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Originally posted by l�cid stop worrying about your image and how you can impress the ladies. just be yourself, do what YOU like, and eventually you'll run into someone who you'll hit it off with. the best relationships usually happen when you least expect them... and the more you try to force it, the less it seems to work.

then why do so many poseurs get girls?

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Originally posted by RapidFire then why do so many poseurs get girls?

I can actually answer that. Those girls are the insecure glammer chicks. You don't want them anyway.

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Originally posted by Trance Nutter I need to find a happy medium (cos believe, I go waaaaaaaaay too hard when I try)

it's true... in my experience, many guys either try too hard or they don't try hard enough. first impressions are very important, and you need to do or say something to make an impact on the girl - something that she'll remember you by, something to set yourself apart from the other hundreds of guys hitting on her, etc... but you also can't be too forward or pushy about it, otherwise it will scare her away or she'll just get annoyed with you.

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Originally posted by l�cid something that she'll remember you by, something to set yourself apart from the other hundreds of guys hitting on her,

I had an idea a few days ago (watching blackadder actually) of wearing a Cardinal's hat whenever I go out.

If your looking for a girlfriend the club is not the place.If you want a little bit of nani hey hey stop worrying so much go out and have the time of your life.Women dig a guy who is fun so if you stop your whining and start thrusting your pelvis, you should see results immediatly.If your an ugly guy you could always wear a uniform...women love a man in uniform.Just make sure its not Cintas or UPS.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak If your looking for a girlfriend the club is not the place.If you want a little bit of nani hey hey stop worrying so much go out and have the time of your life.Women dig a guy who is fun so if you stop your whining and start thrusting your pelvis, you should see results immediatly.If your an ugly guy you could always wear a uniform...women love a man in uniform.Just make sure its not Cintas or UPS.

UPS guys stab bitches

Firemen hose them down.

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Originally posted by RapidFire then why do so many poseurs get girls?

because they appear confident, and they know what to say to a girl to get her interested. guys like that are kind of like knock-off designer watches - they look impressive and shiny from a distance, but once you get a closer look, you realize they're just a cheap piece of crap... and the kind of girls that go home with a guy like that are usually insecure fake bitches and they need the attention (whether it be good or bad) to boost their self-esteem.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak Firemen hose them down.

As a scientist I........................ show them my bunsen burner

i <3 insecure fake bitches

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak i <3 insecure fake bitches

word... 43rd best one night stands you can find

No the best one night stand is the girl who just broke up with her boyfriend bar none.Angry sex with anger not even directed at you...just sit back and enjoy the runny mascara

short version plz

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Originally posted by jdat Ps: you also sound needy " bouhouhouhou I haven't had a gf in months bouhouhouhou I'm at the end of my rope ". That is a bit pathetic.

yeah dont be needy. and you are looking too hard.

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Originally posted by jdat if you're looking for something serious you might never find it at a club cause that's just not the reason why most people go to clubs! If you go to clubs you'll get: whores crackwhores deadbeat whores ( well at least most of the time ). You need to widen your social interaction circle if you're hoping to find a keeper.

I disagree with this.

While it may be the case that you can find all of the above in a nightclub it is naive to assume you can't meet someone of quality. Put another way, are all guys that go to clubs assholes? wtf.

Fact of the matter being - if you enjoy going to certain clubs then you'll probably want a partner who can accompany you... unless you'd rather go out alone and leave them doing their own thing (which is ok if they have their own circle of friends, but, if they rely on you for the entertainment/'going out' then you're going to run into a lot of problems).

And with this in mind, where better to meet a person into the same scene you are than at a club? on TA? (lol) maybe, but, not from the c0r, they're all postwhores.

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Originally posted by Swamper I disagree with this. While it may be the case that you can find all of the above in a nightclub it is naive to assume you can't meet someone of quality. Put another way, are all guys that go to clubs assholes? wtf. Fact of the matter being - if you enjoy going to certain clubs then you'll probably want a partner who can accompany you... unless you'd rather go out alone and leave them doing their own thing (which is ok if they have their own circle of friends, but, if they rely on you for the entertainment/'going out' then you're going to run into a lot of problems). And with this in mind, where better to meet a person into the same scene you are than at a club? on TA? (lol) maybe, but, not from the c0r, they're all postwhores.

there's already a CORe couple. n00b.

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Originally posted by jonze234 there's already a CORe couple. n00b.

I do believe there are a couple of them!

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Originally posted by Swamper I disagree with this. While it may be the case that you can find all of the above in a nightclub it is naive to assume you can't meet someone of quality. Put another way, are all guys that go to clubs assholes? wtf. Fact of the matter being - if you enjoy going to certain clubs then you'll probably want a partner who can accompany you... unless you'd rather go out alone and leave them doing their own thing (which is ok if they have their own circle of friends, but, if they rely on you for the entertainment/'going out' then you're going to run into a lot of problems). And with this in mind, where better to meet a person into the same scene you are than at a club? on TA? (lol) maybe, but, not from the c0r, they're all postwhores.

well said, Swampman!

i'm sure a pretty large percentage of people out at clubs/bars are just there for debaucherous and promiscuous activities, but there are always people who are there for music, friends, etc... they're just harder to pick out and harder to find since they aren't throwing themselves out there in an attention-whoring manner.

it's unfair to write off bars/clubs as a place to meet people based solely on the fact that they're (mostly) filled with sketch people. if you walk into a club with the assumption that every girl there is a dirty whore, then you might be missing out on a chance to meet a nice cool chick who just happens to enjoy dance music.

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Originally posted by klingklang77 yeah dont be needy. and you are looking too hard.

I've done it all, as in, forgotten about it all, just out for a good time, usually though it just turns in to a proper lads night out and we all end up walking home kicking stuff out of frustration. (Im, not a vandal).

Im listening to your tips and I know its my current job/career situation which is stopping me from meeting new girls each day which isnt in a bar/club situation.

Also please dont think I walk around with my head down all the time, I dont go around activley looking depressed, far from it, but it does start getting to you in the back of your mind.

That last girl I was with was going to uni , but her reason for not carrying it on was "you've not had a girl in a while thats why I think you like me".

Can you win ?!

go gay, it's the only way.

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Originally posted by R.j. go gay, it's the only way.

In a way a freind of mine has tried that route and it seems to be working well, in the sence that hes got a few gay freinds, he goes to gay clubs with them and they seem to reel in the girls for him, he gets allot of interest from girls at these places.

I havent tried yet but apparently girls are allot more freindlier at these places and havent got as much of a guard up.

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Originally posted by Swamper . Put another way, are all guys that go to clubs assholes? wtf.

Yes they are.I myself only try to pick up women so i can laugh at them and make them cry.Sex is sooo overated.Now stop trying to look important Swamper and go make me a fucking sandwich

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Originally posted by daeus In a way a freind of mine has tried that route and it seems to be working well, in the sence that hes got a few gay freinds, he goes to gay clubs with them and they seem to reel in the girls for him, he gets allot of interest from girls at these places. I havent tried yet but apparently girls are allot more freindlier at these places and havent got as much of a guard up.

lol no dude. don't go gay. i was being sarcastic.

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Originally posted by R.j. lol no dude. don't go gay. i was being sarcastic.

lol, why I said in a way, I didnt mean just change to gay lol wtf

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Originally posted by daeus Couldnt think of another way to put this across... Last girl I saw for a few months NOT dated, who is my kind of standard -

I hope you have alot to offer in all departments if that's the standard of women you are willing to accept.

Even moreso if she is intelligent and a nice person.

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