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Posted by RJT on May-25-2006 21:42:

quote:
Originally posted by DOOMBOT
You're a totally different story.


























Your mom is a totally different story


Posted by deejay2002 on May-25-2006 21:42:

hahahahaha i dont know, ive had this discussion with my gf and i told her that i would feel uncomfortable if she grinds with another guy but regular dancing is fine by me.


Posted by Saka on May-25-2006 21:42:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ RJT
Unacceptable.

Edit: Also, inappropriate.


What he said times ten.
It imo is something that people going out, or people that aren't with someone already, do.
I'd grind with a chick when out, and I'd expect any girl, not in a relationship to, but if your in one, its very very inappropriate.

Hell no.


Posted by LiveTheDream on May-25-2006 21:43:

ad tell her, if she does it agein shes dumped, and if she does, shes dumped. End of story.


Posted by RJT on May-25-2006 21:44:

quote:
Originally posted by deejay2002
hahahahaha i dont know, ive had this discussion with my gf and i told her that i would feel uncomfortable if she grinds with another guy but regular dancing is fine by me.


quote:
Originally posted by deejay2002
Some people say it's dry humping or having sex with clothes on but I just dont see it that way. If the girl wants to go out with her friends and have a good time, which means drinking and dancing with other guys. I'm not gonna say anything about it.




These two statements don't seem to mesh with each other.


Posted by DOOMBOT on May-25-2006 21:44:

quote:
Originally posted by deejay2002
hahahahaha i dont know, ive had this discussion with my gf and i told her that i would feel uncomfortable if she grinds with another guy but regular dancing is fine by me.
Yeah, no touching. I've been out and a girl came up to dance with me but I kept enough distance so we weren't touching but were still clearly just dancing off of eachother's vibes. In that sense, to me, it is okay because you are both clearly just trying to have fun with the music and what is going on. When you are grinding, it is for a reason.


Posted by deejay2002 on May-25-2006 21:44:

quote:
Originally posted by LiveTheDream
ad tell her, if she does it agein shes dumped, and if she does, shes dumped. End of story.


lol sounds good but how would i find out about it ?


Posted by PaperBag831 on May-25-2006 21:45:

usually when guys are dancing and grinding is involved, the whole dance is a game -- like founding a land; waving your flag high and saying "hey everyone look! i'm all over this chick's bod! i'll be gettin some tonight! or if not, i have a massive boner right now and will get blue balls shortly!" some types of dancing are usually a way for guys to feel up a girl temporarily in public. so if youre find with some other guy's balls sweating on your girl's thigh, that's fine.


Posted by bas on May-25-2006 21:45:

quote:
Originally posted by deejay2002
hahahahaha i dont know, ive had this discussion with my gf and i told her that i would feel uncomfortable if she grinds with another guy but regular dancing is fine by me.

Regular dancing is one thing, but why the hell is she going off and meeting other guys at clubs without you? If she's talking to other guys that have girlfriends so it's like a couples thing, that's different. Be a man. Tell her to stop wanting to suck other guys's cocks or you'll stab her in the throat.


Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 21:45:

its cool with me. I know who she comes home to!.... My GF recently went on a trip to Vegas and was at the ghoast bar or something and ended up dancing with AJ feely former QB of the dolphins now with the chargers. He was all trying to get her to go back to the hotel room with him and she didnt b.c she has a man at home. Point is if you trust her then it shouldnt bother you. I trust mine but I still put a ring on that finger last month just in case!


Posted by D-res on May-25-2006 21:46:

quote:
Originally posted by deejay2002
lol sounds good but how would i find out about it ?


if you were secure in your relationship you wouldnt have to worry about it


Posted by DOOMBOT on May-25-2006 21:46:

quote:
Originally posted by grooviebeats
I trust mine but I still put a ring on that finger last month just in case!

Just in case what?


