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Posted by Ivand on Jan-16-2007 06:03:

quote:
Originally posted by DarkAngel
Si meng. And the worst part was I couldn't go to a commercial when I wanted. Best I could do is make up some excuse to leave those idiots and get the fuck out of Dodge. Good riddance to that Lisa. RIP to my buddy Tom.



group hug?


Posted by Arbiter on Jan-16-2007 06:04:

She won't hate you for no reason if you give her a reason to hate you.


Posted by denys envy on Jan-16-2007 06:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
She won't hate you for no reason if you give her a reason to hate you.


this is a blatant lie. bitches can be bitches for no reason. it's most likely a genetic side-effect. bitchevitis...


Posted by DarkAngel on Jan-16-2007 06:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Ivand
group hug?


/hug


Posted by Inertia on Jan-16-2007 06:19:

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
She won't hate you for no reason if you give her a reason to hate you.


for a while (like 2 minutes) i contemplated this. then i remembered how everyone else thought she was a bitch too. that is, everyone else except my friend, who admitted she was a hideous bitch afterwards.

but she was especially bitchy to me. and no one could ever figure out why.

at the moment tho, she acts neutral around me. who would've guessed... eh. i always thought it to be logical for a girl to try to get her bf's friends to LIKE her.


Posted by Ivand on Jan-16-2007 06:19:

quote:
Originally posted by Aristronica
this is a blatant lie. bitches can be bitches for no reason. it's most likely a genetic side-effect. bitchevitis...



i concur


Posted by Swamper on Jan-16-2007 06:47:

Sounds like she may want to get you out of the picture because she's afraid of the relationship between you and your buddy. Once you're gone she's one step closer to having him all to herself so she can manipulate him and carry on with her bitch-like mission in life without objection.

If you want to bother her, don't make her do something to hate you - instead - do something super nice and then ignore her after that as if it never happened. She'll go loopy for a bit.


Posted by Sushipunk on Jan-16-2007 07:14:

quote:
Originally posted by Swamper
Sounds like she may want to get you out of the picture because she's afraid of the relationship between you and your buddy. Once you're gone she's one step closer to having him all to herself so she can manipulate him and carry on with her bitch-like mission in life without objection.

If you want to bother her, don't make her do something to hate you - instead - do something super nice and then ignore her after that as if it never happened. She'll go loopy for a bit.


Good advice.


Posted by denys envy on Jan-16-2007 07:20:

quote:
Originally posted by Swamper
Sounds like she may want to get you out of the picture because she's afraid of the relationship between you and your buddy. Once you're gone she's one step closer to having him all to herself so she can manipulate him and carry on with her bitch-like mission in life without objection.

If you want to bother her, don't make her do something to hate you - instead - do something super nice and then ignore her after that as if it never happened. She'll go loopy for a bit.


i say fuck that. you go to home depot tonight! every state's got a 24 hr one somewhere.


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Jan-16-2007 07:25:

quote:
Originally posted by Swamper
Sounds like she may want to get you out of the picture because she's afraid of the relationship between you and your buddy. Once you're gone she's one step closer to having him all to herself so she can manipulate him and carry on with her bitch-like mission in life without objection.

If you want to bother her, don't make her do something to hate you - instead - do something super nice and then ignore her after that as if it never happened. She'll go loopy for a bit.


I have tried this before and had it backfire on me - suddenly, I made friends with the person I was trying to bump out of the picture and my view of them didn't change at all. I found myself with a really shitty person for an acquaintance and eventually had to go back to being a mean bastard again just to keep them offa me.

It's possible that my insincere gestures made them genuinely like me lol

It's also totally possible that I got double-bluffed and the person I was pretending to make-nice with saw right through my ruse and made me shoot myself in the foot.


Posted by trancepunkk on Jan-16-2007 08:05:

rape her. problem solved, u wont have to deal with either of them then

/end thread


Posted by Sushipunk on Jan-16-2007 08:06:

quote:
Originally posted by trancepunkk
rape her. problem solved, u wont have to deal with either of them then

/end thread




Posted by Dj O'Callaghan on Jan-16-2007 09:43:

If your mates push over he'll remain under the thumb and you'll drift apart. This happened to an ex mate of mine his gf was a nasty piece of work. He paid for everything, she was mega domineering he couldn't leave the house without there being a blazing arguement, if he managed to slip away he'd get bombared with grotty texts and phone calls. A couple of my mates found out she was sleeping around with a work colleague it became common knowledge for a lot of people and he became a bit of laughing stock. His best mate sat him down and had a word with him about his missus in end he threw a massive strop and told everyone where to go. So tread careful mate.

If she's a right spiteful cow as she sounds you might lose your mate in the end. What I'd suggest is you and the rest of your mates need to act as a group, go out and do your own thing your mate won't turn up because his under the thumb, but invite him out then the next day text or ring and say what a laugh you all had. He'll end up realising that he has no social life.

