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what happened to steph?

No new yearss day
To celebrate
No chocolate covered candy hearts to give away
No first of spring
No song to sing
In fact heres just another ordinary day
No april rain
No flowers bloom
No wedding saturday within the month of june
But what it is
Is something true
Made up of these three words that I must say to you

I just called to say I love you
I just called to say how much I care
I just called to say I love you
And I mean it from the bottom of my heart

No summers high
No warm july
No harvest moon to light one tender august night
No autumn breeze
No falling leaves
No even time for birds to fly to southern skies
No libra sun
No halloween
No giving thanks to all the christmas joy you bring
But what it is
Though old so new
To fill your heart like no three words could ever do.

I just called to say I love you
I just called to say how much I care
I just called to say I love you
And I mean it from the bottom of my heart.

I just called to say I love you
I just called to say how much I care
I just called to say I love you
And I mean it from the bottom of my heart

Of my heart
Of my heart

The worst thing you can do is tell her shes beautiful because girls hear this hundreds of times a day and you dont want to be like every other drooling guy out there... and dont tell her you like her "alot" because this information is assumed being that youre still talking to her. Stay away from all this complimental small talk, its just not worth it.

Take incentive and just say, lets go out for coffee or a movie or dinner, whatever you decide to do - dont word it like a question, make it more forward, dont give her the option to turn you down. And for the love of god dont chase her.

Just treat her like a friend and let it build from there.

Like with my wife, when we first met I would make crazy Photoshops of her and tell her 'PWND' and then say 'WTFNOOBLOL'. And then I'd kick her ass at Halo and make her buy me Taco Bell and never pay her back. Then one day we boom-boomed and it was all good.

See?

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Originally posted by Zombie0729 oneitis

rofl

yea man act like yourself and handle yourself around her as you would were she anyone else.

play hard to get, but tease her. you know... just do it lol

Re: what should i do to get the girl?

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Originally posted by eFeKz she already has a basic interest in me, she thinks im cute, she gave me her number, i texted her a bit tonight but nothing special. what should i do? should i act like i dont care and not talk to her, let her talk to me first? do i chase after her? ask her to hang out? initialize everything? surely these options arent the only ones available, and each girl is different. anything you can suggest to me, tactics as to how to handle myself? thanks.

I'm not going to bother reading through all of these replies, since I'm sure at least half of them consist of "stick it in her pooper." So if this has already been said, so be it:

Above all, be yourself, and be outgoing. Arrange for the two of you to hang out--watch a movie, go to a movie, go to dinner, go to a club, whatever. If she wants to play hard to get and jerk you around about getting together, then fuck it. You are being straightforward, and she is not, so to hell with it.

Anyways, get the two of you together and hang out. Have fun together. Assuming all goes well, tell her you had a good time, and that the two of you should hang out more.

Honestly, the biggest thing you need to remember is not to get dragged into any games or drama. Don't let her play hard to get, don't let her mess with your head when/if she doesn't answer your calls, etc. If she likes you and wants to get together with you then she should be just as straightforward as you are (I'm assuming you're after this girl for more than a one night stand). Don't post another thread in 2 weeks asking why she is messing with your head, because it's not even worth it.

Good luck to you.

Re: Re: what should i do to get the girl?

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Originally posted by THE_Chris Cut all this crap for a start. Thats one thing I cant stand, people not telling each other how they feel because of silly pre-determined reasons about 'who talks first', 'who asks who out', 'who chases', 'who makes the effort' and all that. To hell with all that, just go up to her, ask her out, tell her you like her, whatever. Dont get bogged down on society-induced rubbish about approaching her.

+1

my first step of advice is not to put her picture up on the internet.

r00fies

invite her to ur place... when she rings the bell u gotta do 3 things..


yell from the kitchen to come in, and to close the door.
cover body with whipping cream
run to the living room and be like "soooo..... wanna fuck?"




5% of the time... it works everytime

Dont text message her for one. Just let it happen.

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Originally posted by S-a-M-u-E-l my first step of advice is not to put her picture up on the internet.

it's probably in My Space anyways. kids these days...

1) You're overthing it. If she likes you, just be a man and ask her to go and hang out.

2) If she likes you (which she obviously does because she gave you her #), just be a man and ask her to go and hang out.

3) You're overthinking.

4) You're overthinking.

5) Why would you post a pic of her online?

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Originally posted by Ygrene Just treat her like a friend and let it build from there. Like with my wife, when we first met I would make crazy Photoshops of her and tell her 'PWND' and then say 'WTFNOOBLOL'. And then I'd kick her ass at Halo and make her buy me Taco Bell and never pay her back. Then one day we boom-boomed and it was all good. See?

What a romantic you are Ygrene! Your wife must be very lucky to have you! She's been totally pwned by j00!

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Originally posted by _Ocean_Drive_ What a romantic you are Ygrene! Your wife must be very lucky to have you! She's been totally pwned by j00!

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Originally posted by Danny Ocean what happened to steph?

oh god, what a long story. triflin' ho about explains it.

thanks for all the tips, i appreciate it. i will use the force and ygrene, LOL!

No txt'ing, just fucking call

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Originally posted by pooley No txt'ing, just fucking call

i agree, im not doing it anymore.

guys ive never had a gf before, only buckfuds. its time to grow up. thats why i know like jackshit as to how to do this.

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Originally posted by eFeKz oh god, what a long story. triflin' ho about explains it.

see, i told you it would en by you calling her a whore, just like i did once and you told me she wasn't.

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Originally posted by Danny Ocean see, i told you it would en by you calling her a whore, just like i did once and you told me she wasn't.

emotion clouds judgement & logic.

you called that one. you fucking rock.

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Originally posted by eFeKz emotion clouds judgement & logic. you called that one. you fucking rock.

i know a whore when i see one, now feel free to post her naked pictures!

i got damn near ones, hold on

excellent.

those are the only 2 i can find atm, ill keep looking.

i took her v lol, it was nice. that is the ONLY thing ill miss about her...shes fucking wild.

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