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Originally posted by wotyzoid I can cope with the latter but emotional instability is no excuse to ask for advice in the cor.

No offence mate, but considering the fact that you've been here for less than a year, I guess you're being a bit hasty in your conclusion.

The cor is a place to ask for advice, and it's been this way for quite a long time. Well, it used to, at least...

If she asked for space then just give her space. If it's meant to be, she'll come back. If she doesn't, you're still young and have time to find someone else. Everything happens for a reason.



Good luck

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Originally posted by justin Evn though she told me that there was a strong chance we could get back together.

this means that she's going to go out and "try" being single and if she doesn't meet any guys better than you she'll come running back to the safe and comfortable option.

Takes two to tango.

thanks all. I don't want to think about it anymore but I seriously will internalize everybodies advice.

will keep you updated.

Peace

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Originally posted by l�cid this means that she's going to go out and "try" being single and if she doesn't meet any guys better than you she'll come running back to the safe and comfortable option.

ouch harsh

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Originally posted by Spike ouch harsh

i'm not being harsh.. just realistic.

the truth is she's already fucking someone else.

I've heard the breaking up after a long relationship the people go though similar emotions as if a loved one died.

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Originally posted by l�cid i'm not being harsh.. just realistic.

lol same diff

here try n cheer up bro

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Originally posted by Lira No offence mate, but considering the fact that you've been here for less than a year, I guess you're being a bit hasty in your conclusion. The cor is a place to ask for advice, and it's been this way for quite a long time. Well, it used to, at least...

maybe, but i've had many mental images of people crying after being offended here.

OK I'll be nice today though, to the thread starter: Forget about her, from what you wrote she's a shallow bitch. If she dumped you with no excuse and is indeed bangin' other guys like you suspect shes not even worth your time. Like I always say, there is plenty of other fish in the sea. Go listen to some cheap love radio station, drink the rest of your jack daniel's bottle, cry, watch a sad love movie, then watch a dum comedy, go clubbin', work on your game and bang the first hot blonde you see.

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Originally posted by Prometheus Xex I've heard the breaking up after a long relationship the people go though similar emotions as if a loved one died.

Reminds me of my first semester at university. This guy had just been dumped by his girlfriend, and I gave him some advice.

I don't remember what exactly I told him but this guy was extremely grateful for a couple of weeks and then he landed some ultra hot girlfriend thanks to my advice (according to him).

To this day, I've been striving to remember what the hell it is that I said

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Originally posted by jennypie For real. Why can't people ever just give a person space when they ask for it?? It's always gotta become some worried, paranoid, suffocate-fest. Leave her the fuck alone like she asked, and she'll probably come back to you a lot sooner.

Yea I've learned the hard way... When my GF wants space just leave her alone and she comes back happy =)

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Originally posted by Prometheus Xex I've heard the breaking up after a long relationship the people go though similar emotions as if a loved one died.

I know that's how I'd feel like if My GF and I broke up =(

from my experience...when they want space that's usually the end of it... but a nice mature talk doesn't hurt and figure out what the status of your relationship is.

and if you've only seem her for a month and she needs space already, I'd say you need to move on buddy and stop thinking of her, Christ, she's not the only one out there; the more you think of her, the worst is gets until you snap out of this phase.

my 2 cents on this..

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Originally posted by jonSun Stop obsessing & waiting around for her. Its your turn to get your jollies off with 30 other girls.

wise words from the man of experience.

a break is usally a bad sign more like she doesnt dare telling u it's over

that's why personally i refused to have a break with my ex bf it's a better solution

fact it's damn hard to move on , best advice i could give would be to stop keeping in touch with her (im currently trying to do that on my side anyway) so it will be with time easier to move on

trying going out with ur friends, and keep yourself busy

-once again all im typing is what im trying to do .....not easy but if i can do it....well u can as well -



good luck

If i were you I would check her myspace, if she put herself down as single AND your not in her top24 youre definately finshed common sense bro

Lucid's quote is the truth.



go get laid by some other girl,
it will snap you back and make you realize the sun does not shine out of your EX-girlfriend's pussy.

this is what happens when there isn't enuff anal sex in a relationship...chix need it in the bum on a regular basis

i say first chance you get stick it in the pooper

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Originally posted by jennypie You don't know that she's off with other dudes. Maybe she's just confused or feeling smothered, or like she said, just needs time/space. Sometimes it CAN be as simple as that...I know, because I've been through it. The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy with other things, and try not to think the worst. Things like this are a true test of the relationship. I know it made mine stronger, and really made me realize and appreciate what TRUE, REAL love is all about. You may find that this is the best thing that ever happened to your relationship.

aka TREAL love.

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Originally posted by getfoul aka TREAL love.

LoL.

I talked to her last night for about five hours. she told me she will be there for me when I prove to be more goal oriented, less reliant on her, and stay out of trouble.
She says she's really wants to be in a relationship with me but that we have to get along better than how we were before. According to her there is no reason for me to worry if she is seeing other guys because she isn't even thinking about it.
She said we should start hanging out again too... Amen

why are relationships so damn complicated?

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Originally posted by djsphere why are relationships so damn complicated?

they're only complicated when there isn't enuff buttseckz

25-30 is a big transitional age for women moreso than men. The biological urge to settle down is a pretty big change.

Just keep moving, and your brain and heart will follow your feet. good luck though buddy...

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