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Posted by all-nite-freak on Apr-04-2007 01:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
You got an STD. You must be precious.

finally someone who gets it.
i like to flex my sores and admire them in the mirror.

Posted by igottaknow on Apr-04-2007 01:19:

quote:
Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
Was it a gift for her or is it really your sweater?

actually it wasn't a sweater it was a hoodie and it wasn't a gift. we we're out one nite and she was cold so i let her wear my hoodie. it holds no great monetary value just one of those things...

Posted by Lebezniatnikov on Apr-04-2007 01:31:

If you aren't going to wear it, then there's no point in keeping it. And if he's a cheating bastard, then don't give it back to him. I say sell it.

Posted by butterfly on Apr-04-2007 02:07:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
actually it wasn't a sweater it was a hoodie and it wasn't a gift. we we're out one nite and she was cold so i let her wear my hoodie. it holds no great monetary value just one of those things...

i had a hoodie from an ex once. i held on to it for a while and then gave it to the girl he left me for after they broke up. i think she probably burned it or something.

Posted by Floorfiller on Apr-04-2007 02:12:

Re: Question for the girls (and advice from guys is appreciated)

quote:
Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
For Christmas my exboyfriend got me a 200 dollar Tiffany's necklace among some other things. My question for you guys is what should I do with it? Its not a relationship that is ever going to be anything ever again (he cheated on me, its over).

I feel like I have 3 options:

1. I sell the necklace on Craigslist to help pay for my car.
2. I return the necklace to him.
3. I keep the necklace even though Im not wearing it.

I dont feel like 2 is really an option, because what good would that do either of us? Plus, he gave it to me, its mine.

What do you think? Guys, what would you think if 1 happened?

yeah that's a tough one. i mean i would probably really dislike if some girl i dated pawned off a gift i got her, but you're right...you're not together anymore and you probably will never wear it because of it.

might as well sell it. it's not like he will ever find out right? lol

ps. fourth option...regift! hehehe...was on seinfeld the other night

Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on Apr-04-2007 03:45:

how did you find out he cheated on you?

Posted by Boomer187 on Apr-04-2007 03:52:

1. Post on craigslist
2. Sell it to some pansy for $300
3. ???
4. Profit

that is the only solution. If you keep it people ask about it, then you are reminded. Now if you sell it and buy some meth and party the night away, now thats a way to remember his ass.

Posted by MeLLyMeL on Apr-04-2007 03:56:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
i had a hoodie from an ex once. i held on to it for a while and then gave it to the girl he left me for after they broke up. i think she probably burned it or something.

i left the hoodie my current boyfriend got me for x-mas at my house in miami.

i don't think he has noticed yet.

and fuk jewelry. MAKE MONEY OFF THAT SHIT

Posted by RandomGirl on Apr-04-2007 05:52:

My ex gave me a diamond necklace for our 6 month anniversary (yea... lame), anyway, I kept it and put it in a memory box.

But if the necklace only brings a bad memory, get rid of it. I say sell it.

Posted by shaw on Apr-04-2007 06:07:

give it back, or he'll feel like you owe him something...whatever that is. "Well, I gave you that necklace..."

Posted by Boomer187 on Apr-04-2007 06:13:

quote:
Originally posted by inconspicuous
give it back, or he'll feel like you owe him something...whatever that is. "Well, I gave you that necklace..."

only thing she owes him is a throat punch.

Posted by CranberryJuice on Apr-04-2007 06:41:

yeah i think u should sell it

i dont think u would anyway enjoy wearing it and remenber him since he cheated on ya (sorry about that!)

so get rid off of it

Posted by Allied Nations on Apr-04-2007 06:47:

sell that shit!!

Posted by igottaknow on Apr-04-2007 12:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Theresa
My ex gave me a diamond necklace for our 6 month anniversary (yea... lame), anyway, I kept it and put it in a memory box.

do you have any of my posts in you "memory box"?

Posted by eRRaTiK on Apr-04-2007 12:17:

Re: Question for the girls (and advice from guys is appreciated)

quote:
Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
I dont feel like 2 is really an option, because what good would that do either of us? Plus, he gave it to me, its mine.

why didn't you just refuse it? just because somebody gives you something doesn't mean you have to accept it, particularly when you know there's emotional issues involved.

unless of course you explained to him that nothing would become of it and he still insisted you keep it. In that case, he's a dumbass and you can profit from it.

Posted by Fledz on Apr-04-2007 12:31:

He cheated on you. Fuck him. Just sell it.

Posted by noikeee on Apr-04-2007 12:40:

Sell it, then go brag about selling it to him.

Posted by Silky Johnson on Apr-04-2007 13:20:

Yeah if it's associated with bad memories, fuckin' sell that shit.

Posted by Slylee on Apr-04-2007 13:21:

give it to me

Posted by denys envy on Apr-04-2007 13:51:

my last ex received a bracelet of the Tiffany's brand. the latest photos of her and her new man confirm she doth not wear it anymore. further fueling my suspicion that someone in alabama (or florida) got it off e-bay from her and reaffiriming my stance to never buy shit like that for a girl unless we're married with a prenup.

Posted by RJT on Apr-04-2007 13:52:

Denys is a fucking stalker.

Posted by Ang ' ela_ie on Apr-04-2007 13:55:

quote:
Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
how did you find out he cheated on you?

He walked from her house to my house at 9am the next morning and told me.
edit: I say "her" like I know her. I dont know who it was, but recently Ive been thinking that it was a mutual friend.

Posted by RJT on Apr-04-2007 13:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
He walked from her house to my house at 9am the next morning and told me.

Well there's your first mistake, you were clearly dating a mentally challenged individual

Posted by Slylee on Apr-04-2007 13:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
He walked from her house to my house at 9am the next morning and told me.
edit: I say "her" like I know her. I dont know who it was, but recently Ive been thinking that it was a mutual friend.

ouch

i'm sorry you had to go through that. fucking prick. i mean, at least he told you but jesus, what a way to wake up huh?

Posted by Ang ' ela_ie on Apr-04-2007 13:59:

Re: Re: Question for the girls (and advice from guys is appreciated)

quote:
Originally posted by eRRaTiK
why didn't you just refuse it? just because somebody gives you something doesn't mean you have to accept it, particularly when you know there's emotional issues involved.

unless of course you explained to him that nothing would become of it and he still insisted you keep it. In that case, he's a dumbass and you can profit from it.

Wait, we were dating in Christmas, we broke up in February. Things were good back then. Why would I refuse a gift?

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