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Posted by asfdz on Dec-20-2006 19:58:

Re: The "silent treatment"

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Is going silent and ignoring a person not one of the dumbest and least productive ways to handle a conflict or react when someone offends or angers you? Especially when the other person is not even clear on what is bothering you in the first place.

It annoys me.

Anybody here do this? WHY?

Anybody here get the "silent treatment" from anybody recently?

Worst way to deal with a problem. I am extremely guilty of it though. I think the reason being, it's the easy way out....and being scared of saying something you may not say after you cool down.
Simply stay AWAY from your woman if you are experiencing the cold front from her. Nagging will only make the ice cubes projectile shoot out of her eyes and into your chest.

Posted by Arbiter on Dec-20-2006 20:04:

Re: The "silent treatment"

quote:
Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Is going silent and ignoring a person not one of the dumbest and least productive ways to handle a conflict or react when someone offends or angers you? Especially when the other person is not even clear on what is bothering you in the first place.

It depends on the circumstances, but obviously if it's not clear what's bothering you then you can't expect it to produce results. However, if someone is foolish enough to be coerced by silence, I see little reason not to take advantage of it.

Posted by Slylee on Dec-20-2006 20:22:

what marc summers said.

it's fucking lame.

Posted by StanVoid on Dec-20-2006 20:22:

Re: Re: The "silent treatment"

quote:
Originally posted by Azia
Nagging will only make the ice cubes projectile shoot out of her eyes and into your chest.

Posted by asfdz on Dec-20-2006 21:05:

quote:
Originally posted by KilldaDJ
silent treatment from a woman = simply doing the man a favour.

And the truth is told!

Posted by Frenchie on Dec-20-2006 21:06:

silent treatment isn't necessary.

Posted by Slylee on Dec-20-2006 21:20:

quote:
Originally posted by KilldaDJ
silent treatment from a woman = simply doing the man a favour.

for sure! i love it when my mom gives me the silent treatment.

Posted by miamitrance04 on Dec-20-2006 21:42:

i gave my exgirlfriend the silent treatment for a week and then we decided to take a break and then we broke up. then after almost a month i wrote her an email apologizing for the way things went down and asking her if we could talk again as just friends not getting back together or anything. well this was about 2 weeks ago so i guess technically i'm getting the silent treatment now. pretty much i pwnd myself....

Posted by dallastar on Dec-20-2006 23:18:

quote:
Originally posted by miamitrance04
i gave my exgirlfriend the silent treatment for a week and then we decided to take a break and then we broke up. then after almost a month i wrote her an email apologizing for the way things went down and asking her if we could talk again as just friends not getting back together or anything. well this was about 2 weeks ago so i guess technically i'm getting the silent treatment now. pretty much i pwnd myself....

I just had the same situation! it's probably for the best and I know this saying is old, but there are PLENTY of fish in the sea so enjoy swimming! I am tired of workign on relationships that just won't work out. Althought I am not really getting the silent treatment, he text messages me "I love you, I love you, I miss you xoxoxoxooxoxox" beyond belief! usually after 10 pm or 12 am (which I am sure he drunk texting!)

don't worry miami trance, you look like a nice looking guy that shouldn't have a problem finding someone new!
xx

Posted by miamitrance04 on Dec-21-2006 01:30:

quote:
Originally posted by dallastar
I just had the same situation! it's probably for the best and I know this saying is old, but there are PLENTY of fish in the sea so enjoy swimming! I am tired of workign on relationships that just won't work out. Althought I am not really getting the silent treatment, he text messages me "I love you, I love you, I miss you xoxoxoxooxoxox" beyond belief! usually after 10 pm or 12 am (which I am sure he drunk texting!)

don't worry miami trance, you look like a nice looking guy that shouldn't have a problem finding someone new!
xx

thanks for the nice words!!! but honestly i've tried talking to girls, hanging out with them and what not and nothing has come even close to that feeling i had with her. I guess i need to be more patient but still it just makes me wonder if i made a mistake. or if its me wanting something that i cant have right now. all this relationship stuff is like wondering around in circles, i hate it!!!

