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Posted by kaykay on May-09-2007 12:52:

I feel empty inside. I feel like I have nothing left. I havebecome this angry person. I beat that bitches ass last....almost went to jail....almost lost my job.....now she is threating me with my kids. I thought I would feel better but, I don't. She has taken almost everything in this world away from me. If I loose my kids then I have no purpose in life. I will have no reason to breath. I hope that he is happy. I hope that he can live with what he has done to me.


Posted by phuzzyfish12 on May-09-2007 14:19:



Your kids are worth so much more then that asshole if he wants to fuck things up with you then he is not worth it and neither is she. I know what you are going through I have been at points in my life where I thought this is it that is as low as I can get and it is tough and no matter what anyone says you need time to heal. I know it has been said but trust me I speak from experience it will get better and you will look back and say wow that actually helped me get into this great place I am in now. I know it never seems like that is gonna happen and its okay to feel that right now but just keep in the back of your head you have great friends and your wonderful kids to keep you happy and he has lost the best thing ever in his life....YOU!!!

Smile


Posted by euphoria on May-09-2007 14:39:

quote:
Originally posted by kaykay
I feel empty inside. I feel like I have nothing left. I havebecome this angry person. I beat that bitches ass last....almost went to jail....almost lost my job.....now she is threating me with my kids. I thought I would feel better but, I don't. She has taken almost everything in this world away from me. If I loose my kids then I have no purpose in life. I will have no reason to breath. I hope that he is happy. I hope that he can live with what he has done to me.


* Hugs * No one is gonna touch your kids!!!! When I come up there on Friday you are gonna take me to that bitches house! Did you get the restaining order yet? What the hell does he have to say for himself with all the shit he has caused?


Posted by dj tek on May-09-2007 14:41:

feel better


Posted by massivenyc on May-09-2007 14:45:

kay, def look at the fact u have ur kids, u could be in a situation where someone takes ur kids away from u...

kids are everything, someone takes those away and its like ur heart has been ripped out of ur chest and trampled on, be thankful urs are with u, i know someone who just had his kids taken from him 6000 miles away to another country, and he is a broken man.


Posted by yankeeBaby on May-09-2007 14:58:

Kala dont give anyone a REASON to take your kids. I doubt she could take your kids anyways, they are not hers to take...... and you need to prove significantly that you are putting them in danger for them to be taken to foster care.

The point tho, is to not give the bitch a chance to have ANYTHING against you. The system can be fucked up and see you as a violent person or whatnot and think that you could display that to your children. yes, you wanna kick her ass. Hell, I want to kick her f*ckin ass. but she will win if your kids are taken, and your kids and your friends are your strengths right now and you dont want to lose that.

remember that we WILL have your back through this and we WILL be partying it up and getting yourmind off things on friday, if ONLY temporarily it will help!! <3


Posted by euphoria on May-09-2007 15:08:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Kala dont give anyone a REASON to take your kids. I doubt she could take your kids anyways, they are not hers to take...... and you need to prove significantly that you are putting them in danger for them to be taken to foster care.

The point tho, is to not give the bitch a chance to have ANYTHING against you. The system can be fucked up and see you as a violent person or whatnot and think that you could display that to your children. yes, you wanna kick her ass. Hell, I want to kick her f*ckin ass. but she will win if your kids are taken, and your kids and your friends are your strengths right now and you dont want to lose that.

remember that we WILL have your back through this and we WILL be partying it up and getting yourmind off things on friday, if ONLY temporarily it will help!! <3


I agree with Kel, you have beat her ass already...you don't need to do anything else that may tarnish your image as a good mother. I would file a complaint against her with the police department. This way if anything comes up again there will be something on record.


Posted by kaykay on May-09-2007 16:00:

She brought her crazy ass mom to my work last night and they started so much shit. I totally fuckin lost it. I beat the shit out of both them bitches and it took for men to get me off her. Her mother is thrething to call children services on me and try to get my kids taken away. She is telling them that I am doing drugs. I don't do drugs alot and when I do they are no where around. I can not pass a piss test if they come. I swear to god if I loose my kids over this I will loose it. I can not even look at him. He makes me sick. How could he do this to me. why did he move me all the way from Ga to do this shit to me?


