Never bring your "ex" girlfriend to a party!

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Posted by Vivid Boy on Jan-02-2006 05:16:

quote:
Originally posted by EvilTree
Dude, why is this chick sleeping on your bed after that... incident?

After being treated like you've been, I'd tell her to piss off. Chivalry only goes so far.

yeah and dude, if she isnt anything to u whats the big deal in sleeping in the same bed with her? just dont pull any moves and sleep

Posted by Vivid Boy on Jan-02-2006 05:18:

quote:
Originally posted by spitty
ok, but he could be over her, as in he doesn't want to date her, or sleep with her, or have a romantic relationship with her, but still care if shes whoring herself infront of him

esp if they came with just the 2 of them. if i was him i'd feel like a jackass watching her pick up. i mean, what do u do..walk away, pretend you don't notice..or know her..or been catty and make out with a random to "get even" (which is always so obvious and makes you look the fool)

she should showed some respect; at least gone somewhere in private to give the #

my 2cents

so u grab her and u tell her "dont do that shit in front of me. if ur gonna pick up dudes go somewhere else and do it, i dont want to see it."

u dont just stand there. like if its one time id understand cause ur chekcing out what shes doing but by the second time u should be like damn she aint pullin this shit again.

Posted by Sly_Guy on Jan-02-2006 05:23:

Re: Never bring your "ex" girlfriend to a party!

quote:
Originally posted by Mortyman
Everything is settled that we are cool with each other and that's why I can still bring her to a party.

quote:

Now, this is a RECENT split, like within the week.

If you didn't think this was a bad idea you were blind.....things are NEVER cool after a week. Not to sound cold, but really dude, WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?

Posted by dance2dabeat on Jan-02-2006 05:25:

so she was giving out phone numbers/receiving phone numbers???

am I just retarded b/c I dont really see what the big deal is here.

OK yes she was immature for acting that way infront of him...but since when is giving out your number considered "whoring"????

and I go back to what I last said....if he was over her he would honestly not care about her trying to move on.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Jan-02-2006 05:26:

no im just wondering what he was doing bringing his relationship problems to an online message board.hes actually lucky im on little sleep and im not myself or else id be tearing him up right now.

but off to sleep. tomm ill be refreshed and ready with whole page of new dissess

Posted by Sly_Guy on Jan-02-2006 05:29:

quote:
Originally posted by spitty
ok, but he could be over her, as in he doesn't want to date her, or sleep with her, or have a romantic relationship with her, but still care if shes whoring herself infront of him

esp if they came with just the 2 of them. if i was him i'd feel like a jackass watching her pick up. i mean, what do u do..walk away, pretend you don't notice..or know her..or been catty and make out with a random to "get even" (which is always so obvious and makes you look the fool)

she should showed some respect; at least gone somewhere in private to give the #

my 2cents

if that situation were me, I'd just dissapear into the crowd. I don't need that shit, and I sure as hell won't take such low-class behaviour.

And +1 on the above posts of vividboy and dance2dabeat.

Posted by Cosmic Fur on Jan-02-2006 05:30:

Why the hell did u let her sleep in your house? I don't get it. Do you have no spine at all? If what she did bothered you enough that you made a thread about it, when she asked you to crash over at your house, you should have just told her, "why don't you just call up one of the guys who's number you got, and sleep with them?" Seriously, you broke up, you aren't responsible to provide ride/bed space anymore, ESPECIALLY if she's doing shit just to piss you off.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Jan-02-2006 05:44:

quote:
Originally posted by dance2dabeat

OK yes she was immature for acting that way infront of him...but since when is giving out your number considered "whoring"????
.

well because a normal girl it takes some work to get a number. a whore gives it away like its candy. but not even whore. maybe a desperate chick is a better term.

Posted by VERTiG0 on Jan-02-2006 05:52:

I believe the term "saucy harlot" is appropriate.

Or cockholster, whichever you prefer.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Jan-02-2006 05:54:

quote:
Originally posted by VERTiG0
I believe the term "saucy harlot" is appropriate.

Or cockholster, whichever you prefer.

i was thinking pig.

Posted by Jayx1 on Jan-02-2006 05:54:

For putting up with that crap all night and not having the balls to stand up for yourself. I hearby present you the TOTA doormat award

Posted by Vivid Boy on Jan-02-2006 05:55:

best part is he slept on the couch. and she slept in HIS bed

Posted by Cosmic Fur on Jan-02-2006 05:56:

I love the word "strumpet". Ever since I've read Hamlet (I think that's where Shakespeare used it), I always use that word as an stealth diss. It fucking rules cause girls have no idea what it means till they look it up.

Posted by VERTiG0 on Jan-02-2006 05:58:

quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
I love the word "strumpet". Ever since I've read Hamlet (I think that's where Shakespeare used it), I always use that word as an stealth diss. It fucking rules cause girls have no idea what it means till they look it up.

