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Originally posted by thesauce23 I recently read a story on cnn.com about a guy that just got out after spending 22 years in prison for a rape he didn't commit. recent dna confirmed it.

Didn't they acquit him of the crime, but refuse to publically absolve him of the crime entirely based on evidence, thinking that if they let evidence prove his inoccence that would open up a whole new can of worms in the judicial system?

I see Shelley's point. I don't have the stats but my common sense tells me there are far more cases of actual abuse than false alarms. Police have experience with domestic violence so I do have some faith in their training (but of course there are always exceptions).

I have a friend at work who almost got shot by her spouse and was telling me a really bone-chilling story about her relationship.

Jems, to address your concern I guess the police's actions in these cases where arrests are made but no time is served and no charges are formally made, these are just precautionary measures which are meaningless. The problem is, for most of us (including myself) the simple reference to "po po" carries such a negative connotation that even I would feel that their simple involvement would be a grave injustice.

However, in our society, as Akermanis cited above, there are certain gender roles that are related in this issue.

Not to hijack, but I see a parallel of this issue to racial profiling. Why, just because I look Middle Eastern, do I get questioned with more fervor by the customs agents when I'm entering a country? I have learned to accept that as unfair as it seems, I'm contributing to the general safety and security of the country, so I feel like I'm playing my role as a peaceful, law-abiding citizen. The extra questions are just precautionary measures, due to generalizations that are made (albeit unfair) but I don't look at that as harm.

In the same way, it is my opinion that we men shouldn't look at the police involvement as harm, but cooperate peacefully, because we know we haven't done anything wrong, and the truth will reveal itself in due course. Patience.

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Originally posted by Dr. DAS When I was 16 I dated a girl who played the same game. She was an only child and a spoiled one at that.

Sorry about that situation, yes it was shitty. But being an only child has NOTHING to do with it. You're either psycho or you're not.

/well-adjusted only-child

why cant we all just get along?

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Originally posted by Irishaddict /well-adjusted only-child

I'll vouch for that! (even the not-so-sober Laura) LOL I <3 you.

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Originally posted by fayraree Jems, to address your concern I guess the police's actions in these cases where arrests are made but no time is served and no charges are formally made, these are just precautionary measures which are meaningless. The problem is, for most of us (including myself) the simple reference to "po po" carries such a negative connotation that even I would feel that their simple involvement would be a grave injustice.

Canada has mandatory charging policies. if police suspect domestic abuse of any kind (as long as it falls under what they deem abuse) they are supposed to arrest, ************ if even the victim wants charges to be brought

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Originally posted by Dave Akermanis why cant we all just get along?

ego

hahahaha suuuuucka >>> at the woman who didn't get away

I had a psycho ex who once BS'd she was pregnant after I broke up with her in order for me to stay with her or fork over $300 for the operation. I called her bluff because she told me the same story 6 mo earlier about an ex of hers and she went shopping with her friends when he paid up instead of staying. She did the same scheme with my friend who dated her after me because he heard all the nympho stories.

I've never hit a woman and I never will, yet I have been hit by a girl yet somehow that isn't (usually) seen as abuse. There is definitely a double standard going on, but I also know many guys who have hit their girlfriends or wives and there is no excuse for it.

But a woman like this has issues and when you think about it, it's really easy to set a guy up for abuse isn't it?

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Originally posted by Dj Smitty20 when you think about it, it's really easy to set a guy up for abuse isn't it?

Agreed. Now tell me, what did you do that made the girl hit you?

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Originally posted by Dj Smitty20 I've never hit a woman and I never will

I have, and I would again. My friend's girlfriend at the time.

Now, before you all go off on me for saying such a thing, I should qualify that...

You see, she was always kind of known for being unstable, you know the type - very nice and sweet, but when that bipolar shit comes on, WATCH OUT!

Anywho, she got to yelling at me one day and I just calmly went about my business, which really got her going. Basically, she wanted me to leave his house while we were working on a project and we both told her that we needed to work. Reasonable, right? She goes outside and pulls the E-brake release on my Jeep, which was parked on a shallow hill in a residential neighbourhood. Upon returning to the house from my James Bond style sprint-and-save, we had words.
Suddenly, she stormed off into the kitchen and I heard the telltale sound of a drawer opening, a knife being removed and the drawer slamming shut. I stood up, cornered in his living room.

Now, I learned how to disarm people with edged weapons during my time in the army. I looked her very seriously in the eye and told her that if she came at me with it, she was going to die. Simple as that. She made a small lateral move, which was threatening in it's own right. I got inside her reach, controlled the weapon and using an arm bar and a stout whack to the back of the neck, put her on her knees with a good amount of force. I then left the house and threw the knife on the porch as I went. I feel it was a completely reasonable use of force considering.

Now I tell you, having seen the shit in her eyes, that if put in that same situation again I would most certainly hit a woman. I would punch my own mother in the face if she ever swung a knife at me.

They broke up, by the way.

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Originally posted by EvilTree Good on the man to know what sort of psycho bitch and covering his ass properly

I'm surprised someone from innissfil was smart enough to think of that

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Originally posted by chinamon now i understand why thesauce23 has recently decided to "switch teams".

Too bad for him, gay guys can be even more catty than crazy women!

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Originally posted by fayraree Agreed. Now tell me, what did you do that made the girl hit you?

just a regular guy-girl "verbal debate". She had a temper and slapped me in the face pretty hard. Of course my first instinct was to raise my fist at her but, but I thought better of it, took a deep breath and walked out. Then she threw something at me that smashed...it was the end of a turbulent relationship. But then again, we were only 19.

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Originally posted by Dave Akermanis why cant we all just get along?

Because some people are fucking idiots.

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Originally posted by Dr. DAS They broke up, by the way.

LOL I fucking hope so!

I'm assuming she didn't take it well and he needed a restraining order??

Re: Man tapes girlfriend's allegations of assault

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Originally posted by Jem_hadar What a f*cking WHORE! Stupid bitch, she should have HUGE consequences fro trying to publicly defame and ruin his life like that by having him slapped w/ assault charges. That can do SO much damage to a persons career, not to mention the possible jail time and/or fees. God, I hate hearing about BS charges like this. Penalties for such actions really need to be stepped up. This shouldnt be tolerated even an inch!

thats black mail and extortion by the sounds of it....meh throw the bitch in jail for a few years, she will learn from that.

girls are evil the end.

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Originally posted by Djsketchbag girls are evil the end.

yet the lengths we'll go to for the pussy...

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Originally posted by fayraree Agreed. Now tell me, what did you do that made the girl hit you?

Neither of either sex should ever ask that question.

Imagine asking that question to a woman after she really has been hit. You're basically asking if she deserved it, and that's wrong. You can't ask a guy why she hit him either. It's not acceptable either way.

Hence the "" parlez-vous facetious?

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Originally posted by Dj Smitty20 just a regular guy-girl "verbal debate". She had a temper and slapped me in the face pretty hard. Of course my first instinct was to raise my fist at her but, but I thought better of it, took a deep breath and walked out. Then she threw something at me that smashed...it was the end of a turbulent relationship. But then again, we were only 19.

Ahh the ripe age of 19...lol I was just kidding, man, but thanks for sharing!

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Originally posted by fayraree Hence the "" parlez-vous facetious?

I got a headache, and irritable tonight, my bad

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Originally posted by Dr. DAS They broke up, by the way.

no way!

lol j/k. Awesome story. That doesn't count then, it was self defence!

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