Posted by trunks1022 on May-09-2007 16:15:

at the risk of sounding like a cockbag, totally wailing on the woman and her mom isn't going to really help you, and neither would the admission of drug use. i wish the best for you and your children.


Posted by dj tek on May-09-2007 16:17:

when we hittin the mets game sal, im goin one of the nites when san frans in town


Posted by trunks1022 on May-09-2007 16:19:

quote:
Originally posted by dj tek
when we hittin the mets game sal, im goin one of the nites when san frans in town


you busy this saturday? have a ticket to sell


Posted by dj tek on May-09-2007 16:26:

quote:
Originally posted by trunks1022
you busy this saturday? have a ticket to sell

1 ticket aint gonna do me no good.


Posted by verndogs on May-09-2007 16:34:

quote:
Originally posted by dj tek
1 ticket aint gonna do me no good.


boo


Posted by yankeeBaby on May-09-2007 16:35:

quote:
Originally posted by dj tek
1 ticket aint gonna do me no good.


dude at the risk of being a hypocrite since I am a total threadjacker, I think in this particaulr thread, since a TA is in serious pain right now, it would be more appropraite to keep this convo to the PM's.


Posted by dj tek on May-09-2007 16:36:

^^ got you.


Posted by yankeeBaby on May-09-2007 16:38:

quote:
Originally posted by dj tek
^^ got you.


Thanks Tae I heart you, as always


Posted by dj tek on May-09-2007 16:40:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Thanks Tae I heart you, as always

likewise girl.. and its terrible what kay's goin thru, ive had my share of heartaches.. but one thing that you can do is to think of all the ppl who love & care about you and that they will always do so. having real friends who care and family that support you is HUGE. not everyone is blessed with that in this world.


Posted by phoenixBEBE on May-09-2007 17:30:

quote:
Originally posted by Uncle ED
Trance cures everything, Same as massive, trust me I went through that crap, and you know what,..Im so HAPPY now and things work out for the better if you let things go. .


I don't mean to threadjack..but when I read the above sentence, "trance cures everything..." just brought me back to my lowest time back when I just began to reinvent myself - and I said almost the exact same thing to myself back then...whoa :eep: time does heal and if u go abt things correctly.

U will get thru this.

But anyway kaykay do whatever (legal) u have to do in order to safeguard ur kids, get that restraining order, get a lawyer, and do not say or do anything that will give them more ammunition against you. Use the legal system and ur smarts and connections to the best of ur ability.

U def have my support as well the support of the community.


Posted by steven-neil on May-09-2007 17:56:

Kay,,a little word of advice..."the best form of revenge is SUCCESS".....Hold you're head up high girl and don't bare your ass in this forum for obvious reasons...

Here's a little story for you that might make you smile and give you a bit of hope.....
I used to date a girl called Natalie...One day she said to me "Steven I need some space cos things aren't working out",,So she dumped me...I was devastated...So I rammed 5000 miles of space up her ass by moving to New York..."...How's that for a bit of space....She shit herself when i called her from Times Square the following day....

She accused me of having no drive or direction...

Now however,,Natalie has no job and a boyfriend who beats her...I however am a millionaire...I live wherever I want and I got a great wife...

To all them Natalies and Subeys out there......Fuck You....The grass aint always greener on the other side....

SUCCESS BABY SUCCESS


Posted by phuzzyfish12 on May-09-2007 17:58:

^^^^ That is the best story EVER!!!!!!!!!!!


Posted by priscilla on May-09-2007 17:59:

Keep your head up girl...There are still people all over the world that love you. I am here for you any time. I love you! You and your kiddos will be fine!


Posted by euphoria on May-09-2007 18:10:

quote:
Originally posted by kaykay I can not pass a piss test if they come.


I think they need a warranty to test you (someone correct me if I am wrong) I am not sure they could get a warrant based on hearsay


Posted by kaykay on May-09-2007 18:10:

thanks guys. I am reading this thread and it helps to know that you all care. Kel thanks for the advise. So, Im closing the thread now. Thanks for all the advise and I will be ok. time will heal and Karma will come around. I will talk ot you all in Pm's. I feel like this thread is way to open about shit.


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