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Originally posted by inconspicuous not hard to figure out where your struggles originate.

Yeah I think I kind of stepped out of line right there.

That's the way it goes in life sometimes. After a heartbreak that happened a year ago, among some other shit, I completed re-evaluated what leniency, trust and feelings I extended towards other people whether its musical peers, promoters, or women. I've had my trust and feelings betrayed beyond comprehension. It hurt so bad my sleep and eating patterns were fucked and I was barely able to function at work and with the music.

So...I've learned to cutaway from alot of shit I held emotional attachments to. Over 95% of the women out there that I've met have no sense of integrity at all. 4% of them are taken or not interested in dating, and the remaining 1% live halfway across the world. That's just been my experience though.

I wouldn't say be closed minded to the idea of relationships, as no one knows what tomorrow will bring; but as a lesson learned, one should never rush into having a serious relationship. The ones that seem to spring up overnight, will tend to end just as quickly and painfully.


All in all, the heart and mind is where were the most vunerable. Be careful on who you choose to trust them to.
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First off women are not to be referred to as bitches......
... Carlos......don't look for women let them come to you.....don't throw yourself at the chic...make her want u more by Ignoring her (they love it).. and enjoy being single!! you are young ...finish school and concentrate on yourself being a better person.. women like a challenge rem that

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Originally posted by seekrets First off women are not to be referred to as bitches...... ... Carlos......don't look for women let them come to you.....don't throw yourself at the chic...make her want u more by Ignoring her (they love it).. and enjoy being single!! you are young ...finish school and concentrate on yourself being a better person.. women like a challenge rem that

1: agree
2: letting them come to you only works for people who like women who will do that, and that only includes some.
3: most don't like being ignored...I'm guessing you're thinking more along the lines of not going TOO much out of your way--making her think she's more important than anything in your own life, at least initially. That will get most women thinking, "well, if I'm the best thing he's got, does he really have that much to offer?"
4. being single can be fun or not...depends on the person.
5. Concur
6. Concur...sorta.

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Originally posted by inconspicuous 1: agree 2: letting them come to you only works for people who like women who will do that, and that only includes some. 3: most don't like being ignored...I'm guessing you're thinking more along the lines of not going TOO much out of your way--making her think she's more important than anything in your own life, at least initially. That will get most women thinking, "well, if I'm the best thing he's got, does he really have that much to offer?" 4. being single can be fun or not...depends on the person. 5. Concur 6. Concur...sorta.

yea well we do require attention sometimes u know..... but at the beginning keep us guessing haha

Also, if you do come on please don't come on too strong thats a huge turnoff..

guys are you taking notes lol

You gotta do the foot on the back of the head thing during sex if you want them to respect you.

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Originally posted by seekrets Also, if you do come on please don't come on too strong thats a huge turnoff..

that's what I mean--if ALL you're doing is paying attention to someone, the other person's going to start questioning why that's the case. No matter how much you have to offer or how much someone likes you, if the other person is under the impression that she is more important in your life than you are in hers, or vice versa, she'll think that she's above you and that there's someone else out there with more to offer. It's just basic instinct--people want to be with someone as desirable as possible.

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Originally posted by seekrets Also, if you do come on please don't come on too strong thats a huge turnoff.. guys are you taking notes lol

You aren't going to get it both ways. You'll have to either accept our undivided attention, or get toned out completely. There's no room for gray in the black-and-white barcode of love; it messes up the scanner and we get overcharged for what we're paying for.

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First off women are not to be referred to as bitches...... ... Carlos......don't look for women let them come to you.....don't throw yourself at the chic...make her want u more by Ignoring her (they love it).. and enjoy being single!! you are young ...finish school and concentrate on yourself being a better person.. women like a challenge rem that

You read my book.

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Originally posted by Rememberence_ Word @ relationship issues blowing hard. It's not just women though mate, and if you started dating guys you'd probably soon realise that it's many people, not just women, or just men, that are fucking cockheads. Take grandpa's advice and leave marriage til after your twenties, and don't take relationships too seriously because your 20s are about you mate, and no one else.

