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Posted by arnoldj on Sep-24-2006 14:10:

quote:
Originally posted by Temperate
Nah, My dad has no right to be disappointed in me. I've gotten farther in life than he'll ever be, and I am only 18. The guys a real prick, what can I say? Everything that's happened to him, he GREATLY deserves. And I am enjoying every minute of it right now, because from what my mom is telling me, he can't move his arms.


You know afterall he is YOUR father I might not know what kind of fucked up shyt he might had done to you.. but atleast you should have learned from his mistakes so you wont commit the same erros with your kids.. but wishing him his death imo is terrible, only because he was a bad father to you does that means you have to be bad son?


Posted by Ted Promo on Sep-24-2006 14:12:

quote:
Originally posted by arnoldj
You know afterall he is YOUR father I might not know what kind of fucked up shyt he might had done to you.. but atleast you should have learned from his mistakes so you wont commit the same erros with your kids.. but wishing him his death imo is terrible, only because he was a bad father to you does that means you have to be bad son?


Not if he genuinely dislikes him.


Posted by arnoldj on Sep-24-2006 14:23:

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Originally posted by Demoted
Not if he genuinely dislikes him.


who dislikes who? his father dislikes him? or vice versa?

anyways... What I wanted to point up he might not like his father w.e he probably wasnt a good father after all.. but the main thing I was pointing out was the irony this could have.... lets say that he goes to visit his father to the hospital w.e it would hit his father and make him think that after all the fuked up shyt he has done to his son, after all that he had him there with him in critical times, and he might even question his actions towards him in the past... and the best part that it would shock him in regards of him sons character and courage that after all it happened he was there, something he couldnt do with him... hell he might feel proud and lucky that he has a son with that type of attitude... to make it short its like forgive but never forget


Posted by djkoolaide on Sep-24-2006 15:08:

Wow dude...You're a cock.


Posted by XoxidE on Sep-24-2006 15:27:

this thread is fked up.


Posted by Marc Summers on Sep-24-2006 15:33:

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Originally posted by _Ocean_Drive_
Hopefully your kid will feel the same towards you.


This wasn't directed toward me, but I would like to say that if I have kids, I am going to be a great dad. Everything that my father didn't do, I am going to do it.

And stren, this does seem kind of "Nou". But, when I read Nou's thread about him moving to a smaller house, and how he isn't in a rich area anymore, that seems he is an ungreatful person. I, on the other hand, am not.

My mom doesn't believe in divorce, because she is a devout catholic (I don't know if the bible mentions divorce, but the church itself pushes the nuclear family like no other). She cares for my dad, and my dad just abuses his position as a paraplegic. He says he's unhappy and the only way he can be happy is if he can buy "Cool" (Stupid and pointless in any right mind) things. My mom, being the pious person she is, gives him all the money he wants. She's the worst enabler I have ever seen, because she is afraid of hurting his feelings.

And this is just a slice of what I see everyday. It's really fucked up, and I'll be happy when he's gone, because then, maybe my mom can marry a real man who respects her.


Posted by Rainborn on Sep-24-2006 15:40:

I've had a god damn stroke myself, and it's so fucking scary when you can't move the left side of the body (That's how it was in my case, therefore, my stroke was in the right side of the brain). I looked like a zombie, some guy said.


Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2006 15:44:

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Originally posted by Zeiter
i dont know what your dad did or didn't do for you but I don't think you can wish your dad to die like this and dont care, cause yeah sure you make friends..they come and go, but u only like have 1 father, and im pretty sure you wished you had a better relation with him....my 2 cents, i think its stupid to wish someone's else death more specifically when its your own father...



yea tell that bullshit to someone whose father beat them as a child, or raped them...


Posted by Salegon on Sep-24-2006 15:47:

quote:
Originally posted by Rainborn
I've had a god damn stroke myself, and it's so fucking scary when you can't move the left side of the body (That's how it was in my case, therefore, my stroke was in the right side of the brain). I looked like a zombie, some guy said.


you have experienced a stroke?

you're still a kid! the chance to fall victim to a stroke under 20 years of age is really really low...

damn


Posted by Akridrot on Sep-24-2006 15:47:

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Originally posted by Slylee
yea tell that bullshit to someone whose father beat them as a child, or raped them...


Yeah, I'd love to see what these would say to that!


Posted by Rainborn on Sep-24-2006 15:48:

quote:
Originally posted by Salegon
you have experienced a stroke?

you're still a kid! the chance to fall victim to a stroke under 20 years of age is really really low...

damn




Yes. I was told it happens to one out of one million or something like that, that are young like me.


Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2006 15:54:

i just hate when ppl are like, "that's your family and that's all you got, bla bla bla"...it's like ok, so that gives them a ticket to treat you like crap and hurt your feelings? your family members are just people in your life, just like friends. if you have a relative who is a complete ass to you, or an abusive father or mother, then i don't see why you should treat them any different than you would an abusive friend, just because they're your relative.


