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Posted by yankeeBaby on Sep-20-2007 23:06:

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Originally posted by malek
if I had lost 140 pounds in one year, I would be swimming in confidence... its so hard loosing weight that approaching girls seem trivial.

true story!!

Posted by I_Am_Vince on Sep-20-2007 23:09:

I gained 50 lbs in one year and that gave me more confidence or maybe it was because of all the beer I drank in first year of post-secondary :S Yeah that must be it...

Posted by Jem_hadar on Sep-20-2007 23:13:

quote:
Originally posted by Invasionmix
I gained 50 lbs in one year and that gave me more confidence or maybe it was because of all the beer I drank in first year of post-secondary :S Yeah that must be it...

Hehe i have ATLEAST 50 lbs sitting in my prised beer belly!

not worth the effort to lose it. im proud of my beer belly. ive embraced it and like the character she gives me

Posted by Big Boss on Sep-20-2007 23:18:

This has to be a joke thread?

Posted by Nicolas Oliver on Sep-20-2007 23:25:

quote:
Originally posted by Invasionmix
I gained 50 lbs in one year

I'd gladly take 50 pounds as well

quote:
Originally posted by DaRoZa
Once you simply realize that a lot of them out there want the cack, you'll have moved on. they also have drugs out there for confidence...

Haha! Awesome post.

Posted by Playa24_7 on Sep-20-2007 23:37:

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Originally posted by afterhrsgurl
ya so he can look like this if the girl's sobber she'll be like wtf! lol

hahah!

Posted by Abercrombie on Sep-21-2007 00:15:

When I lost a lot of weight, I regained a lot of confidence. Shaving my head and getting porcelain veneers also helped metamorphosise the new me. I found my home at the Guv years ago, because it was the first club I ever went to where everyone faced the DJ, so I was able to dance alone without any pressure to dance with any girl. Friendships and relationship actually have developped over time for me. It was my first step out into the social world after about 2 years of staying at home all the time and introverted.

Posted by beefy k on Sep-21-2007 00:16:

Re: Re: Honest Truth about myself.

quote:
Originally posted by thesauce23
umm dude, its not a problem. its called low self-esteem, self-confidence. everyone experiences that at one time or another. its just ur mind being fear's bitch. my advice- be yourself- trust in who you are. things will fall in place naturally

Bingo.

Posted by Cribby on Sep-21-2007 00:34:

Try the Escorts section in the yellow pages, or Craigslist.

kthxbye.

Posted by Binder_Dundat on Sep-21-2007 00:51:

quote:
Originally posted by Spin Laden
I'm surprised no one here's mentioned popping an 'e'. You'll be asking girls out (with your shirt off) in no time

Is it just me or does anyone else not really feel like talking to people after popping some pills? All I wanna do is dance my ass off and be left alone. And when I do talk to other people its just simple words like "YEAH", and "Thats durtee".

Posted by Binder_Dundat on Sep-21-2007 01:02:

Re: Honest Truth about myself.

Posted by DigiNut on Sep-21-2007 01:09:

Yet another dating thread, haha.

All I'm going to say is that "be yourself" is the lamest, most pathetic advice that one can ever give to a person who has low self-esteem and low self-confidence. Whoever has given that advice in the past, hang your heads in shame.

Some better advice would be: love yourself. Once you convince yourself that the only thing stopping any random woman from grabbing your nuts in the street is the fear that some other woman might notice and start clubbing the first one with a stop sign in order to get them first, you'll be set.

Posted by afterhours29 on Sep-21-2007 02:01:

start juicing, this will make you horny as hell and eventually force you to start approaching females

Posted by Xavier Moriarty on Sep-21-2007 02:18:

Re: Honest Truth about myself.

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Originally posted by limpboy
I just know that there is no way she will be ever be my girlfriend, so I dont even try, and when I do try I start getting nervous, its like a loser-cycle am having.

you cant think like that bro. i had close to 300lbs at one point in my life but i never had problem getting the girl that i wanted.

like lots of people told you already, confidence is the key.

and remember, any man can have any woman that he sets his eyes onto.

good luck man.

Posted by Spin Laden on Sep-21-2007 02:27:

quote:
Originally posted by Cribby
Try the Escorts section in the yellow pages, or Craigslist.

kthxbye.

+69

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Posted by Al on Sep-21-2007 02:36:

Re: Honest Truth about myself.

it's somewhat natural, you'll get over this situation in no time.

I remember this one article I read by a user in one of the webmaster forums I post in, here it is: http://www.freewebs.com/befriend/niceguy-girl.html
it has some good pointers in there.

looks aren't everything; if you know how to talk to a girl, you can have any girl you want, you just gotta get past your fear point.

good luck!

Posted by Jem_hadar on Sep-21-2007 03:18:

also remember:

a nice sized beer belly fits perfectly into the small of a chick's back when ur spooning!

Posted by Cosmic Fur on Sep-21-2007 04:31:

Re: Honest Truth about myself.

quote:
Originally posted by limpboy
I am 19 years old, and I was overweight for the past 18 years of my life, I lost about 140 pounds last year.

