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Posted by Lira on Jan-31-2008 03:49:

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Originally posted by Frenchie
I totally missed this.

Ok so it's ok that she cheats with women? I'd feel like shit if my SO was cheating on me with the opposite sex, well..same sex as they are. That means you don't have the goods to satisfy her properly, man!

It's funny how my girlfriend feels the same way about it. I had never considered this thought until the day she said that.

Posted by nchs09 on Jan-31-2008 03:49:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Certainly not. Leopards don't change their spots.
Very close minded....... I would not date a cheater but not because of that reason. I myself would have doubts about her being with other men and i think its reasonable but i do like to believe that people can change.

Posted by Lira on Jan-31-2008 03:53:

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Originally posted by iammesol
I hope you're not serious.

My dad actually taught me that. He said I should "get to know" as many girls as possible before marriage.

It kinda reminds me of Arbiter's point of view, he seems to agree with my dad on this.

Posted by Project-K on Jan-31-2008 03:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
I totally missed this.

Ok so it's ok that she cheats with women? I'd feel like shit if my SO was cheating on me with the opposite sex, well..same sex as they are. That means you don't have the goods to satisfy her properly, man!

I guess you could see it that way. I had an understanding with my past relationship (who was bi); she'd get all her manlove from me and she could get the womanlove elsewhere, and I was ok with it.

Posted by iammesol on Jan-31-2008 03:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
My dad actually taught me that. He said I should "get to know" as many girls as possible before marriage.

It kinda reminds me of Arbiter's point of view, he seems to agree with my dad on this.

It just seems like a complete betrayal to me. I'm a intensely emotional person rather than physical though.

Posted by Arbiter on Jan-31-2008 03:57:

Posted by RJT on Jan-31-2008 04:00:

Trance Addict dot com slash forums is irrefutable proof that people can change dramatically.

I'd specifically like to note the following: Ivan van Dahl and Electro Hairspray.

There, I said it.

Posted by MrJiveBoJingles on Jan-31-2008 04:02:

quote:
Originally posted by RJT
I'd specifically like to note the following: Ivan van Dahl and Electro Hairspray.

Posted by RJT on Jan-31-2008 04:02:

quote:
Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles

Some of us with initials for screen names have things we'll never live down.

I've learned to embrace that.

Posted by Lira on Jan-31-2008 04:07:

quote:
Originally posted by iammesol
It just seems like a complete betrayal to me. I'm a intensely emotional person rather than physical though.

I'm the same.

It's kinda funny, though, that my dad seems to be a bit frustrated by the fact that none of his children became the womaniser he used to be in his golden days

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
Well, except that I don't condone marriage.

Oh, I didn't know that. It did take him 35 years to get married, however, so maybe he didn't approve of marriage when he was our age either

Posted by Abercrombie on Jan-31-2008 04:26:

Cheating isn't cheating when you both do it together. It's not that bad.

Posted by Spacey Orange on Jan-31-2008 04:33:

knock. knock.

Posted by SteelWolf on Jan-31-2008 07:18:

I say fuckin no way.. i has been cheated on twice, i is unnaceptable, its also how people wind up shot... bad idea all around

Posted by Yohan on Jan-31-2008 07:25:

no way.

I value loyalty and honesty the most, esp. in a relationships.

Don't care how hot the chick is, if she's not faithful or honest, she's a no go.

(one night stand is another matter)

Posted by jonze on Jan-31-2008 07:29:

i would say no, but if i did get into a relationship with a girl that had cheated i would be very reluctant to fully commit myself. it would probably prevent the relationship from getting to the next level and would most likely end up being a colossal waste of time.

Posted by narcism on Jan-31-2008 16:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Spacey Orange
knock. knock.

was he the one that got stabbed
oh man that was the best episode ever

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-31-2008 17:00:

at this point, if I dated anyone I would be cheating... so I really don't think I'd care if the person I was dating was loyal.

Posted by loca on Jan-31-2008 18:19:

You're all saying "no" but all this is assuming the person would actually tell you in the first place. What if you started dating a girl/guy and after you both became very attached to each other he/she admits to having cheated several times in past relationships? Would you dump your SO?

Posted by Lira on Jan-31-2008 18:24:

Sweep me off my feet
Talk about it

Posted by goodgreef on Jan-31-2008 18:24:

dated a guy who had a history of it... leopards don't change their spots.

I don't think I could endure a heartache like that again. So No. But fuck, what do i know, love blinds me like nothing else.

Posted by Frenchie on Jan-31-2008 18:30:

quote:
Originally posted by loca
You're all saying "no" but all this is assuming the person would actually tell you in the first place. What if you started dating a girl/guy and after you both became very attached to each other he/she admits to having cheated several times in past relationships? Would you dump your SO?

Probably. Why didn't they tell me before? It's kind of my business if they are wanting to date me and they have a cheating history. Not telling someone you're seeing that you've cheated is still lying regardless if they cheated on you or the one before you. They've cheated, they'll probably cheat again. You now know that they've done it so by saying they have you'll always have this tiny(or big) speculation that they're cheating on YOU. I don't want to have a worrying relationship.

Posted by Lira on Jan-31-2008 18:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Probably. Why didn't they tell me before? It's kind of my business if they are wanting to date me and they have a cheating history. Not telling someone you're seeing that you've cheated is still lying regardless if they cheated on you or the one before you. They've cheated, they'll probably cheat again. You now know that they've done it so by saying they have you'll always have this tiny(or big) speculation that they're cheating on YOU. I don't want to have a worrying relationship.

What if he were French, well-built, Jewish, loaded, and liked Daft Punk's 2nd album?

Posted by Frenchie on Jan-31-2008 18:40:

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Originally posted by Lira
What if he were French, well-built, Jewish, loaded, and liked Daft Punk's 2nd album?
I don't like French men, nor do I want to date a Jewish man, I have my own money and anyone who is cool likes all Daft Punk's Albums.

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-31-2008 18:40:

quote:
Originally posted by loca
You're all saying "no"

um... I said yes.

Posted by Lira on Jan-31-2008 18:44:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
I don't like French men, nor do I want to date a Jewish man, I have my own money and anyone who is cool likes all Daft Punk's Albums.

So, is that a yes or a no?

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