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Originally posted by djmaxima my teacher said that Tourettes OCD and ADD are not genetic

Your teacher is a moron, or you are very gullible. In either case, that's nonsense.

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Originally posted by venomX From your previous post of how your concerned about repercussions due to engaging in sexual activity I would say you're just too anxious to actually have sex more than being asexual. If you're physiology goes wild you are having a sexual response, you're just not acting on it. So basically you're only asexual in your head while heterosexuality and homosexuality that someone mentioned here have a strong biological factor. I.e. you said you react to females, then you have heterosexual inclinations, you just choose to not act on it. It's like being hungry and deciding not to eat.

Dead on. It's not like the concerns mentioned (STDs, unwanted pregnancy, rep loss) only apply to the people with genetic disorders. They apply to anyone who wants to be sexually active. That being said, it's certainly understandable that these risks can seem daunting enough to put you off sex, even though the pleasure derived from sex normally is convincing enough.

yeah Venom youre right, A one night stand would be awesome but even behind every female with an Emotionally strong fasad is an actual person with emotions and feelings so I choose not to hurt anyones feelings I am a lover not a hater or a person that likes to hop from one to another. Too many Males in this world are only "in" (pun intended) it for themselves and are selfish. I guarantee you that if there is a girl out there that has the courage to take me on as an emotional/phyiscal means of support I will be there for every step she desires to take.

This is the way I look at it relationships, they are meant to be cherished and enjoyed and believe it or not they are marriages from the very on-set in a sense that they have the aspect of dedication and commitment. Relationships arent meant to be tossed around like toys.

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Originally posted by Sand Leaper Dead on. It's not like the concerns mentioned (STDs, unwanted pregnancy, rep loss) only apply to the people with genetic disorders. They apply to anyone who wants to be sexually active. That being said, it's certainly understandable that these risks can seem daunting enough to put you off sex, even though the pleasure derived from sex normally is convincing enough.

I agree. Not to belittle your situation La5er but I don't think this is anything special or related to having ADD or Tourettes. I think this is more a problem of you not being determined enough to engage in sexual intercourse with people.

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Originally posted by La5eR yeah Venom youre right, A one night stand would be awesome but even behind every female with an Emotionally strong fasad is an actual person with emotions and feelings so I choose not to hurt anyones feelings I am a lover not a hater or a person that likes to hop from one to another. Too many Males in this world are only "in" (pun intended) it for themselves and are selfish. I guarantee you that if there is a girl out there that has the courage to take me on as an emotional/phyiscal means of support I will be there for every step she desires to take. This is the way I look at it relationships, they are meant to be cherished and enjoyed and believe it or not they are marriages from the very on-set in a sense that they have the aspect of dedication and commitment. Relationships arent meant to be tossed around like toys.

Yeah, i see your point. I wish you luck too, its a noble endeavor . It's a matter of personal choice. I for one wouldn't be able to keep to such a committment im way too horny

btw, wouldn't this be celibacy, not asexuality, since it's a choice, not a lack of interest?

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Originally posted by Inconspicuous btw, wouldn't this be celibacy, not asexuality, since it's a choice, not a lack of interest?

To be technical... yes.

life i the urge to procreate if your not going to might aswell just knock yourself becuase sorry whats the point ohh by the way meaningfull trustfull relationships arent relationships at taht point they are friendships and friendsships can have three things same sided which is fun to ahve fun with then the opposite side which means you can do as you wish

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Originally posted by venomX It's like being hungry and deciding not to eat.

sexual anorexia?

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Originally posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ life i the urge to procreate if your not going to might aswell just knock yourself becuase sorry whats the point ohh by the way meaningfull trustfull relationships arent relationships at taht point they are friendships and friendsships can have three things same sided which is fun to ahve fun with then the opposite side which means you can do as you wish

Can anyone translate for me?

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Originally posted by Lebezniatnikov Can anyone translate for me?

something about self-impregnation...and the opposite sex being all for it.

I am intentionally emotionally unavailable because I don't want someone to have to deal with my health problems

but if I was to get serious and in something long term prospect I still doubt I would ever want a kid as an offspring from me because of the chance they might have the same problems as me.
Adoption on the other hand I don't know .... I'm not for or against the idea of having kids ... but having one that comes from me kind of freaks me out.

ya know add is just a product of lack of parental discpline nothing wrong with beating children if they deserve it?

