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Originally posted by Danny Ocean you're not getting me a ferrari daddy?

I'd had a post typed out in response to this that involved "that other fellow who buggered your mother", but I decided it was too tasteless, even for me.

Sorry.

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Originally posted by dj_bas Only according to Firefox

Exactly!

my brother (that we adopted) was a product of rape.. his biological mum was 15 when she had him. He has FAS and ADD and he is seriously fucked in the head because he was neglected in a crib from his mum who couldn't take care of him, he was then shuffled around 10 foster homes and then we adopted him. I think it is safe to say that he will never function normal in society. He is in and out of jail, substanance abuse and a compulsive liar. He has NO respect/trust for females. i asked him once if he thought his mum should have an abortion and he said no, he thought it was better to be adopted. I think if it happened to me, i would carry the baby and even then i would have a hard time deciding whether to keep the baby or put it up for adoption because half that baby is me, and that kid would always be on my mind.

rape is a terrible thing and hypothetically I would rather not think about it. take fukkin self defence classes and kick that muthafukker's ass to the curb! you would have so much anger against this mother fukker that you would want to pull that curb move that's in American History X! seriously, this is not a hypothetical question ~ it's a serious question!

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Originally posted by dallastar this is not a hypothetical question.

If this is not a hypothetical situation, then explain to me what is.

id avoid rape as much as possible, so i wouldnt have to make the decition of keeping the baby, or having it pulled out from my v4g|n0rz

Hypothetically, I took a poop. I took this hypothetical poop and smeared it on a graham. Then, I roasted the mallow. When the mallows flaming, I stuck it on the poop and covered it with the other end.

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Originally posted by Marc Summers Hypothetically, I took a poop. I took this hypothetical poop and smeared it on a graham. Then, I roasted the mallow. When the mallows flaming, I stuck it on the poop and covered it with the other end.

You're really Tony Danza aren't you? I think it's fucking pathetic that you should post here just to get your name out to the younger generation. You've already had all of the success you'll ever have so just get used to it and start living within your means ok?

Fuckin has-been.

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Originally posted by Demoted If this is not a hypothetical situation, then explain to me what is.

it's serious question

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Originally posted by dallastar it's serious question

hypothetical cant be serious now?

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Originally posted by RJT If they had an episode of Super Sweet 16 where the party ended in the tragedy of the little spoiled rich girl both being mocked for her weight and finding out she was a product of a less than consentual encounter, my opinion of the show might change dramatically.

Season finale, anyone?



Or even better. Throw this huge bash. Then when they're supposed to give the girl/boy the car, they acually boot them out and force them to live on their own for good.

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Originally posted by Sunsnail hypothetical cant be serious now?

she has an iq in the negatives sometimes, leave her be.

Depends on life circumstances and emotions at the time... I can imagine doing either. Honestly, if I knew it were gonna happen 15 minutes from now, I couldn't tell you what my decision would be right this minute, even being in college with jobs and volunteer work and friends and a whole future ahead of me. I just don't know.

And that's coming from someone who has always been strongly pro-choice.

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Originally posted by Miss Bliss Depends on life circumstances and emotions at the time... I can imagine doing either. Honestly, if I knew it were gonna happen 15 minutes from now, I couldn't tell you what my decision would be right this minute, even being in college with jobs and volunteer work and friends and a whole future ahead of me. I just don't know. And that's coming from someone who has always been strongly pro-choice.

Sounds odd coming from someone who I distinctly remember saying "I'MMA GUNNA EATCHOR BEBEZ!" only a few years back.

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Originally posted by Yan Sounds odd coming from someone who I distinctly remember saying "I'MMA GUNNA EATCHOR BEBEZ!" only a few years back.

That's always a third option... I hadn't thought of that... hmm.... thanks, Yan!

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Originally posted by RJT If they had an episode of Super Sweet 16 where the party ended in the tragedy of the little spoiled rich girl both being mocked for her weight and finding out she was a product of a less than consentual encounter, my opinion of the show might change dramatically.

i'd watch

Wow... it appalls me that there are women out there that would even CONSIDER carrying a baby conceived from rape to full term.

It is ONLY a clump of cells in the beginning. You aren't killing anything, you just aren't sustaining it so that it can become something.