Posted by dallastar on Dec-21-2006 01:38:

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Originally posted by miamitrance04
thanks for the nice words!!! but honestly i've tried talking to girls, hanging out with them and what not and nothing has come even close to that feeling i had with her. I guess i need to be more patient but still it just makes me wonder if i made a mistake. or if its me wanting something that i cant have right now. all this relationship stuff is like wondering around in circles, i hate it!!!

I know! I compare most relationships to a dog chasing their own damn tail!

If you truly do like her, maybe since it's the holidays you could send her a flower arrangement by mail with alil card saying "I miss you, happy holidays" (?) or something like that! I hate giving the silent treatment, it truly seems like it's a game I am playing even though there is no game to play. I really really hate it when the silent treatment is played out to me, which is rare, unfortunatly.

It will take a while to get her out of your head, which is the worst, but the only two things I can suggest is to send her the flowers or a basket filled with stuff she likes, or go rebound and have bootie with someone else?

take care and all the best!

Dallas

Posted by Dj O'Callaghan on Dec-21-2006 01:43:

Posted by dallastar on Dec-21-2006 01:45:

quote:
Originally posted by Dj O'Callaghan
if your looking for the ONE then she'll find you when your least expecting it.

awwwwww that's nice to hear!

Posted by Dj O'Callaghan on Dec-21-2006 01:48:

quote:
Originally posted by dallastar
awwwwww that's nice to hear!

It's true though, when your least expecting it. Could be a night you don't want to go out thats when it happens.

Posted by dallastar on Dec-21-2006 01:49:

quote:
Originally posted by Dj O'Callaghan
It's true though, when your least expecting it. Could be a night you don't want to go out thats when it happens.

I am not expecting to meet anyone tonight - so I will let you know if it happens
heehhee

Posted by Frenchie on Dec-21-2006 01:50:

quote:
Originally posted by Dj O'Callaghan
Don't try so hard and don't look around too much. If you just want to nail some random good looking birds then chat them up and get in there! However if your looking for the ONE then she'll find you when your least expecting it.

Hmmm, this statement is pretty truthful.

Posted by dallastar on Dec-21-2006 01:52:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Hmmm, this statement is pretty truthful.

I thought so too!

Posted by Danny Ocean on Dec-21-2006 01:58:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Hmmm, this statement is pretty truthful.

You never know who's waiting for you
You never know when love is coming your way
But if tonight I look again into your eyes
And it's you and it's me you love
And it's you and it's me you love

Posted by dallastar on Dec-21-2006 02:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Danny Ocean
You never know who's waiting for you
You never know when love is coming your way
But if tonight I look again into your eyes
And it's you and it's me you love
And it's you and it's me you love

that's a sweet thought! did you make that up, or is it a poem or song or something?

Posted by Danny Ocean on Dec-21-2006 02:01:

Kaskade - It's You, It's Me

Edit: Link to single removed by Swamper -- wtf?

Posted by Frenchie on Dec-21-2006 02:02:

quote:
Originally posted by dallastar
that's a sweet thought! did you make that up, or is it a poem or song or something?

Kaskade - It's You, It's Me <3

EDIT: ya, what he said.

Posted by dallastar on Dec-21-2006 02:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Danny Ocean
Kaskade - It's You, It's Me

I just went and saw kaskade this past weeken d- he's all I have been thinking about - he's a super fantastic producer!

WOOT WOOT!

check out the review thread here if you would like!
TOTA review

Posted by Danny Ocean on Dec-21-2006 02:10:

he didn't drop this track?

ahh read the review, he did drop it.

Posted by dallastar on Dec-21-2006 02:14:

quote:
Originally posted by Danny Ocean
he didn't drop this track?

ahh read the review, he did drop it.

I don't remember,

but here are some pic of him, aine and I the last time he was here in the summer

Posted by Frenchie on Dec-21-2006 02:15:

Hi my name is jacked

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