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Originally posted by all-nite-freak bros before hos...always

haha, go back to high school

where's that budwiser commercial where a bunch of guys discuss this issue around a table. the decision they come to is ... if she's fine enough, HIT THAT SHIT AFTER 3 WEEKS

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak bros before hos...always

its boyz b4 bitches
seen nigga?

i recently hooked up with my friends ex...but i waited like 6 months

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard if he says no then don't touch her, if he says yes then you need to determine whether he actually meant that or just said yes as to not be a dick.

If he says no but means yes then it's his fuckin fault. I've always had a pretty straightforward, honest relationship with my closest friends, and women never stood in the way. If we were to date/fuck eachothers ex's then we'd ask eachother and that's that.

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Originally posted by Minhaj im in love with my bestfriends ex.

depends. how long was your best friend with her? is he completely over her? did they have a really long, serious relationship where they were "in love"?

if they were together for under a year and both have moved on and could care less about each other, i dunno....maybe u could ask ur friend. But you should also really think about how much you like this girl and think about whether or not she feels the same way. If it�s going to be one of those relationships where you think she�s �the one�, then it might be worth it. But if u just have a big crush on her and u�d just like to date her and fuck her, don�t do it. It�s not worth it.

i only think this is acceptable if you are truly in love with the person and they feel the same, and u see a possible marriage in the future. in the end, you're not going to marry your best friend and start a family with him, are u?

that's the only time i'd say it's acceptable. if ur best friend was with her/him and u spent a great deal of time with them and got to know them and there was always this amazing chemistry but u never did anything about it because he/she was with your best friend, then i dunno.


it just depends. but generally speaking, i'd say it's not right. but there's always exceptions. i was with my ex for 2 years and lived with him and everything. if i had a best girlfriend who fell for him and they wanted to date, i'd probably laugh and be like, "hahah good luck! he's all yours hun". so it all just depends on the relationship your best friend had with that person.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller i've been on the other side of that....so i'd have to say no go.

what about your friend's sister?

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Originally posted by igottaknow what about your friend's sister?

he's more of an acquantence...so it's go go gadget weiner on that one

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH If he says no but means yes then it's his fuckin fault. I've always had a pretty straightforward, honest relationship with my closest friends, and women never stood in the way. If we were to date/fuck eachothers ex's then we'd ask eachother and that's that.

Sometimes people agree to things like this without actually knowing how it will affect them or thinking it through. While I agree, if he gives the thumbs up and regrets it that's his fault, however, the impact on the friendship can be just as negative regardless of fault.

i think if they are broken up, it's fair game. i wouldn't care if my friend hooked up with my ex. she's my EX! who gives a shit

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Originally posted by Slylee depends. how long was your best friend with her? is he completely over her? did they have a really long, serious relationship where they were "in love"?

they were together for 5 years now
he dumped her.
dont know why

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Originally posted by ivanbee i think if they are broken up, it's fair game. i wouldn't care if my friend hooked up with my ex. she's my EX! who gives a shit

that depends on the break up situation. if she broke up with your friend...then might not be good to start banging your friends ex because chances are he didn't want to break up.

rofl i've hooked up with a best friend's ex, like 6 months or more after the break up

however, i don't remember it at all and she was sober

that was a fun night

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Originally posted by ivanbee i recently hooked up with my friends ex...but i waited like 6 months

Miller Lite's "Man Rule"

ive asked two good friends before if i could fuck their ex's and they both encouraged me to do so just so their ex's could get off their backs.
I didn't go through with it, didn't feel right.

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Originally posted by Inconspicuous Ask your friend. If he says not to, don't. If he says ok, don't.

+1

cause if they say ok, they're usually lying.

here's a related story. of course i'll get into the history first so that it seems a little justified anyone bored, feel free to read!

When I was a senior in highschool, my best friend (who was a controlling bitch to me) was dating this guy who was adorable and crazy about her. He had money too, so he spoiled the shit out of her. Anyway, the 3 of us were very close and pretty much every single weekend, it was me, him and her partying and driving around together (he was already graduated). We were like this weird threesome, I was always the 3rd wheel, but never felt like it. I�m sure he enjoyed having 2 cute blondes at his side at all times. I was there for every fight, every makeup�u name it. It was like I was in the relationship with them. Anyway, the summer after high school graduation she turned into this even more miserable bitch, doped up on prozac and xanax and weed and she was treating everyone around her like dirt, including me. She stole her mom�s credit card and went shopping with it and lied about it�just really low shit with no regard for anyone. And for some reason, she started cheating on him left and right. It killed me to keep quiet about it, and I never said anything because I didn�t dare step up to her (I don�t know why cuz she was such a little bitch, I dunno why I was so scared of her). She literally fucked like 4 guys that summer and one of them was her ex from before this guy who was like enemies with him (the new, sweet boyfriend). I started to lose major respect for her and I was just sick and tired of walking on eggshells around her. Everyone always thought she had an attitude problem. She wasn�t friendly and acted like her shit didn�t smell, but she was very attractive and she had that silly goofy side to her that I guess only I saw, because it seemed like I was always defending her like, �oh no, she�s really cool, u just have to get to know her�. Anyway, she had a trip planned to go to Vegas to see her aunt later that summer and we said our goodbyes and all that, and I was actually really glad she was leaving. I didn�t want to be friends with her any more and I thought that would be a great opportunity to let things fizzle out.