Posted by Salegon on Sep-24-2006 15:56:

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Originally posted by Slylee
i just hate when ppl are like, "that's your family and that's all you got, bla bla bla"...it's like ok, so that gives them a ticket to treat you like crap and hurt your feelings? your family members are just people in your life, just like friends. if you have a relative who is a complete ass to you, or an abusive father or mother, then i don't see why you should treat them any different than you would an abusive friend, just because they're your relative.


..it's not that easy for most people.

family and friends are two completely different pair of shoes.


Posted by Dj_Skez on Sep-24-2006 15:58:

I wish I was your daddy Slylee, I would've beaten you with a thick branch every day.


Posted by Rainborn on Sep-24-2006 15:59:

Yeah, and when it comes to your parents, you should still respect them, 'cause they gave birth to you. Sure, it's one thing if they abuse you and shit, 'cause it's like... "They brought me to this world, but they abuse me, so what was the point in giving birth to me?" (In case someone thinks like this), I mean... you're still alive, you CAN do whatever you want with your life. You can run away from home, live with a couple of friends and stuff.


Posted by pvdAngel on Sep-24-2006 16:00:

quote:
Originally posted by Rainborn
I've had a god damn stroke myself, and it's so fucking scary when you can't move the left side of the body (That's how it was in my case, therefore, my stroke was in the right side of the brain). I looked like a zombie, some guy said.


Man, I never thought it could happen to younsters. Did it take quite a bit of time for you to recover like most stroke sufferers? My grandpa had 2.


Posted by Dj_Skez on Sep-24-2006 16:00:

Thumbs up

quote:
Originally posted by Rainborn
Yeah, and when it comes to your parents, you should still respect them, 'cause they gave birth to you. Sure, it's one thing if they abuse you and shit, 'cause it's like... "They brought me to this world, but they abuse me, so what was the point in giving birth to me?" (In case someone thinks like this), I mean... you're still alive, you CAN do whatever you want with your life. You can run away from home, live with a couple of friends and stuff.


Posted by igottaknow on Sep-24-2006 16:02:

is tiesto his dad?


Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2006 16:02:

i suppose, but i still stand by what i say about not putting up with shit from family just because they're family.


but i mean you're right. i love my mom (obviously), but she really drives me up a wall. never supported anything i wanted to do. she pretty much has her own agenda for me, and when i don't follow it, she makes me feel like shit. she's manipulative and narrow minded and never admits when she's wrong.

she is consumed with me and my life and my whole family sees it and says it's unhealthy. she's like obsessed with me and she has done some pretty serious emotional damage to me.

i don't wish she was dead or anything, but she is seriously contemplating on joining the peace corps next year and i will be doing fucking cartwheels if she does. like, "SEE YA! DON'T LET THE DOOR HIT U IN THE ASS"

lol


Posted by arnoldj on Sep-24-2006 16:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
yea tell that bullshit to someone whose father beat them as a child, or raped them...


I have actually seen it happen, but in this case it wasnt rape, it was that they beat the shyt out of him and took the same approach I mentioned above...


quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
i just hate when ppl are like, "that's your family and that's all you got, bla bla bla"...it's like ok, so that gives them a ticket to treat you like crap and hurt your feelings? your family members are just people in your life, just like friends. if you have a relative who is a complete ass to you, or an abusive father or mother, then i don't see why you should treat them any different than you would an abusive friend, just because they're your relative.


Let me explain something to you, at to some degree I do agree with you. But talking in family terms, lets say you were fuking abused and shyt... does that mean that you have to continue taking their shyt and their problems? No, you can simply leave and live your own peacefully life where you can delevop a good attitude and not be sorrounded by bs things that you have to take from other stupid people that are fuk ups.
Sometimes these people have problems and do stupid shyt and take it on to their kids.
In your explanation about the comparison of being abused by a friend and a relative its not a good one. Well, when you are a kid and you are being abused you basically have no controll over it, its that simple. Its like when you fuking turn 18(legal) and you continue to take shyt from your parents, its your fault if you dont do anything about it, you can simply leave the house and start a new life. When you compare it to a friend, idk about you but i wouldn take that kind of shyt from a friend, its like I say I have a problem with you one time not two times. How many cases have you heard of a kid being abused by a friend at a young age? he might be bullied but thats all...

But as I said, when a kid is being abused at a young age, when he is developing its another story, they are afraid and do not take action what so ever... but when they become young adults and decide to still take shyt from their parents its something diffrent. How many cases have you heard of lets say an 18 or older guy/girl still being abused by their parents? This abuse usually takes place when they are infant


Posted by Dj_Skez on Sep-24-2006 16:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
i suppose, but i still stand by what i say about not putting up with shit from family just because they're family.


but i mean you're right. i love my mom (obviously), but she really drives me up a wall. never supported anything i wanted to do. she pretty much has her own agenda for me, and when i don't follow it, she makes me feel like shit. she's manipulative and narrow minded and never admits when she's wrong.

she is consumed with me and my life and my whole family sees it and says it's unhealthy. she's like obsessed with me and she has done some pretty serious emotional damage to me.

i don't wish she was dead or anything, but she is seriously contemplating on joining the peace corps next year and i will be doing fucking cartwheels if she does. like, "SEE YA! DON'T LET THE DOOR HIT U IN THE ASS"

lol


You'll never know what you got until its gone. I know this from personal experience.