I'm very lucky now as I get on with just about all my friends other halves.


Posted by Lira on Jan-16-2007 11:31:

I've been in a very similar situation, but it was a wee bit more complicated (and less dramatic):

I introduced one of my best mates to a friend of my girlfriend's. Eventually, they became a couple as well. My gilfriend's friend then decided I was a threat, since I had the attention both of her boyfriend and (naturally), my girlfriend. She soon invited my girlfriend to share an apartment with her.

However, she would often slag my girlfriend off, so they didn't really get any closer. And, she cheated on my friend soon afterwards. A break up was inevitable.

Conclusion: Don't worry. I doubt this situation you mentioned will last long.


Posted by trancepunkk on Jan-16-2007 12:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Dj O'Callaghan
If your mates push over he'll remain under the thumb and you'll drift apart. This happened to an ex mate of mine his gf was a nasty piece of work. He paid for everything, she was mega domineering he couldn't leave the house without there being a blazing arguement, if he managed to slip away he'd get bombared with grotty texts and phone calls. A couple of my mates found out she was sleeping around with a work colleague it became common knowledge for a lot of people and he became a bit of laughing stock. His best mate sat him down and had a word with him about his missus in end he threw a massive strop and told everyone where to go. So tread careful mate.

If she's a right spiteful cow as she sounds you might lose your mate in the end. What I'd suggest is you and the rest of your mates need to act as a group, go out and do your own thing your mate won't turn up because his under the thumb, but invite him out then the next day text or ring and say what a laugh you all had. He'll end up realising that he has no social life.

I'm very lucky now as I get on with just about all my friends other halves.


in other words wat hes trying to say is.......


FUCKING RAPE THE BITCH


Posted by Dj O'Callaghan on Jan-16-2007 12:52:

quote:
Originally posted by trancepunkk
in other words wat hes trying to say is.......


FUCKING RAPE THE BITCH


We'll leave that to you Aussies that's why you ended up on a Penal colony


Posted by Ivand on Jan-16-2007 12:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Dj O'Callaghan
We'll leave that to you Aussies that's why you ended up on a Penal colony


what about something subtle, like cyanide, polonium 210, or 26 stabs in the back?


Posted by Dj O'Callaghan on Jan-16-2007 13:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Ivand
what about something subtle, like cyanide, polonium 210, or 26 stabs in the back?


Good suggestion.

I think it'll be better off if she gets thrown to the Aussies.

If you ever see the film Wolf Creek, you'll know what I mean.


Posted by Psy-T on Jan-16-2007 13:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Aristronica
this is a blatant lie. bitches can be bitches for no reason. it's most likely a genetic side-effect. bitchevitis...


quote:
Originally posted by Inertia
for a while (like 2 minutes) i contemplated this. then i remembered how everyone else thought she was a bitch too. that is, everyone else except my friend, who admitted she was a hideous bitch afterwards.

but she was especially bitchy to me. and no one could ever figure out why.

at the moment tho, she acts neutral around me. who would've guessed... eh. i always thought it to be logical for a girl to try to get her bf's friends to LIKE her.


you two lack reading comprehension


Posted by denys envy on Jan-16-2007 14:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Psy-T
you two lack reading comprehension


unlike Psy-T's response, his avatar is sound. snipe the bitch.


Posted by Slylee on Jan-16-2007 14:09:

She�s an idiot. A girl should never come between her man and his friends. I�ve always gotten along with my boyfriends� crew. I mean, as far as I know, they never had a problem with me tagging along. If anything, I was worse than they were with the comments and crude jokes and always made them laugh. My ex boyfriend�s best friend would actually invite me out sometimes even when my ex couldn�t or didn�t want to go out.

Obviously the only time it�s ok to not like your boyfriend's friends is if the friends are destructive and could cause him to get in trouble. But then again, if I was dating a guy and his friends were a bunch of fucking morons who were always acting up and getting in trouble, that would turn me off and I wouldn�t want to date him.

Oh and chicks who are like that are probably jealous that they have to share time with the guys. It's lame.


Posted by trancepunkk on Jan-16-2007 14:47:

quote:
Originally posted by Dj O'Callaghan
Good suggestion.

I think it'll be better off if she gets thrown to the Aussies.

If you ever see the film Wolf Creek, you'll know what I mean.


do u get all your knowledge from hollywood or did u actually go to school once upon a time?


Posted by Dj O'Callaghan on Jan-16-2007 14:54:

quote:
Originally posted by trancepunkk
do u get all your knowledge from hollywood or did u actually go to school once upon a time?




Yes but we didn't write on cave walls like you, we had pens and paper.


Posted by trancepunkk on Jan-16-2007 15:03:

i think u have us confused with aboriginals


Posted by bas on Jan-16-2007 15:12:

quote:
Originally posted by DarkAngel
Only years later he tells me, "R, I wish I would have listened to you back then. You were right about her."

I FUCKING KNEW IT!!!


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