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Posted by l�cid on May-24-2006 14:55:

quote:
Originally posted by chadmk3
And shes into me, she text messages me all the time just to say hi and stuff.

sorry to say it... but it sounds like she's putting you on the friend ladder.


Posted by placebo on May-24-2006 14:57:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
sorry to say it... but it sounds like she's putting you on the friend ladder.


lamesicles


Posted by RJT on May-24-2006 14:58:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
sorry to say it... but it sounds like she's putting you on the friend ladder.


I don't know... I seem to remember someone sending me texts etc. saying "Hi" and more... But perhaps that was just because she was bored with the present company...


Posted by l�cid on May-24-2006 15:02:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ RJT
I don't know... I seem to remember someone sending me texts etc. saying "Hi" and more... But perhaps that was just because she was bored with the present company...


yeah... but i followed up those text msgs with sex. this guy is getting texts, but no sex.


Posted by StanVoid on May-24-2006 15:05:

dood listen to the people on here who tell you to take DIRECT action on the issue. This includes talking to her about this with honesty, or flirting with other girls in front of her (you'd be surprised what this can do), or just dumping her (if she likes you, she'll probably want to find out what she did wrong and FIX IT).

do not fucking wait on her in silence, wondering when the day will come that she'll volunteer to play with your balls. This is how you go from being her boyfriend to being her girlfriend.


Posted by {b.s.e.} on May-24-2006 15:08:

chloroform.


Posted by igottaknow on May-24-2006 15:09:

only a real man can bring out the whore in a woman


Posted by KilldaDJ on May-24-2006 15:43:

roofies


Posted by Caela on May-24-2006 15:45:

do u guys fool around at all?? or is she completely unsexual towards you? try like watching a movie or something and say 'omg YOU make me soooo horny'...and if she doesn't help you out, then something is seriously wrong.


Posted by washout on May-24-2006 15:48:

2 months and all u get at drop-offs is cheek pecks.
dont think she considers u her boyfriend.


Posted by Orbax on May-24-2006 16:09:

most of you are fucked up. Sex is a large step for a lot of people. It implies a level of commitment that just cant be there after 2 months.

Some people obviously look at it as a mindless hump reflex, but I would ask her "what does sex MEAN to you?"

also, im just going to say right now that if youre thinking about cheating on some awesome girl so you can get laid break up with her so she doesnt have to date a raging piece of shit.


Posted by Caela on May-24-2006 16:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
also, im just going to say right now that if youre thinking about cheating on some awesome girl so you can get laid break up with her so she doesnt have to date a raging piece of shit.


wow...i think this is the first time i actually agree with you.


Posted by DigitalMP on May-24-2006 16:24:

she's on another forum creating the same thread.


Posted by adi26 on May-24-2006 16:24:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
most of you are fucked up. Sex is a large step for a lot of people. It implies a level of commitment that just cant be there after 2 months.


True but you see they have broken that barrier cos they have slept once...


Posted by StanVoid on May-24-2006 16:26:

quote:
Originally posted by DigitalMP
she's on another forum creating the same thread.


and cybering


Posted by grooviebeats on May-24-2006 16:27:

pics or stfu


Posted by Orbax on May-24-2006 16:32:

quote:
Originally posted by adi26
True but you see they have broken that barrier cos they have slept once...


As for most things, the fact its been only once has a reason. She might feel guilty, might feel like a slut. Might not have liked it, might not have liked him, is struggling with wanting to break up with him but feels bad about doing that because they had sex...

lots of things.

Its the mans perogative to figure out whats going on.


Posted by adi26 on May-24-2006 16:36:

Yea, I think the best way to go about is to just be honest about the whole bloody thing and say it straight up - what he feels and discuss what she feels. Just add a humor element to it from time to time so that it does not feel awkward...


Posted by HardTranceProd on May-24-2006 16:44:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
also, im just going to say right now that if youre thinking about cheating on some awesome girl so you can get laid break up with her so she doesnt have to date a raging piece of shit.


On the contrary: it's a pretty good strategy, because he's trying too hard with this one girl, and he needs to look around and see how many other girls there are.

As he gets his healthy needs satisfied elsewhere, she'll suddenly become very interested in him again.

Besides: Why is she so "awesome"? She doesn't admire him or tell him how much he means to her or wants to have sex with him. That's not so "awesome" at all.


Posted by trewqy on May-24-2006 16:47:

Maybe shes just the religious types.

Its hard to spot em nowadays..but i've went out with a coupld of girls that actually wanna wait till marriage for sex.


Posted by Orbax on May-24-2006 17:04:

quote:
Originally posted by HardTranceProd
On the contrary: it's a pretty good strategy, because he's trying too hard with this one girl, and he needs to look around and see how many other girls there are.

As he gets his healthy needs satisfied elsewhere, she'll suddenly become very interested in him again.

Besides: Why is she so "awesome"? She doesn't admire him or tell him how much he means to her or wants to have sex with him. That's not so "awesome" at all.


I seriously feel sorry for your girlfriend and his.

edit: what ethnicity are you haha.


Posted by tampax on May-24-2006 17:49:

the anser is plain and simple, she is cheating on you.

i knew a couple virgin girls, they were just virgins in their vagina....heheh


Posted by Zeiter on May-24-2006 17:52:

maybe she is having sex with your friend and she doesn't want to break up with you just because she'll lose contact with his cock!


Posted by igottaknow on May-24-2006 17:56:

she doesn't want to have sex with you because...


































Posted by FallingMoon on May-24-2006 18:01:

get her alone...when she's not looking pull down her pants & duke her in the booty
she won't be able to resist you then.


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