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Posted by spitty on Dec-06-2006 18:09:

quote:
Originally posted by _EuG_
I make the best bacon and eggs, i add in mushrooms, peppers, then i grade cheese one top, and finaly add some hot souce for for flavour.. HMMMMM good


ruining perfection. blasphemy


Posted by _EuG_ on Dec-06-2006 18:18:

quote:
Originally posted by spitty
ruining perfection. blasphemy


no way... my recipe is 5 star resort quality


Posted by chinaboy1021 on Dec-06-2006 20:39:

before: men> women
now: men = women
later: women> men
after: women = men
after after: men> women

it's an endless cycle. quite funny when a woman uses her womanness to defend herself in any argument or discussion though.


Posted by Halycon on Dec-06-2006 20:49:

quote:
Originally posted by _EuG_
I make the best bacon and eggs, i add in mushrooms, peppers, then i graTe cheese on top, and finaly add some hot souce for some flavour.. HMMMMM good


Posted by rabbitjoker on Dec-06-2006 21:56:

Marriage is an equal partnership - both parties need to be contributing at (close to) the same level for it to be successful.

Each party can (and usually does) contribute in different ways and at different levels at different times - but the overall input/output must have some sort of equilibrium for things to work.

Successful marriages/relationships have (relative) equal contribution ingrained into pretty much every aspect of the relationship: love, friendship, commitment, fidelity, passion, appreciation, housework/chores, financial, child-rearing, dedication, socializing, interests, support, communication, teamwork, collaboration, respect, understanding, patience, adoration, etc, etc, etc.

IMO - this is the key difference between an "OK"/"good" relationship and a great, enduring, totally fulfilling and lasting one.


Posted by Abercrombie on Dec-06-2006 22:02:

quote:
Originally posted by _EuG_
you jus have to look for girls of certain backgrounds and you will be ok


um.... no thanks.


Posted by ShadoWolf on Dec-06-2006 22:04:

quote:
Originally posted by spitty
puke


quote:
Originally posted by preppie chick
blow me.

and when you're done, PEACE.



But what if the man were to equally pamper you? What's wrong with making the person you care about feel amazing?

The problem is not in pampering and caring for someone, the problem is in lack of mutuality and equality.


Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Dec-06-2006 23:03:

quote:
Originally posted by preppie chick
blow me.

and when you're done, PEACE.


Posted by arminOcaine on Dec-07-2006 01:42:

quote:
Originally posted by Time2Burn
The real problem is the fact that marriage is not a contact of love but one of business.


Hate to agree with you, but its true!
Thats why i dont think im ever getting married!!


Posted by Ace_of_Spades on Dec-07-2006 01:49:

quote:
Originally posted by kanaytochyo
Hate to agree with you, but its true!
Thats why i dont think im ever getting married!!




poor kid


Posted by spitty on Dec-07-2006 01:51:

Re: The Good Wife’s Guide...

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Posted by spitty on Dec-07-2006 01:52:

Re: Re: The Good Wife’s Guide...

quote:
Originally posted by kanaytochyo
Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties[b/] is to provide it.

Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too.[b] After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.


Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.

Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first — remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.[b]

Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.


Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order, and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.

Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.

Don’t complain if he’s late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.

Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.

Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.


Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.

A good wife always knows her place.





shadowolf: yes i agree that you should constant show love and adoration. that you should pamper your sig. other..that if you love them or even care for them your should want to make them feel amazing. this article isn't about that. these are roles on the proper place of a wife in the marriage. i don't see an equal partnership. this is 100% giving of mind and body. keeping your mouth shut when hes gone all night or never questioning his decision isn't showing your love either. its being cockwhipped


Posted by Abercrombie on Dec-07-2006 03:00:

Re: Re: Re: The Good Wife’s Guide...

quote:
Originally posted by spitty
its being cockwhipped



Posted by King Luis on Dec-07-2006 03:15:

quote:
Originally posted by English Rachel
STFU all of you! I long for those days, I want to be a kept woman - damn those fucking bra burning bitches!!!!

Now we just end up doing twice as much, fuck!


someones thinking....women want to be treated equally.
grab a shovel and try some constuction work. won't be too happy.
stay quiet and you do less or easier work.

not saying women should stay in a room and cook and clean all day, they should take care of the kids also...lol zing.

but thats a good one....put a ribbon in your hair...lol


Posted by Kytracid on Dec-07-2006 03:35:

I'll take "a woman who knows her place" over a feminista anyday of the week...and twice of sunday (just to stop her from complaining all the time).



Lipstick Feminism can choke on a FAT one for all I care...

It's time to bring the machismo back !


Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Dec-07-2006 03:37:

EQUALITY


Posted by Kytracid on Dec-07-2006 03:38:

quote:
Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
EQUALITY


doesn't exist. nice ideal to work towards though...


Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Dec-07-2006 03:40:

quote:
Originally posted by Kytracid
doesn't exist. nice ideal to work towards though...


Actually it can exist in relationships if you both believe in it.

Case in point...many people who have posted in this thread


Posted by Kytracid on Dec-07-2006 03:43:

quote:
Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
Actually it can exist in relationships if you both believe in it.

Case in point...many people who have posted in this thread


fair enough. I thought you meant in general...for everybody.


Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Dec-07-2006 03:44:

quote:
Originally posted by Kytracid
fair enough. I thought you meant in general...for everybody.


Oh...no...sorry for the midunderstanding. We can try as hard as we can to get there...but I don't think we'll ever live to see the day of pure equality of human beings.


Posted by chikaladka on Dec-07-2006 03:56:

quote:
Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
EQUALITY


screw equality..

I want more!!


Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Dec-07-2006 04:00:

quote:
Originally posted by chikaladka
screw equality..

I want more!!


Hahahaha...I like diamonds


Posted by Rodrico on Dec-07-2006 04:06:

quote:
Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
Hahahaha...I like diamonds


You know, I always hear how certain woman are the first to stereotype men as simpled minded creatures who are fueled by sex, yet all those same woman are always the ones who are the most entranced by shiny objects.


Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Dec-07-2006 04:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Rodrico
You know, I always hear how certain woman are the first to stereotype men as simpled minded creatures who are fueled by sex, yet all those same woman are always the ones who are the most entranced by shiny objects.


It was actually a joke. I couldn't care less about diamonds.

I couldn't care less about the cost of a gift...it's the meaning that counts.

I don't even like people giving me gifts on my bday. I feel bad.

Sometimes I like expensive things. But I want to buy them myself. I don't like feeding off of other people.

Lowest maintance gf ever. Cale loves it


Posted by Rodrico on Dec-07-2006 04:17:

quote:
Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
It was actually a joke. I couldn't care less about diamonds.

I couldn't care less about the cost of a gift...it's the meaning that counts.

I don't even like people giving me gifts on my bday. I feel bad.

Sometimes I like expensive things. But I want to buy them myself. I don't like feeding off of other people.

Lowest maintance gf ever. Cale loves it


Technically I wasnt talking about you, unless you're the type of girl who refers to men as sex fueled simple creatures. But when you mentioned diamonds, I figured I would share the thought.


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