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Has a warm hole.




I guess warm is optional.

Handsome
Intelligent
Mature
Honest/trustworthy
Charming
Romantic
Funny
Creative
Talented

Pretty much it.

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Originally posted by chadmk3 honestly, the immediate thing that i need is amazing grammer. if she uses 'good' when she should use 'well'...... well then shes not good enough for me. it weird, i know. but ive cut off relationships because of it.

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*Is thrown in prison by the Court of Irony*

To further elaborate:

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Originally posted by chadmk3 Honestly, the immediate thing that I need is amazing grammar. If she uses 'good' when she should use 'well', well then she's not good enough for me. It's weird, I know, but I've cut off relationships because of it.

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Originally posted by dallastar truthworthy doesn't smoke good looking kind thoughtful FUN FUN FUN

get a dog

attentive
trustworthy
respectful
honest
funny
attractive
good taste in music
good in bed (eager to please)
loves animals
loyal
smart
comfortable silences
likes girls who are of legal age (haha)

i could go on, but whatever.

I wasn't looking for anything when I found Mrs. Hazard. In fact, I was trying to avoid emotional attachment to anyone at the time. Truth is when you find "the one" you know, you know very quickly, and chances are you'll be surprised that much of what you deem to be important now really doesn't matter. If you're trying to pick a partner based on a pre-determined checklist to the exclusion of anyone that does not fit the criteria you're more then likely to exclude some great people, any of whom could have been "the one."

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard I wasn't looking for anything when I found Mrs. Hazard. In fact, I was trying to avoid emotional attachment to anyone at the time.

+1

as longest she can keep up sex wise with me its all good

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard I wasn't looking for anything when I found Mrs. Hazard. In fact, I was trying to avoid emotional attachment to anyone at the time. Truth is when you find "the one" you know, you know very quickly, and chances are you'll be surprised that much of what you deem to be important now really doesn't matter. If you're trying to pick a partner based on a pre-determined checklist to the exclusion of anyone that does not fit the criteria you're more then likely to exclude some great people, any of whom could have been "the one."

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must be able to pull an innocent looking ":3" face

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard I wasn't looking for anything when I found Mrs. Hazard. In fact, I was trying to avoid emotional attachment to anyone at the time. Truth is when you find "the one" you know, you know very quickly,

LMAO. That was the biggest bullshit ever. You became infatuated with her. That sounds like it to me. How long have you been married for?

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Originally posted by metalgearsolid LMAO. That was the biggest bullshit ever. You became infatuated with her. That sounds like it to me. How long have you been married for?

1.5 years.... dated for 4 prior to that.

While I can understand how that would sound like bullshit I assure you, in my experience it most certainly was not. Nor was it infatuation, I knew within two months of meeting her that she was the one I wanted to spend my life with.... it wasn't a lustfull infatuation, more like a peaceful realization.

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Originally posted by Slylee comfortable silences

I love these.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard 1.5 years.... dated for 4 prior to that. While I can understand how that would sound like bullshit I assure you, in my experience it most certainly was not. Nor was it infatuation, I knew within two months of meeting her that she was the one I wanted to spend my life with.... it wasn't a lustfull infatuation, more like a peaceful realization.

I'm an inquisitive fellow. So it was a bad thing to answer me because now I'm going to ask more questions.

From your experience it seems like most of previous relations were silly flings. I don't understand how you could have dated for just two months and you knew. I have a lust for every girl I ever dated. If I didn't feel that way i wouldn't have approached them and asked them out. And most of the time I had a peaceful time with them. We would go out and just look at the stars and stay silent for hours enjoying the view.

Perhaps, what happened is that you never really experienced a real gf before your wife. So what really happened was that you are mistaken. She might be the one for you, but you wouldn't have known that if you didn't date the same type of women.

Of course, now I'm just talking out of my ass. I don't even know you.

undallastar

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Originally posted by metalgearsolid I'm an inquisitive fellow. So it was a bad thing to answer me because now I'm going to ask more questions. From your experience it seems like most of previous relations were silly flings. I don't understand how you could have dated for just two months and you knew. I have a lust for every girl I ever dated. If I didn't feel that way i wouldn't have approached them and asked them out. And most of the time I had a peaceful time with them. We would go out and just look at the stars and stay silent for hours enjoying the view. Perhaps, what happened is that you never really experienced a real gf before your wife. So what really happened was that you are mistaken. She might be the one for you, but you wouldn't have known that if you didn't date the same type of women. Of course, now I'm just talking out of my ass. I don't even know you.

Interesting.... by way of background, I had dated quite a number of women including one seriously for about 5 years. Physically I still have a lust for my wife, however, that has nothing to do with what I was talking about. The peaceful realization I refer to has nothing to do with what we had done together, it would best be described as the sort of peace of mind that comes from being totally comfortable, secure, and at ease. I simply felt that she was it.

It's hard to explain if you have not experienced it.

i am not looking for the one. only a really good friend

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