Now that you know my story, my truth is that When it comes to finding a girlfriend...I suck big time, everytime I see a girl I am attracted too I dont get nervous, I just know that there is no way she will be ever be my girlfriend, so I dont even try, and when I do try I start getting nervous, its like a loser-cycle am having.

this is my Honest Truth, and I would like any advice anyone can give me, but if you dont have something nice to say, please dont say it.

In my unprofessional psychiatric opinion, you're putting too much emphasis on the "finding girlfriend" part, which kicks your brain and nerves into high gear before you even start talking to a girl, hence the nervousness problems. In my opinion, you shouldn't try to find a girlfriend like you're finding a ripe watermelon at the grocery store. Put the whole "I am 19, I must find a girlfriend or else i will be labelled 'loser'" thought out of your head, and talking to females will be a lot less stressful. Take each conversation for what it is, and not as another attempt to get a gf, and that'll take a lot of pressure out of the talking. Besides, a lot of the guys who are absolutely miserable in their relationships wound up there because they had that specific mission of having a relationship, and thus went for the first fish that bit. Being single is a hell of a lot better than being in a shitty relationship (you'll be surprised how quickly your attraction to a girl changes once you realize that she's she's a conceited bitch or dumb as a doorknob).

Also, I must make the distinction that if you're just looking for someone to fuck, then it's a whole different deal, and you can disregard everything I've said in the previous paragraph. Do treat women like they're watermelon at the grocery store. Make it obvious to her (and everyone else) when you find a particular girl attractive. Wear clothes that are too tight for you. Drill into your mind that you are THE SHIT, and that you're doing the girl a favour by even talking to her. Remember that at all times when talking, and keep your sentences to strings of one-syllable words. Grunt if you have to. If you say little, she will think you are mysterious. If you say a lot of stupid shit, she will think you are a joker. If you say a lot of stupid shit with utmost confidence that you are right, she will think you are smart. Practise accidentally touching a girl's ass. Forget about tact; there's not such thing as "inappropriate". Keep in mind that if you only have 1 minute of potential conversation instead of 20 minutes, you must come on 20 times harder in that minute. DO NOT DESPAIR FOR ONE SECOND about a girl that rejected you - she was stupid, a lesbian, and not worth giving a Dirty Sanchez to. There are many fish in the sea - the faster you find out whether or not she's interested in fucking you, the faster you can move on to the next girl. WITH THE LIGHTS TURNED DOWN, EVERY PUSSY FEELS LIKE PUSSY.

Good luck in your search.

Posted by evil_cookie on Sep-21-2007 04:46:

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quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
In my unprofessional psychiatric opinion, you're putting too much emphasis on the "finding girlfriend" part, which kicks your brain and nerves into high gear before you even start talking to a girl, hence the nervousness problems. In my opinion, you shouldn't try to find a girlfriend like you're finding a ripe watermelon at the grocery store. Put the whole "I am 19, I must find a girlfriend or else i will be labelled 'loser'" thought out of your head, and talking to females will be a lot less stressful. Take each conversation for what it is, and not as another attempt to get a gf, and that'll take a lot of pressure out of the talking. Besides, a lot of the guys who are absolutely miserable in their relationships wound up there because they had that specific mission of having a relationship, and thus went for the first fish that bit. Being single is a hell of a lot better than being in a shitty relationship (you'll be surprised how quickly your attraction to a girl changes once you realize that she's she's a conceited bitch or dumb as a doorknob).

Good luck in your search.

and that's it folks,
srsly, if you need to - read that, over and over and over and over again, till it sinks in.

Posted by m2j on Sep-21-2007 05:51:

quote:
Originally posted by DaRoZa
they also have drugs out there for confidence... it's called alcohol :P

hahahhahahahahhahahha

you said it.
just make sure you don't have too much, or else you'll look sloppy.

Posted by Zentac_75 on Sep-21-2007 09:28:

Re: Re: Honest Truth about myself.

quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
In my unprofessional psychiatric opinion,

Do treat women like they're watermelon at the grocery store.

WITH THE LIGHTS TURNED DOWN, EVERY PUSSY FEELS LIKE PUSSY.

Good luck in your search.

HAHAHAHA..... hahahahaha..... watermelon at the grocery store...I don't know what that means but its funny.

Anyway...

He who shoots, eventually scores. He who hesitates, eventually masturbates.

Posted by zokissima on Sep-21-2007 11:54:

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Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
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Ditto on all he said. It all depends on what you're 'shooting' for. Women, for the most part, can smell weakness like the plague, so typically small little twitches and scenes of lack of confidence will show through. Find a place in your mind, wherever it happens to be, that you can learn to suck confidence out of.

Posted by afterhrsgurl on Sep-21-2007 17:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Binder_Dundat when I do talk to other people its just simple words like "YEAH", and "Thats durtee".

lol... +1

Posted by afterhrsgurl on Sep-21-2007 17:46:

quote:
Originally posted by afterhours29

why u copying my user name?

Posted by afterhrsgurl on Sep-21-2007 17:47:

Re: Re: Honest Truth about myself.

quote:
Originally posted by jeeper_095
looks aren't everything; if you know how to talk to a girl,

EXACTLY!

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