Like picking a booger out of your nose. If you would just leave it there, it will grow and become a nice big slimy infection, with a perogative to take over your immune system... OR you could get rid of it, and simply put a stop to that potential.

Do you feel bad for picking your boogers?

I don't.

Therefore... I say abortion.

I totally lolled at my own analogy!

As I'm on the Implanon, there's a good chance I wouldn't get pregnant anyway. If I did after being attacked, I wouldn't keep the baby.

I enjoyed babysitting in my early teens and I seem get along with kids, especially with my little cousin who's now 8 (last time I babysat her, she was 2), but I'm not ready to have kids myself in any circumstance.

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Originally posted by Theresa Wow... it appalls me that there are women out there that would even CONSIDER carrying a baby conceived from rape to full term. It is ONLY a clump of cells in the beginning. You aren't killing anything, you just aren't sustaining it so that it can become something. Like picking a booger out of your nose. If you would just leave it there, it will grow and become a nice big slimy infection, with a perogative to take over your immune system... OR you could get rid of it, and simply put a stop to that potential. Do you feel bad for picking your boogers? I don't. Therefore... I say abortion. I totally lolled at my own analogy!

i'm shocked at your answer! i would totally understand why someone would. this is a possible life, and you can hardly say, just b/c it was conceived of rape, therefore automatically you shouldn't have it. part of the pro-choice perspective is just that - the choice to decide if you would want to bring this fetus to term. and if anyone is able to separate how the child was conceived from the human being it becomes, or is able to turn a horrific event into the gift of a child, then i'd commend them, for having the strength most of us wouldn't

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Originally posted by spitty i'm shocked at your answer! i would totally understand why someone would. this is a possible life, and you can hardly say, just b/c it was conceived of rape, therefore automatically you shouldn't have it. part of the pro-choice perspective is just that - the choice to decide if you would want to bring this fetus to term. and if anyone is able to separate how the child was conceived from the human being it becomes, or is able to turn a horrific event into the gift of a child, then i'd commend them, for having the strength most of us wouldn't

If you plan to have it, then you should keep it. If you're going to send it off to be adopted, then what is the point?

Dump the poor thing off because it isn't wanted? How is that a way to start a life? Leaving it with the liklihood of staying in the system, and bouncing from foster home to foster home? Read what weiner said. Her brother is socially dysfunctional, and has had a life of hell and suffering. He says he wouldn't want to have been aborted, but who would? It is natural human instinct to wish to survive.

Can you even imagine knowing that you were the creation of a horrific incident such a rape? Can you even conceive the implications of that?? That would be, in my opinion, one of the most heart wrenching, horrible thing to live with. WHY would you let a group of cells fulfill its potential to face that? It is much more brave, in my opinion, to realize that you are saving someone a world of suffering by not allowing those cells to expand into a human.

So what? You went through the emotional trauma of going to term with the baby. Good for you, takes some balls. Dumping it off though? That is cowardly. Can't take responsibility of your decision to let it grow? It is your human obligation to take care of what you create, and if you conciously decide to let it become a human, then you should own up to the consequences, and take care of it too.

Adoption is bullshit.

Decide that you can't own up to your choice to let that potential exist, so you pawn off your unwanted leftover for someone else to take care of? That is bullshit!

You think having the baby and putting it up for adoption is braver? I disagree. Being brave is having the baby and keeping it. THAT is true bravery, and any woman who could do that should be greatly commended.

Having the baby and disowning it? Pure bullshit.

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Originally posted by RJT If they had an episode of Super Sweet 16 where the party ended in the tragedy of the little spoiled rich girl both being mocked for her weight and finding out she was a product of a less than consentual encounter, my opinion of the show might change dramatically.

some of the serious replies in here shock me terribly.

BTW upon further reflection, I realized that a lot of people here are idiots and are going to say "But Theresa, you want to adopt... blah blah blah".

Yes. I want to adopt.

Why? Because I am aware of the consequences of what will happen to those children if they aren't adopted. Seeing a child suffer because their parents were negligent fools is something I have a hard time with, so I want to help. There is no better gift that you can give than love. Offering an unwanted person love, a home, and a place that they belong is, in my opinion, one of the most amazing things a person can do for another.

so you adopting is ok but if other people do it they're going to f*ck up the poor kid who was the product of rape?

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