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Originally posted by gehzumteufel seeing this come from you denys is just wierd. on topic: i just party hard and try to keep my mind off of things. it doesnt really work but its better than nothing. it somewhat temporarily gets it off my mind but not fully.

it's only happened twice. once after freshman year in college and once this past summer. ... and frankly those were my only two "serious" relationships

lesson is - denys shouldn't get into serious relationships cuz he's too arrogant to treat a bitch right.

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Originally posted by l�cid ...like, the talking muffin joke

I was reading this thread and I was all serious until I read this post, and the mere mention of that made me burst out laughing.

My recipe was always pills (mostly pharmaceutical), beer, tequila, rum, pot, cigarettes and a generally apathetic demeanor - blend together until smooth, enjoy for 10-48 hours. Crash. Rinse. Repeat as necessary (2-6 months depending on relationship "relapses" fucking things up again for a while.)

It wasn't pretty, but it worked.

Spent my time day in and day out with my girlfriends for several weeks, and then found a rebound.

Oh... and I drank a lot.

Like. A LOT... a lot.

drank a ton, worked out a ton.

You know, it seems weird to me to read about guys "suffering" from break ups. I guess I just never really realized that guys take it hard too... they just show it differently/not so obviously.

With a girl... she cries and whines and tells everyone about it.

Guys don't say a word, just drink a lot, and probably cry in bed at night ( ) but you can never really tell that it is directly related to the break up or not.

Can't any of you deal with a break up with no substances?

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Originally posted by RJT My recipe was always pills (mostly pharmaceutical), beer, tequila, rum, pot, cigarettes and a generally apathetic demeanor - blend together until smooth, enjoy for 10-48 hours. Crash. Rinse. Repeat as necessary (2-6 months depending on relationship "relapses" fucking things up again for a while.) It wasn't pretty, but it worked.

this is why i love you.

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Originally posted by Frenchie Can't any of you deal with a break up with no substances?

Do you really need to ask?

3 pages and no "dont send teh letter" remarks wow i for one am shocked

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Originally posted by RJT Do you really need to ask?

Yes because it's seems as though I'm the only normal one enough to do so. So I wanted to know if there were any other normies.

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Originally posted by Frenchie Yes because it's seems as though I'm the only normal one enough to do so. So I wanted to know if there were any other normies.

maybe a few of the middle schoolers hanging around.

then again, they probably don't care.

so yeah...probably just you.

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Originally posted by Aristronica this is why i love you.

I can relate. The two major ones I had end were fucking disastrous and required significant medical (read: chemical) attention.

You're kidding right? I'd much rather be able to deal sans substances rather than have to depend on them.

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Originally posted by Frenchie Yes because it's seems as though I'm the only normal one enough to do so. So I wanted to know if there were any other normies.

You really think that's normal?

And even then - is normal really a good thing?

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Originally posted by Frenchie You're kidding right? I'd much rather be able to deal sans substances rather than have to depend on them.

well, I caaaan cut off my leg tomorrow and have a good life, but I'd rather have two.

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Originally posted by Frenchie You're kidding right? I'd much rather be able to deal sans substances rather than have to depend on them.

You're mistaking chemical dependence for freely choosing to blur your misery with the aid of fun chemicals.

There's a world of difference there.

indeed.

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Originally posted by Frenchie Yes because it's seems as though I'm the only normal one enough to do so. So I wanted to know if there were any other normies.

I don't think it is really intentional for a lot of people. I mean, you socially drink right?

Well when I broke up with my ex, I would go out with friends, and they would encourage the drinking, and then once I started to feel a little better, I drank more. It very easily, and quickly can become exessive. You don't conciously think about it, but psychologically we are inclined to continue doing something if it gives us some relief from the sorrow.

I never thought to myself "I should get tanked to drown my sorrows". It was more like... I already did a lot of partying back then in the first place, so it seemed normal to me, but it quickly became an outlet to relieving the "pain".

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Originally posted by Frenchie Can't any of you deal with a break up with no substances?

LOL we are guys. we resort to substances (drugs, alcohol, whatever) to get over it. its just the way we are. alcohol is normally the substance of choice but not always. its the one that more often than not makes you forget about it all...mostly cause your hung over and you are concentrating on getting over the hangover lol

Bugger being normal, How boring!! How can you be an individual if you follow everyone else around like a conformist sheep. Chaos is alot more interesting than anal sausages on a stick!

I socially drink to have fun, not to make my probs go away. but they way the usage of it was being used in this thread was not to just have fun....

I was just asking, no need to jump on my back .

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Originally posted by Theresa I don't think it is really intentional for a lot of people. I mean, you socially drink right? Well when I broke up with my ex, I would go out with friends, and they would encourage the drinking, and then once I started to feel a little better, I drank more. It very easily, and quickly can become exessive. You don't conciously think about it, but psychologically we are inclined to continue doing something if it gives us some relief from the sorrow. I never thought to myself "I should get tanked to drown my sorrows". It was more like... I already did a lot of partying back then in the first place, so it seemed normal to me, but it quickly became an outlet to relieving the "pain".

this is EXACTLY it. i remember when i was doing it at the beginning of the year! fuck...i was so plastered! for a full 2 weeks i was drinking EVERY day. and on the weekends i was drinking LOTS. at least half a bottle of vodka (and the bottles were always around $35) on sat and sun. id drink about a bottle during the week.

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Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_ Bugger being normal, How boring!! How can you be an individual if you follow everyone else around like a conformist sheep. Chaos is alot more interesting than anal sausages on a stick!

I'm not the sheep here, it seems like I'm on my own. You're the sheeeeep!

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