Posted by PaperBag831 on May-25-2006 21:46:

ha don't worry about her giving out her number. it's screen names now adays


Posted by RJT on May-25-2006 21:47:

quote:
Originally posted by grooviebeats
its cool with me. I know who she comes home to!.... My GF recently went on a trip to Vegas and was at the ghoast bar or something and ended up dancing with AJ feely former QB of the dolphins now with the chargers. He was all trying to get her to go back to the hotel room with him and she didnt b.c she has a man at home. Point is if you trust her then it shouldnt bother you. I trust mine but I still put a ring on that finger last month just in case!


I disagree - I think the whole "grinding" variable takes it from innocent to inappropriate.

At the end of the day, the bottom line is I don't think it's a respectful act for a girl to be all over another dudes shit when she's in a serious relationship. Same goes for dudes.


Posted by deejay2002 on May-25-2006 21:47:

quote:
Originally posted by grooviebeats
its cool with me. I know who she comes home to!.... My GF recently went on a trip to Vegas and was at the ghoast bar or something and ended up dancing with AJ feely former QB of the dolphins now with the chargers. He was all trying to get her to go back to the hotel room with him and she didnt b.c she has a man at home. Point is if you trust her then it shouldnt bother you. I trust mine but I still put a ring on that finger last month just in case!



thank you, this is the best reply


Posted by LiveTheDream on May-25-2006 21:47:

quote:
Originally posted by deejay2002
lol sounds good but how would i find out about it ?


Thats up to you, i work in the pub indusrty , and know atlest one person who works in every pub in my town. (I have many spies)


Posted by RJT on May-25-2006 21:48:

quote:
Originally posted by PaperBag831
ha don't worry about her giving out her number. it's screen names now adays


Hahahaha... yeah, you have no idea...


Posted by LiveTheDream on May-25-2006 21:49:

quote:
Originally posted by deejay2002
thank you, this is the best reply


Thats becoues he agrees with you.


Posted by trunks1022 on May-25-2006 21:50:

quote:
Originally posted by grooviebeats
its cool with me. I know who she comes home to!.... My GF recently went on a trip to Vegas and was at the ghoast bar or something and ended up dancing with AJ feely former QB of the dolphins now with the chargers. He was all trying to get her to go back to the hotel room with him and she didnt b.c she has a man at home. Point is if you trust her then it shouldnt bother you. I trust mine but I still put a ring on that finger last month just in case!


he's going out with heather mitts i thought



if that's the case, what a scumbag for him trying to pull that off


Posted by DOOMBOT on May-25-2006 21:50:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ RJT
I disagree - I think the whole "grinding" variable takes it from innocent to inappropriate.

At the end of the day, the bottom line is I don't think it's a respectful act for a girl to be all over another dudes shit when she's in a serious relationship. Same goes for dudes.

But dude! His girlfriend danced with AJ Feely, that like... makes him the man!

























In some sick dimented way.


Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 21:50:

quote:
Originally posted by LiveTheDream
Thats becoues he agrees with you.



IM ALSO RIGHT


Posted by RJT on May-25-2006 21:50:

quote:
Originally posted by deejay2002
thank you, this is the best reply




Of course it is, it's the only one that's reassuring you that your girlfriends twat hasn't been violated by several as yet unnamed clubgoers.


Posted by deejay2002 on May-25-2006 21:52:

lol man this thing is getting so many replies...

anyway, let's say your g/f does "grind" with another guy but she doesnt do anything else? what's wrong with that? my girl never goes to a club alone and only goes out when a group of her friends go out which is about twice a month...maybe less.


Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 21:52:

quote:
Originally posted by trunks1022
he's going out with heather mitts i thought



if that's the case, what a scumbag for him trying to pull that off


they are on again and off again i think i guess that weekend he was off


Posted by trunks1022 on May-25-2006 21:52:

quote:
Originally posted by deejay2002
lol man this thing is getting so many replies...

anyway, let's say your g/f does "grind" with another guy but she doesnt do anything else? what's wrong with that? my girl never goes to a club alone and only goes out when a group of her friends go out which is about twice a month...maybe less.


it's the implied action that i would be uncomfortable with


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