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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On He's just...so....rone-ryyyy.

why hint at him? just tell him directly and be as nasty as you can

it'll be the kick in the balls he'll need

being desired has so much fucking crazyness coming with it

I've been on both sides of this coin so I understand where you are coming from Myra, but let's not jump to conclusions ok. Maybe he genuinely is interested in rekindling the friendship (without an agenda) and is completely going about it the wrong way. Be upfront, tell him even after you've told him countless times. Say what you feel because if you mask it any other way (better or worse) there will be a line to which you or him have crossed. If you are upfront and express how you truly feel, ask him to understand and if he doesn't then you bring up your conversation and make it exemplary. If he does understand, then you as a good friend should stay to your word and follow up when time is free. This all goes giving the fact that you tell him this this and this makes me think this this and this...you do this and that, i think that. I want this right now do you understand yadda yadda yadda. Distance and time away can obscure a persons perception as to what they think they believe how a person is.

I've been living with a few words to help me get through times of frusturation: Balance, Breathe, Focus, Relax. I'm sure you know how to handle this the best way..


btw Rob was the one who got me on the balance thing heh as odd as it sounds I'm preaching it now. All is good on the home front, besides NY misses you! heh

Tell Rob to go get him and beat him up.

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Originally posted by get nyce I've been on both sides of this coin so I understand where you are coming from Myra, but let's not jump to conclusions ok. Maybe he genuinely is interested in rekindling the friendship (without an agenda) and is completely going about it the wrong way.

yeah it's not like we ever stopped being friends... but ever since i left NY its just a lot harder to stay in touch with people back there. i've got my own thing going on and they're doing their thing, and sometimes i won't talk to them for a few months. it's not like i can just call him up and be like "hey i'm busy now, but let's chill this weekend" ya know?

i guess my problem is just that i have a hard time being mean or bitchy to people i care about. i'm always afraid that i'll come off as being offensive if i have to be brutally honest with them.

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btw Rob was the one who got me on the balance thing heh as odd as it sounds I'm preaching it now. All is good on the home front, besides NY misses you! heh

balance is always good... and i miss NY too.

Tell him you've sustained radiation poisoning from looking at the sheer number of text messages he's sent you, and your now starting to look like the deformed dude from the goonies.

Should do the trick.

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Originally posted by DJ_Eternal Tell him you've sustained radiation poisoning from looking at the sheer number of text messages he's sent you, and your now starting to look like the deformed dude from the goonies. Should do the trick.

This post is useless without photochopped pics of Lucid's transformation into Slothy.

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Originally posted by DJ_Eternal Tell him you've sustained radiation poisoning from looking at the sheer number of text messages he's sent you, and your now starting to look like the deformed dude from the goonies. Should do the trick.

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Originally posted by l�cid i guess my problem is just that i have a hard time being mean or bitchy to people i care about. i'm always afraid that i'll come off as being offensive if i have to be brutally honest with them.

Gotta be cruel to be kind as they say Myza.

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Originally posted by DJ_Eternal Tell him you've sustained radiation poisoning from looking at the sheer number of text messages he's sent you, and your now starting to look like the deformed dude from the goonies. Should do the trick.

he'll reply with "lolololol you're such a funny girl ;)"

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Originally posted by l�cid

i know whatcha mean...this whole summer ive been getting messages from this girl i knew back in college who left after first year and now 3 years later has found me on facebook. at first i didnt mind replying to her queries about how i was doing and what my plans are and all that...but i swear to fucking god after numerous times of not replying to her message of 'so what are you up to, you get alot of work done this summer?' it gets a little annoying!

recently she sent me a bday wish and i caved and replied to her because i didnt have the heart to be so cold...BUT, point of the story.. if some1 is annoying you FLAT OUT IGNORE THEM! some people are slower than others and takes a little longer for them to 'get it'

Next time you see this dude, punch him in the balls.

Or set his house on fire.

That'd get the message across

I have a friend who periodically stalks me...It started with aim so I stoped logging onto aim. He noticed and sent me a text to ask why I wasn't on aim. He pretty much began texting me like a psycho. My solution is to totally ignore him for a couple days maybe a week or two. If you still want to be friends you can't be totally mean but ceasing all communication for an extended period of time usually works for me...on the flip side I text people like a mad woman but that's directed to a handful of people not just one.

Re: people who can't take a hint...

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Originally posted by l�cid COR version: my friend text msgs me. a LOT. i dont know how to make him stop.

Get Robbie to punchercise his face.

what ever happened to letting someone know how you feel?
There's no problem with being direct. Index finger right between his forehead and "FUCK OFF" and then you get your 3-4 girlfriends in the background to flip their hair, and then say "sssssssssssssss burn"

Yea me and the girl stalking me agreed to delete each other's numbers and I didn't hear from her for a month, and then I started getting texts from a random number and it turned out to be her. I gave her a fake email address and got a new phone number. She left the country and finally left me in peace.

People like that are so annoying!

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