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| Originally posted by EvilTree Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one |
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| Originally posted by coconuticecream ohhh wow waiting for a thread like this to come along. ok I do not do drugs, never have, never will. I drink, but socially and not to get wasted. Party? Yes I do, BIG TIME. Sonic, Guv, whatever.. few times a week. Its difficult convincing my non-party friends why I stay out till 8am in the morning in a club full of cracked out people dancing my ass off. and yes i do keep what I do away from certain people/friends, people are quick to judge and assume things. anwyays kinda off topic. respect to all the people (noticed one other poster so far) that DONT do drugs and still manage to keep up with the rest. Its called love of the music. all you need, all I ever will. (NOW BEFORE I GET LOTS OF NASTY RESPONSES) I would just like to say most of my friends do drugs, and I got nothing against them. now that that is clear. true house addicts? trance addicts? beat junkies? whatever you want to label it. do it sober :P Music is my drug ok lay it down on me :P lol |
The height of sketchy, cant get any more sketchy than this:
LOL
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| Originally posted by Djsketchbag I agree with everything you say it's great that you like to party sober I have lots of respect for ppl that do everything you said is true except for the last statement that true music lovers do it sober ... I like drop at parties but it has nothing to do with my love for the music .... I know I love the music cuz it's all listen to everyday as soon as I get home form work the beats are on till I go to sleep and I�m sober the whole time, I like to spin and I love to share all my finds of good music with my friends... I think it's more I like to dance high I feel less self conscious |
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| Originally posted by Orko I worked for the largest accounting firm in Canada |
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| Originally posted by Cribby My friends judge me all the time. They just don't get it...coincidentally...most of these friends I no longer associate with.  |
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| Originally posted by Djsketchbag some of my freinds who don;t do drugs come like 4am they wanna go home or sit for the rest of the night and bitch at the ppl who took drugs why can't we go home already |
if i couldn't be honest with them, they wouldn't be my friends in the first place. they love my monday morning stories of sketchy saturdays!
Me and my friends all take things to one extreme or another. We may not do it within the same context, nor do we go to the same parties, but we all partake in abuses of various nature (not just substances that is) and leave it at that. I'm not certain why something like that would actually impact a true friendship.
Maybe people just apply the word "friend" to anyone without really thinking about who their true friends are.
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| Originally posted by zokissima Maybe people just apply the word "friend" to anyone without really thinking about who their true friends are. |
yes!
my roomies think i think i party too much
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| Originally posted by FunkyCrew yes! my roomies think i think i party too much |
(if it isnt affecting negatively things you in life, then they have no justification to say you are partying 'too much') 
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| Originally posted by Jem_hadar Tell them where to stick it, Krist. (if it isnt affecting negatively things you in life, then they have no justification to say you are partying 'too much') |
im happy the majority said yes.
u guys are the screwballs in the group lol
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| Originally posted by FunkyCrew aww thanks Jamie haha u should have seen them on that sunday morning of Sasha's bd, when I got up at 8 to go to CZ, they had biggest WTF looks on their faces |
I used to have a friend who judged my opinion on wanting to party when I was 16, 17 �but when she started partying she didn�t judge anymore�
And really I don�t have friends who don�t party .. everyone I know parties , be it once a month or once a week but they still party� so really I guess no..
most of my friends do party, but with the once that dont I just dont talk about it so much. I had one friend who used to be a dick and call us crackers or wat not, but then he went and did it himself and was nice enought to appologize for thinking of us differently just because we like to party sometimes
most of my non-party friends know that i party and don't judge me. i get the occasional, "so did you 'rave' again this weekend?", but just a few jabs like that. even some of my coworkers know and have joined me at guv but that was years ago. i'm very careful when it comes to family friends/relations because they are very judgemental. that's just the way my culture is. some of them know i like to go to guv but they (hopefully) have no idea to what extent i've partied/like to party.
All my REAL friends know what I've been up to lately and they don't judge me for the partying or the drugs, but they do judge me for the music and dancing. I come from a hard rock background, just recently discovered house and house clubs and most of my old friends just don't get it. Also, they're all too cool to dance.
As for the not so close friends, co-workers and family, they don't know about the drugs so they don't judge either. If they did know, there'd be a problem.
Funny enough though, I have been judging a friend of mine for her partying and drug use. That's because she doesn't know when to stop doing drugs and lately has been too high too much of the time and I'm just tired of babysitting her when we go out, she can't look after herself in that state.
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| Originally posted by Djsketchbag LOL that's what i did this weekend and my friends thought i was crazy too |
I've been judged by tonnes of people, and as far as I am concerned, they can all fuk themselves!
you can't be called a friend, if you are going to judge!
you either like them for what they do, or you carry on not being their friend!
I get more judgement from my parents about going to so called 'raves' then I do from my friends who aren't in the scene.
My friends obviously have concerns for what I do, but it was no different then when we were all out drinking our faces off and having afterparties after the top 40 clubs then, then it is for me dancing all night at an afterhours club and they understand that when put into those terms. These friends have even tried to come out with me on a few occasions and can appreciate why I do it but don't like it themselves and are ok with that.
Maybe I am just lucky that way. Even though I don't see them as much as I used to. I still have their respect and they will let me know if they have any kinds of judgements about me and what I am doing.
Even though I've been coming out to more EDM events than to top 40 clubs, my non-EDM friends have never viewed me differently in terms of partying habits. They do however find it strange that I'm capable of dancing early in the morning. But some of them don't seem that surprised at the idea since they have at some point or another have seen how I am on the dance floor...haha
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| Originally posted by Cribby My friends judge me all the time. They just don't get it...coincidentally...most of these friends I no longer associate with. |
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| Originally posted by Jem_hadar Those friends need to check themselves. You're going to a club, and Johny is driving. You know Johnny may or may not do drugs, but he's staying till 8am REGARDLESS! Why the fuck would you drive down w/ him then and be dependant on a ride back home w/ him if you konw he's gonna stay FOR SURE until 7 or 8am in the morning, but that you're likely to be tired and wanna leave at 3 or 4am. Thats bad planning. Johnny needs to make it clear he's not leaving ubtil the party is over around 8am, and that if you still wanan come w/ him, you're more than welcome too.. but you'd better not bitch about wanting to leave early, bc you know the situation before you leave! |
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