You're gonna have to speak up sonny. I can't hear too well these days.

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Originally posted by Zild You gotta do the foot on the back of the head thing during sex if you want them to respect you.

..wearing a steel toed boot, at that. Women love that shit.

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Originally posted by Ph03n1x Really? Please tell me where the right place is? I'm having a difficult time finding it.

Women's correctional facilities.

Re: Girls....

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Originally posted by architect1803 love to play fucking mind games, and like to fuck guys over. Thats all they do, every fucking one of them. I've had enough. Enough with the fucking games. Enough lying, and enough fucking cheating. Everytime I fucking fall for it I get raped in the god damn ass by some fucking flaw. No fucking more!!!! Fuck relationships, I dont believe in that shit anymore. Love is fucking fake and there is no such thing as fucking falling in love. Falling in love is like getting ass-fucked by Satan. Love? Yea fucking right!! No girlfriends NO NOTHING! Ive had it with women!

Most women our age are young, stupid, and slutty. Kind of like most guys are dogs and douche bags from their perspective. So it evens out, not that eigther one is a good thing IMO. Just keep an eye out for women who have enough selfrespect and don't constantly looking for validation/approval. But yeah, that's pretty fucking hard to find LOL. Insecure bitches, like the kind of women you mentioned, have tons of complexes which is why they do shit like that in order to feel better about themselves, because they're pathetic. Real women have more self respect and their head screwed on straight.

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Originally posted by Ph03n1x Well, I love women and never plan to stop. I was taught at an early age to respect women but don't let them take advantage of you. Growing up I had girls telling me they loved me but I never said it back because I knew it would be a lie. Back them, I didn't understand how girls and other guys could say that word so easily. I never told a women that I loved her until my mid to late twenties. In fact, I've only told two women that I loved them. I can give you a few pointers that have worked for me. 1. Never buy a women a drink at the club. Let some other guy do that and wait for them to come talk to you when they have had enough to drink. The only exception to this rule is, I will buy a women a drink if she buys the first round. I have actually meet some really cool women this way. 2. Where ever you go, the club, bar, or party, make yourself noticed, sit or stand next to someone you find attractive and then pay them no attention. It will drive them nuts! Every other guy is hitting on them or checking them out but not you. After a while, they will notice and wonder why you are not paying attention. They will come to you. 3. Be confident, be yourself, and smile. I know I have made the mistake of not being myself just to get laid but ended up in a big mess. 4. Sometimes you have to be an A$$hole. This only works for the women you just want to hook up with for a short time. This doesn't work on the good women out there. 5. Be patient. Don't be afraid to be single. Too often we will stay with the wrong person and go through HELL, just because we think it's better to be with someone than to be alone. 6. This is my favorite, "Once you stop looking, she will find you." Well, that's enough for now class. If you would like more information, please send cash or money order to me and I will send you the complete guide, "How to be a Player."

Yeah, I pretty much agree with you allthough I thought that last line was a bit odd lol. Didn't think you'd be a "player," and by that I mean someone who sleeps around and doesn't make any commitments.

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Originally posted by inconspicuous or just don't go looking for people in the wrong places.

That too, it's highly unlikely that you're going to find a nice girl in a place like a club.

EDIT: Haha, whoops. Looks like you covered that already:

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Originally posted by inconspicuous hint: not a club.

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Yeah, I pretty much agree with you allthough I thought that last line was a bit odd lol. Didn't think you'd be a "player," and by that I mean someone who sleeps around and doesn't make any commitments.

Do I know you, or better yet do you know me?

The last line was a joke. Plus, there is nothing wrong with sleeping around and not making a commitment. We all have needs and we are programmed to reproduce. As for commitments, I'm all for it but haven't met a women that meets my needs.

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Originally posted by Ph03n1x Do I know you, or better yet do you know me? The last line was a joke. Plus, there is nothing wrong with sleeping around and not making a commitment. We all have needs and we are programmed to reproduce. As for commitments, I'm all for it but haven't met a women that meets my needs.

