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that's awesome amelia !!!

though i never lived with someone yet i would say like people said previously , just keep seeing ur friends and do some nights out with ur friends , keep some time for yourself and do things on your own

if things can work out towards jobs and all , we'd like to do this as well with my bf this summer

he is back in 3 weeks so we'll see then

i cant' wait!

Ensure that the proper amount of time has passed before doing so.

It may seem like a good idea at the time, but rarely works out if done in the first few months of a relationship.

As everyone else has said, personal time/space is crucial.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard whatever you do... DO NOT LEAVE THE DOOR OPEN WHEN YOU PEE.... once that happens the romance is gone.

LOL, +1

and overall just be sure to maintain some of your own privacy and make sure you both get enough "me" time. living together is great but it's a huge step in a relationship and doesn't always turn out to be the fantasy world that people think it's going to be. as long as you both recognize that and respect each other's boundaries, things should be fine.

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Originally posted by Taranis What if her boyfriend is into that kinda thing?

It's a symbolic thing... once you allow things to get that comfortable and informal then you're making the assumption that the other will always be there... that's when people stop trying, that's when things break down.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard It's a symbolic thing... once you allow things to get that comfortable and informal then you're making the assumption that the other will always be there... that's when people stop trying, that's when things break down.

What if he has a raging pee fetish he's kept hidden all this time for fear of being mocked and finally being able to indulge in the fetish rekindles their dying and monotanous sex life?



But I see what you're saying.

Men and Women living TOGETHER?

What's next? Unisex bathrooms?

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Originally posted by josh4 Make sure to look through it first and ask him questions like "is that what you want me to look like?"

Yeah! Big, bad and busty, moving up and down like a 764.

Hoo-yay-hay! Huh!

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Originally posted by Lira Yeah! Big, bad and busty, moving up and down like a 764. Hoo-yay-hay! Huh!

what's a "764"? Is it the area code for the red light district in brazil?

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Originally posted by prolikewhoa sooo i just moved in with my bf for the summer, and it's the first time i've ever lived w/ a guy. does anyone have any advice, horror stories, words of wisdom, etc? , Pro

lol jk

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Originally posted by l�cid LOL, +1 and overall just be sure to maintain some of your own privacy and make sure you both get enough "me" time. living together is great but it's a huge step in a relationship and doesn't always turn out to be the fantasy world that people think it's going to be. as long as you both recognize that and respect each other's boundaries, things should be fine.

Wait, life doesn't automatically move to a fantasy world when you move in together?



So the brochure you showed me was a lie!

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Originally posted by RJT Wait, life doesn't automatically move to a fantasy world when you move in together? So the brochure you showed me was a lie!

You neglected to read the fineprint.

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Originally posted by RJT Wait, life doesn't automatically move to a fantasy world when you move in together? So the brochure you showed me was a lie!

the rules don't apply to us! when we move in together, our apartment is going to be filled with unicorns and rainbows and wizards who magically create tacos out of thin air.

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Originally posted by igottaknow what's a "764"? Is it the area code for the red light district in brazil?

It's a reference to an acid techno tune

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Originally posted by l�cid the rules don't apply to us! when we move in together, our apartment is going to be filled with unicorns and rainbows and wizards who magically create tacos out of thin air.

Nice.

Really looking forward to September then...

now that your moving in you can quit that diet you've been on and go back to eating ice cream.

as previously stated have your times away from each other. these are VERY VERY critical in relationships working when living with each other. this is one of the biggest reasons i have seen many friends and aquaintences breaking up when they are living together. they feel smothered and cant have any time to themselves.

well i hope for the best for you two! take care!

good luck.

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Originally posted by gehzumteufel as previously stated have your times away from each other. these are VERY VERY critical in relationships working when living with each other. this is one of the biggest reasons i have seen many friends and aquaintences breaking up when they are living together. they feel smothered and cant have any time to themselves. well i hope for the best for you two! take care!

that is key...take a few trips/weekends away with friends w/o your girl/guy and when u get back it refreshes the reasons why u are with them...unless u get accused of cheating then its bad

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Originally posted by igottaknow now that your moving in you can quit that diet you've been on and go back to eating ice cream.

i didn't go on a diet, i just started working out regularly. i still eat ice cream

we're not exactly living together, i'm just staying with him for the summer until i go to france. i did think about some of the things y'all mentioned, i've tried especially to keep my stuff like... contained and out of the way. but then again todd's done a good job reassuring me that my stuff is okay there and that i'm not like... invading. i also have a lot of friends that are staying in the austin area over the summer, and i have 2 trips to go on, so i'll ahve other things to do besides seeing him. it's a little scary, but so far it's been really natural and comfortable.

Move in with him & then dump him. Then bring your new boyfriend around.

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Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_ Move in with him & then dump him. Then bring your new boyfriend around.

lol







that is all

*bump*

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Originally posted by Omega_M *bump*

Interesting time to bump such a thread

indeed

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Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_ Move in with him & then dump him. Then bring your new boyfriend around.

you know my ex?

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