Posted by Rainborn on Sep-24-2006 16:09:

quote:
Originally posted by pvdAngel
Man, I never thought it could happen to younsters. Did it take quite a bit of time for you to recover like most stroke sufferers? My grandpa had 2.


Ok, here's how it all went:

I was having woodwork in school, and symptoms started showing (I can't remember what though), so I went to the bathroom, 'cause I was all scared and shit. I stood there, looking at myself in the mirror, and I felt my arm, and the rest of the left part of my body, just went numb, all paralyzed and shit, so I started panicing (of course) and like... tried to move my arm with my other arm, LOLZ, but yeah... so I went out of the bathroom, walked up a few sets of stairs and sat down, until some teacher came up to me and asked what was wrong (As said, I really didn't look cool at all, lmfao) and I said I can't move my arm and shit. First she brought a friend of mine and our woodwork teacher, then they brought the nurses and shitz. So went to the the room where the nurses hang out and shit, and they call for an ambulance. The whole effect started wearing out by then, but as I got into the ambulance it came back. We drove to the hospital, and they did some routine checks and shit like that, and after a few days I was about 70% restored, and I could kinda walk properly and all that.

I stayed at the hospital for about a week, then I went home and stayed there for a few days, before I went back to school. I remember it was SO nice to just stay at home, playing Metroid: Zero Mission!


Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2006 16:15:

quote:
Originally posted by arnoldj
I have actually seen it happen, but in this case it wasnt rape, it was that they beat the shyt out of him and took the same approach I mentioned above...




Let me explain something to you, at to some degree I do agree with you. But talking in family terms, lets say you were fuking abused and shyt... does that mean that you have to continue taking their shyt and their problems? No, you can simply leave and live your own peacefully life where you can delevop a good attitude and not be sorrounded by bs things that you have to take from other stupid people that are fuk ups.
Sometimes these people have problems and do stupid shyt and take it on to their kids.
In your explanation about the comparison of being abused by a friend and a relative its not a good one. Well, when you are a kid and you are being abused you basically have no controll over it, its that simple. Its like when you fuking turn 18(legal) and you continue to take shyt from your parents, its your fault if you dont do anything about it, you can simply leave the house and start a new life. When you compare it to a friend, idk about you but i wouldn take that kind of shyt from a friend, its like I say I have a problem with you one time not two times. How many cases have you heard of a kid being abused by a friend at a young age? he might be bullied but thats all...

But as I said, when a kid is being abused at a young age, when he is developing its another story, they are afraid and do not take action what so ever... but when they become young adults and decide to still take shyt from their parents its something diffrent. How many cases have you heard of lets say an 18 or older guy/girl still being abused by their parents? This abuse usually takes place when they are infant



abuse comes in many forms. of course it's possible for an 18 year old to still be getting emotionally and verbally abused by his or her mom or dad. it happens all the time.

and you're right about once u get a certain age, u don't have to take it any more. i was just trying to make a point in temperate's defense, because everyone was like, "dude, that's fucked up, that's your dad, bla bla bla" but really, we dont know what happened or what the situation is. what if his dad is a drug addicted asshole who abuses his mom? temperate, i'm just giving examples obviously. but all i'm saying is that i didn't judge him by what he was saying about his father. i just thought, "damn, his dad must have done some fucked up shit to him for him to be happy about a stroke"


Posted by Marc Summers on Sep-24-2006 16:23:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
abuse comes in many forms. of course it's possible for an 18 year old to still be getting emotionally and verbally abused by his or her mom or dad. it happens all the time.

and you're right about once u get a certain age, u don't have to take it any more. i was just trying to make a point in temperate's defense, because everyone was like, "dude, that's fucked up, that's your dad, bla bla bla" but really, we dont know what happened or what the situation is. what if his dad is a drug addicted asshole who abuses his mom? temperate, i'm just giving examples obviously. but all i'm saying is that i didn't judge him by what he was saying about his father. i just thought, "damn, his dad must have done some fucked up shit to him for him to be happy about a stroke"


I honestly wasn't expecting alot of the comments that are in here. I was expecting some stroke stories, like rainborn is doing.


Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2006 16:26:

quote:
Originally posted by Temperate
I honestly wasn't expecting alot of the comments that are in here. I was expecting some stroke stories, like rainborn is doing.




are you being serious? you started a thread titled "LAUGHING MY FUCKING ASS OFF" and then proceeded to tell us that your dad had a stroke and you're as happy as can be about it, and you were honestly expecting people to be like, "yea i had a stroke one time it sucked" or "yea my dad had one too, but he's doing much better now"


lol


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