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Originally posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ ya know add is just a product of lack of parental discpline nothing wrong with beating children if they deserve it?

Hi. Please do some research before you launch ignorant claims that prove you have no knowledge of what goes on in the frontal lobes of the brain. kbye.

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Originally posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ ya know add is just a product of lack of parental discpline nothing wrong with beating children if they deserve it?

While I think Add is too often used as the automatic go-to excuse for ones lackings in modern society you have to realize that beating a child because he isn't behaving properly isn't going to help him if he truly has Add.

your right maybe a taser would better suite for educational purposes.... or just dont have ucking kids if you cant raise them.

You are the worst new poster on this website.

Wait, you're not new. In that case you're just a terrible poster.

ohh and yes i do know and so why dont you go fucking cry about a diese thats made a joke by putting kids on dope only to fuck their brains up more in hope that they will sit there nicely and spit out what the world sees fit... problem is i do know about neurological dissorders and about more then just that so why dont you go fuck yourself on a broken beer bottle? ohh btw if you cant find humour in the comments i make you obviously take things said way to seriously and probly cry in your bed at night and wonder why your mommy and dad touched you.

<---- read the date mother ****** mostly i stay in the production forum

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Originally posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ ohh and yes i do know and so why dont you go fucking cry about a diese thats made a joke by putting kids on dope only to fuck their brains up more in hope that they will sit there nicely and spit out what the world sees fit... problem is i do know about neurological dissorders and about more then just that so why dont you go fuck yourself on a broken beer bottle? ohh btw if you cant find humour in the comments i make you obviously take things said way to seriously and probly cry in your bed at night and wonder why your mommy and dad touched you.

I don't find any humour in what you said, because you are about as funny as death.

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Originally posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ ohh and yes i do know and so why dont you go fucking cry about a diese thats made a joke by putting kids on dope only to fuck their brains up more in hope that they will sit there nicely and spit out what the world sees fit... problem is i do know about neurological dissorders and about more then just that so why dont you go fuck yourself on a broken beer bottle? ohh btw if you cant find humour in the comments i make you obviously take things said way to seriously and probly cry in your bed at night and wonder why your mommy and dad touched you.

I don't take you seriously, you just are neither funny nor entertaining.

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Originally posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ ohh and yes i do know and so why dont you go fucking cry about a diese thats made a joke by putting kids on dope only to fuck their brains up more in hope that they will sit there nicely and spit out what the world sees fit... problem is i do know about neurological dissorders and about more then just that so why dont you go fuck yourself on a broken beer bottle? ohh btw if you cant find humour in the comments i make you obviously take things said way to seriously and probly cry in your bed at night and wonder why your mommy and dad touched you.

you sure you don't have ADD yourself?

you keep spitting out unstructured unreadable horse shite left and right ... what the heck is wrong with you?

I am most certainly going with the idea that this thread struck a nerve and somehow you are defending the valour of all people who have ADDITIS

All hail ZxZDeViLZxZ Leader of all disease striken Add morons worldwide!

I would probably hate life too if I lived in North Dakota.

ZxZDeViLZxZ - you really need to tone it down on the offensive comments. seems like almost every post of yours has some sort of reference to violence/beating/threats/etc... (and LOTS of foul language)

if you can't communicate respectfully and maturely with other members of this site then you don't deserve to be here.

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Originally posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ ohh and yes i do know and so why dont you go fucking cry about a diese thats made a joke by putting kids on dope only to fuck their brains up more in hope that they will sit there nicely and spit out what the world sees fit... problem is i do know about neurological dissorders and about more then just that so why dont you go fuck yourself on a broken beer bottle? ohh btw if you cant find humour in the comments i make you obviously take things said way to seriously and probly cry in your bed at night and wonder why your mommy and dad touched you.

I would be overwhelmingly surprised if you could actually explain the chemical process that causes ADD and what medication does to solve that problem.

ADD is genetic. Abusing your children just scars them emotionally--it doesn't prevent or resolve a disorder that you passed on to them.

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