Hahah you too? Fuck yes!

Also throwing "trollop" into the mix.

Posted by dance2dabeat on Jan-02-2006 06:20:

great...

where the hell is my dictionary

Posted by Crazy Serb on Jan-02-2006 06:24:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
best part is he slept on the couch. and she slept in HIS bed

hahahaha!!! i usually pull that off, the other way around... and they never end up sleeping on the couch, interestingly enough.

Posted by stevieboy32808 on Jan-02-2006 06:30:

Re: Never bring your "ex" girlfriend to a party!

Posted by Cosmopolitan82 on Jan-02-2006 14:39:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
yeah and dude, if she isnt anything to u whats the big deal in sleeping in the same bed with her? just dont pull any moves and sleep

OR make her sleep on the couch

Posted by TheVrk on Jan-02-2006 14:50:

Re: Never bring your "ex" girlfriend to a party!

quote:
Originally posted by Mortyman
I pretty much avoided all contact with the opposite sex last night

You lost right here. Be yourself, do what YOU wanna do, because
thats EXACTLY what she's gonna do (as she already did)

Posted by DigiNut on Jan-02-2006 16:04:

Re: Never bring your "ex" girlfriend to a party!

quote:
Originally posted by Mortyman
I thought I learnt my lesson once, but last night it happened again.

First, she pulls me aside and wants to have "the talk" with me about where we are and what's goin on. Everything is settled that we are cool with each other and that's why I can still bring her to a party. Now, this is a RECENT split, like within the week.

By the end of the night she's got, and I counted 4.. yes 4 guys coming to her and she's giving out her phone number, getting thiers and swapping emails and all that jazz.

I have no choice but to just stand there like I don't even know her so she can do her thing. I'm the jelous type, and still am not... but it's all about RESPECT! If you're gonna get numbers or give yours out, atleast go for a walk somewhere else, not RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME

I pretty much avoided all contact with the opposite sex last night just because I didn't want her to think that I'm saying one thing and doing another. I respected the fact that I was there with HER! This is what we talked about. She gave no sign that I was even with her all night when other guys hit on her, which I'm fine with, cause it happens, but everytime a girl talked to me for more than 5 minutes, she was right there reaching for my arm.

Chicks.. I tell ya!

Sorry. I just feel like I wasn't respected and I'm pissed off and I just need to vent!

Wow, sounds like you didn't learn your lesson AT ALL. What the hell were you thinking?

1) You took your ex out less than a week after breaking up, and you claim you are the "jealous type". You're OBVIOUSLY still not over the relationship, what did you think was going to happen? Things are NOT cool within a week after a breakup - EVER.

2) You allowed her to give you "the talk", after you had already broken up, instead of brushing her off and saying "bitch, you whined and cried for me to take you out tonight, don't try to tell me what I'm allowed to do".

3) You sat around while she whored her number out in an obvious attempt to make you jealous, instead of (a) walking away, leaving her to find her own way home and her own place to stay, or (b) hitting on the other girls.

4) You let her "reach for your arm" every time you talked to another girl instead of pulling it away and telling her "hey, don't get in my way, it's over remember!?" She's your EX, not your girlfriend, you're supposed to be talking to other girls!

5) You TOOK HER HOME afterwards and let her sleep in YOUR BED, with no sex! At the very least, you should have boned her and given her the 6 AM walk of shame!

Being this kind of a doormat, I'm willing to wager that *she* broke up with *you*. Grow some balls!

Posted by Jayx1 on Jan-02-2006 17:43:

so many guys are doormats and that only makes it harder for the honest guys out there.

A NOTE TO ALL YOU EMASCULATED GUYS OUT THERE... BEING A GENTLEMAN DOES NOT MEAN BEING A SUCKER

Posted by TrinityGirl on Jan-02-2006 18:06:

sorry to say that but it looks like she just knows how to play the game better than you!

Posted by Jayx1 on Jan-02-2006 18:08:

dont be a game player but most importantly dont be played by the game.

Its easier than you think. You might meet a few less women but the ones you do meet are amazing and better people.

i stay away from head game playing, selfish materialistic people in general.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Jan-02-2006 18:10:

quote:
Originally posted by TrinityGirl
sorry to say that but it looks like she just knows how to play the game better than you!

thats the problem. u bitches think things are a game.

we aint got time to fuck around tho.

which is prolly why u find urself cuddled up to a tub of ice cream watching oprah beside a box of kleenex's every couple of months

Posted by Jayx1 on Jan-02-2006 18:23:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
thats the problem. u bitches think things are a game.

we aint got time to fuck around tho.

which is prolly why u find urself cuddled up to a tub of ice cream watching oprah beside a box of kleenex's every couple of months

Problem is that canadian guys get played like pianos for the most part. See the example in this thread for instance.

Guys that let themselves get played like that deserve the women they get. Sadly though it just makes it hard for those with a spine.

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