Well, she left and of course her boyfriend was calling me to chill cuz it seemed like the only natural thing to do since we hung out all the time anyway and I knew his family, etc..

So we go out the following weekend and drop rolls and drink n stuff, and we both spilled the beans to each other about her. It turns out that she had been talking shit about me all the time to him. That hurt so bad, I actually cried. She was the last person on earth I would ever imagine talking shit about me. Yea, she was a bitch, but she had no other real friends except for me and we had a lot of history (since 7th grade). She was like a sister to me. I was so furious. I thought, �What a backstabbing BITCH!� I was embarrassed that she would trash me like that to people and there I was, her �best friend�, hanging out with her all the time, I felt like an ass. So I figured it was a good time to tell him about the 4 guys she fucked before she left Vegas. Lol he had already heard about 2 of them and she denied it, so it wasn�t like a big shocker to him. I just sort of confirmed his suspicions.

So that was that, and then later that weekend, I think like on that Sunday afternoon, I�m at his house and we�re high off our asses (big potheads back then) from taking bong rips for like an hour and watching movies in his room. And the next thing I know, he grabs my face and starts to kiss me. I felt REALLY weird. I wasn�t as outspoken back then as I am now. Obviously if that happened today, I would have stopped him immediately and told him I didn�t feel comfortable doing that, but I didn�t. And we went through with it. He busted out a condom and I just thought, �oh my god, we�re actually gonna do it� I was kinda nervous, I hadn�t really had any other partners except for the guy I lost my virginity too the year before. So we had sex and I was speechless after it happened. I was just like wow, I can�t believe I just did that.

So then I felt weird and I went home and I didn�t call him all week. And then the following weekend I went out with some other friends and rolled. Ended up touching base with him throughout the night and of course ended up back at his house for a little afterhours with some of our crew (he had been out rolling too at a house party). We had sex again while rolling. Then the next day I was passed out for pretty much the whole day in his spare bedroom and he was up earlier out in his livingroom with his crew, just smoking weed and eating pizza and sort of recovering from the night. Well all of a sudden around 4 pm or so, I get abruptly woken up because he had come in the room, closed and locked the door, and was like, �wake up� and started taking my clothes off. I was literally half asleep. I was like, �wait, where is everyone?� and he was like, �they finally passed out�. It was like he had been waiting for everyone to pass out so he could sneak back in his room and do me. So we did it again.

Hahaha

Oh and the best part is, my �best friend� ended up staying in vegas. Her mom found out about the credit card and called her while she was there and told her she wasn�t welcome home and that she better find a job out there and stay there! hahah

I�m sure that the boyfriend didn�t want to be with me. I think that was his little way of getting back at her, like, �oh yea? U cheated on me? Well I fucked your best friend�. I felt used and I just stopped talking to him all together. Never heard from him again and I never called him or anything.

Found his myspace page though and he�s married now

she has 2 kids and is married too and she's sort of a lowlife now living on the west coast. she always tries to call me when she's in town but i never call her back. i dont see a point. i have nothing in common with her. i have no idea if she knows about this, but she never confronted me about it. i wouldn't deny it if she asked me, but it was so long ago, i doubt she'd bring it up.

i wouldn't be surprised if he told her about us because he's the type to say that to rub it in her face if he's hurt. so to this day, i have no idea if she knows...but i kinda don't care. she was a horrible friend to me.

the sex ruined my friendship with the guy though. he was a real cutie and i was very close with him and then that just completely ruined it and it made me feel slutty. i dont know why i went along with that and slept with him. oh well. lesson learned.

So that's why you haven't emailed me back in the past 2 hrs

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Originally posted by UWM So that's why you haven't emailed me back in the past 2 hrs

sorry! i'll write back now

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Originally posted by Slylee

so moral of the story: DON'T CHEAT!!! if your friend had never cheated...then none of this would have happened.

and no, fucking a friend's ex is never a good idea. the only gray area is if they only went out briefly...and even then, you may want to run it by your friend. sex can ruin a friendship. and who would want sloppy seconds anyway?

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Originally posted by UWM So that's why you haven't emailed me back in the past 2 hrs

That's my fault Bobby, I was taking up all her time. Sorry.






































you bastard!

It would just be so weird to be hanging out with your friend and be like "gd you were right, he has a big dick!" and your friend be like "I know! I hope he's giving it to you as good as he use to give it to me!" YES!!

i've also found that most of the time, it was a lot more fun interacting with the person before you had sex with them...then after. because before, it's all about the chase and what *could* happen. and after, been there done that. not as fun

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Originally posted by Azia It would just be so weird to be hanging out with your friend and be like "gd you were right, he has a big dick!" and your friend be like "I know! I hope he's giving it to you as good as he use to give it to me!" YES!!

lol i know right.

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Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit im actuallly in this situation since ive gone on break with my gf i went back to this lebanese girl that ive dated but she recently broke up with my friend.. now i want to get even more physical with her but she seems a bit hesitant. i think im in love with her actually and ive never loved any girl before. i mean i really like my gf but there is alot of history with this girl. so anywyas yeah it all depend son the situation.. if your friend is like totally done with her then its ok make sure you ask him see i made teh stupid mistake to let my friend date this girl after i dated her and she dumped me.. when i should have said no.. but its no hard feelings because he asked me. am i an imooral person?

dont listen to this man, he asked this girl to go to a hotel room for a date..... although had it payed off, he would be a genius

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