Easy, I wasn't necessarily implying anything, just stating how that comment came across.

1. If most girls your meeting are screwing you over, then more than likely you don't need to be falling for them. (that is your mistake)
2. Figure out what you want first then go from there. Learn from your mistakes
3. There is alot of good advice from other ppl but its really all up to you.
4. If your feeling down..become active and try to keep your mind busy. (go surfing, concentrate on dj'ing, school, go work out)
5. Few months from now you will look at this thread and see how big of a pussy your being and you'll realize you haven't matured as much as you think.


all in all..I wish you the best.

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1. If most girls your meeting are screwing you over, then more than likely you don't need to be falling for them. (that is your mistake) 2. Figure out what you want first then go from there. Learn from your mistakes 3. There is alot of good advice from other ppl but its really all up to you. 4. If your feeling down..become active and try to keep your mind busy. (go surfing, concentrate on dj'ing, school, go work out) 5. Few months from now you will look at this thread and see how big of a pussy your being and you'll realize you haven't matured as much as you think. all in all..I wish you the best.

Good point, stranger!

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Originally posted by Ph03n1x Good point, stranger!

I second that, stranger .

TXTA EMO thread of the year






But seriously, fuck thinking about women. Concentrate on yourself and the bettering of yourself and that shite will come to you when you least expect it. And if it doesnt, Im sure you can always jerk it to those AvB pics you have under your bed.

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Originally posted by seekrets First off women are not to be referred to as bitches...... ... Carlos......don't look for women let them come to you.....don't throw yourself at the chic...make her want u more by Ignoring her (they love it).. and enjoy being single!! you are young ...finish school and concentrate on yourself being a better person.. women like a challenge rem that

Yes, I agree sorry about the vitches part. Ignoring women will often drive them nuts, hehe. Sometimes though theres no way but to go seek them you know, women can be so irresistible sometimes, they're my kryptonite, they bring out the best and worst in me.

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Originally posted by digitalbreach 1. If most girls your meeting are screwing you over, then more than likely you don't need to be falling for them. (that is your mistake) 2. Figure out what you want first then go from there. Learn from your mistakes 3. There is alot of good advice from other ppl but its really all up to you. 4. If your feeling down..become active and try to keep your mind busy. (go surfing, concentrate on dj'ing, school, go work out) 5. Few months from now you will look at this thread and see how big of a pussy your being and you'll realize you haven't matured as much as you think. all in all..I wish you the best.

Quoted for the fkn TRUTH! The key piece of advice here is to learn from your mistakes.Over time I've realized that I cant fkn stand women who are insecure, dependent, materialistic, stupid, attention whores. So now that I know what I don't like due to prior experiences with these type of women, I look for women who are the exact opposite. I like women who have self respect, confidence, intelligence, who stay true to themselves, and are passionate about something. Humor is always a fkn plus too cause I cant stand anyone who takes everything too seriously.

So with that said please learn from your mistakes so that I don't have to see anymore emo threads in this forum.

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Originally posted by racing4hoes TXTA EMO thread of the year

can we get some slanted bangs and a picture from above your shoulder, plz, to complete the fail?

goddammit carlos try this link.


houstonmales.com


i told you donkey punch then go eat lunch.


you shoulda knocked her ass out when you could. then grabb her by the nostrils and kick her out of you house. they love that shit. hahaha jk

naw cheif if ur lovin was good (inthe sack) thinks would havve lasted longer. but it wouldnt have lasted in the loving way you would want it to be. my bro is a god at girl advice. he murdered this old guy tellin me the niggas problems since he was dating a young materialistic plastic surgery addict girl from EL SALVADOR !!! for godsake dont resort to dating women whose world is wwaaay different. unles.. your sure of the decision... but idk this love shit is complex. i have my girl and were beyond perfect right now.

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Originally posted by Zild You gotta do the foot on the back of the head thing during sex if you want them to respect you.

That's great advice right there!

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