasions. in fact, it shouldn't be. it's almost like people are trying too hard sometimes. it should just be intense and passionate, physically and emotionally (hence why you can make love and fuck at the same time)... and that's something you can't force with just anyone. it takes 2 people on the same level and you'll know when it's there.

hmmm...well sometimes during sex or after i would want to crawl inside his body and live there, that way we'd REALLY be close forever. is that making love?

Posted by l�cid on Jun-13-2005 19:11:

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Originally posted by Slylee
hmmm...well sometimes during sex or after i would want to crawl inside his body and live there, that way we'd REALLY be close forever. is that making love?

if it feels like it is to you, then it is!

Posted by Slylee on Jun-13-2005 19:13:

hmmm what about if you want to cut up their brains and put it in a frying pan w/ some butter and garlic and eat them, that way they'll always be a part of you?

Posted by Danny Ocean on Jun-13-2005 19:14:

Posted by Slylee on Jun-13-2005 19:14:

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Originally posted by Danny Ocean
i know exactly what youre talking about...

did you and lucid make love??

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jun-13-2005 19:28:

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Originally posted by Slylee
did you and lucid make love??

no, they just fucked.

I would suggest the difference between making love and fucking is more to do with motivation then anything else. If the desire to have an orgasam is what motivates you to sex then what you are doing is fucking. If your goal is to create a deeper feeling of unity and intamacy between you and your partner then you are making love.

Posted by DigitalPhoenix on Jun-13-2005 19:33:

I just say:

"Get on all 4 and stick out your ass"
She can tell you whatever afterwards.

Posted by l�cid on Jun-13-2005 19:33:

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Originally posted by Slylee
hmmm what about if you want to cut up their brains and put it in a frying pan w/ some butter and garlic and eat them, that way they'll always be a part of you?

mmmm butter and garlic! that is love!!

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I would suggest the difference between making love and fucking is more to do with motivation then anything else. If the desire to have an orgasam is what motivates you to sex then what you are doing is fucking. If your goal is to create a deeper feeling of unity and intamacy between you and your partner then you are making love.

good point. i didn't think of that but you are right on!

Posted by JeasusIZaPimp on Jun-13-2005 19:34:

Interesting explaination. Now, in your theory is it possible for one person to be making love in hopes of having more while the other is on an entirely different page and is just fucking?

Posted by UWM on Jun-13-2005 19:35:

Posted by l�cid on Jun-13-2005 19:40:

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Originally posted by JeasusIZaPimp
Interesting explaination. Now, in your theory is it possible for one person to be making love in hopes of having more while the other is on an entirely different page and is just fucking?

yes, and i think that happens more often than people would like to admit. i mean i don't want to stereotype... but for many women, sex is an emotional thing, and for many men it's a physical thing. i think it happens quite often where the woman (or girl) is having sex to try to form a closer emotional connection, where the guy is just doing it to get off.

Posted by JeasusIZaPimp on Jun-13-2005 19:50:

lol, yes I agree. But I only agree in the sense that women tip the scales as far as men/women who get emotional. Men can be lil bitches too. lol, no offense guys..but there are a few of you out there that just dont go away. And at the same time there are women out there who just want to get off too. I think we are all screwed and we should stop talking about it and just bang.

Posted by l�cid on Jun-13-2005 19:58:

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Originally posted by JeasusIZaPimp
lol, yes I agree. But I only agree in the sense that women tip the scales as far as men/women who get emotional. Men can be lil bitches too. lol, no offense guys..but there are a few of you out there that just dont go away. And at the same time there are women out there who just want to get off too. I think we are all screwed and we should stop talking about it and just bang.

exactly, hence why i said "i don't want to stereotype... but for many women, sex is an emotional thing, and for many men it's a physical thing"... you have to take into account that everyone is different, it won't apply to all women and all men, but those ideas apply to a larger percentage of people.

i mean hell, i've told guys that were getting all lovey-dovey with me that i was just using them for sex.

Posted by Floorfiller on Jun-13-2005 19:59:

i've had sex and then i've made love...personally i prefer the love one...i don't think it has to be all missionary boring all the time...you can spice it up a bit...its more as people are saying a level of closeness with the person...

Posted by JeasusIZaPimp on Jun-13-2005 20:09:

I think that this love word thats being thrown around is throwing me off. I have, I guess what you could call a love interest and the sex is much better than other sex, but Im still fucking. I dont want more than what it is, which is fucking, but at the same time I love it!! So maybe if you fuck a girl right she will just love it, worked for me! lol

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