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Posted by jinxed84 on May-10-2002 03:18:

ehh everybody has problems..all i can say is that your life is gauranteed to get harder..middleschool doesnt hold a candle to highschool if you let it sneak up on you...i dont wanna be all dark forboding about highschool and make you scared of it but its been a somewhat of a challenge for me...i started off awesome in my first semester then i realized i was smarter than my teachers and i slacked off BIG TIME...now i am paying for it. I also had to transfer schools because my mom moved and i went to live with my dad, i had to leave all my buddies behind and move to school in another state(although still close to home and make all new friends....probably the best thing thats ever happened to me..the school is 100 times better (although my watch got stolen today) and ive made quite a turn around buti have to work my but off this year and next year. Im also on the track team and that severly limits my free time. i dont get home till 6 every night(i know thats not bad to some of you who work but i think it sucks) and i havent been able to go to any of the parties my friends go to because i have a meet every weekend. but i love throwing so i stick with it. dont let highschool whip your ass. do enough work and you can have an awesome time with highschool im starting to see some of it now.
women: personally i could have a girlfriend but i dont have the damn time, money, or energy
some relationships work out to be great things and then ive seen some that crush people or make them annoying little snots..i dont want to go through that crap(call me scared or lazy..i have alot of life ahead of me im not going to throw it all away cause i wanted to spend more time with my nagging girlfriend)
woh ive written alot and i dont think ive said anything...more babbling from mike

but it could be much worse so i cant really complain ...im just thankful for everything that i have

when life gives you lemons, make lemonade


Posted by Damo on May-10-2002 03:40:

smoke weed then make lemonade, much better.


Posted by tiesto14 on May-10-2002 04:05:

quote:
Originally posted by sothis


if you think high school is this bad, you are really gonna have a fun time at a university if you go


LoL...forget college thats EASY...try after college...the real world..thats when it gets hard....enjoy high school and college as much as u can...cus it ends faster then u can beleive and u will be WISHING u could go back to those days when your biggest worries where girls and studies...trust me....i wish i could go back...LoL


Posted by elena on May-10-2002 08:32:

it's so easy to say that life sucks balls...
im in the same position as you..jr in hs but shit i dont know how the europeans can live with the IB program..its the most wack thing ive ever presenced.
problems with not having a social life or a girlfriend or wahtever else is not as bad as being fucked over by more personal things...(identity crisis, family problems..etc) once you think about it it seems rather shallow to say life sucks cause of that...complaining or venting really does calm down that anxiety but ya you have to deal with it...
as for comparing yourself with peopple who have it worse...that's them and your'e you dont compare live within your own framework


Posted by ali92 on May-10-2002 18:28:

quote:
Originally posted by miss_e
it's so easy to say that life sucks balls...
im in the same position as you..jr in hs but shit i dont know how the europeans can live with the IB program..its the most wack thing ive ever presenced.
problems with not having a social life or a girlfriend or wahtever else is not as bad as being fucked over by more personal things...(identity crisis, family problems..etc) once you think about it it seems rather shallow to say life sucks cause of that...complaining or venting really does calm down that anxiety but ya you have to deal with it...
as for comparing yourself with peopple who have it worse...that's them and your'e you dont compare live within your own framework


"IB Programme"? What is the "IB Programme"???


Posted by drizzt81 on May-10-2002 18:33:

quote:
Originally posted by JohnSmith
so.. just grin and bear it, and try to make things better for yourself.


i read "grin and BEER it"

rotfl!


Posted by AnotherWay83 on May-11-2002 01:05:

relax, as eu4ia has already pointed out, it will be MUCH better in college...u will have TONS more time on ur hands to do what u want, studies, social life, all that stuff...i just graduated last yr. from HS, i remember we hardly had that much time for stuff, college is much better, so relax, it will get better


Posted by PhaseFour on May-11-2002 02:44:

quote:
Originally posted by ali92


"IB Programme"? What is the "IB Programme"???


im in IB....

ill straight up say it sucks...it stands for international baccalaureate...supposedly, its the best academic program in the world. Well, with the amount of work ya gotta do for it, i believe so. look in the AP Computer Sciences thread, and i bitched about it more in there.

IB and school is the biggest problem in my life, of course. SO much work that it kill syour social life, really. It very thogh to talk about this prog without people being familiar with it. And yes, Junior year in IB is probably gonna be my worst year in life (biology 1 is suicide enough, ive heard)

I dunno though. But someone raised the point of hating the real life after studies, and thats something i realized a bit earlier. see, right now, i really only care abuot the kings winning the championship, and school.

so yeah, im looking toward my future for more fun, ive always had a wait and see attitude. i am a sophmore in highschool right now. I envision a time, maybe when im 25 or so, where i can just chill out, and achieve my dream of going around the world (namely ibiza ). thats whats driving me out of depressoin; the future.

btw.....my summers gonna suck. english is assigning two books to read, spanish is assigning one book, and i am taking calc just to dominate AP AB calc next year, without hope going into IB3. academics all the way baby!

if anything i have posted is whack...sorry...brain isnt functioning.


Posted by tranceDJ on May-11-2002 02:55:

Why can't schools realize that life isn't about learning, it's about having fun!!!! I'd rather be of average intelligence and travel the world and party than be really smart and sit in an office for all of my life.


Posted by yujie__ on May-11-2002 02:57:

its sucks when everything u expect to go right made a wrong and suck ass turn to "sucks is life" or not what u expected


Posted by USMC_Greg on May-11-2002 07:17:

Re: Is it fair to say that life sux?

quote:
Originally posted by tranceDJ
Got a question for you all: is it ok to say that your life sucks even though there are many people who have it worse than you?

My situation:
I'm a junior in high school now and it's really too much to handle. I also have a part time job. I have so many damn tests and homework assignments to do plus my job (which is 2 days during the school week btw), that I have hardly any free time during the day. I go out on the weekend but I'm so stressed from the week and stressed about next week that I'm still unhappy. To say the least, I'm really unhappy at the moment.

I was also planning on asking this girl to my prom but decided not to because it's much too expensive. I figured I would then probably ask her out pretty soon. Unfortunetly someone I know decided to take her to the prom and will probably then date her.

I was in Germany in February and met this really cool girl. We hung out and I even kissed her. I didn't want to get into much because I was there for only three weeks. She will be coming here in October for three weeks as well. I was hoping to hang out with her then and maybe have a little something going but not much cause once again, its only three weeks. Anyway, today she tells me in an email she has a boyfriend and was sorry that she was leading me into something with her. Now plans are fucked up for October.

I could go on with more problems but that's about it. Sure, I know everyone else has problems but I needed to get that out.

BACK TO THE TOPIC: Is it ok when you're in this kind of situation to say that life sucks? I know there's people who have so much harder for me. The whole thing is that I know life will get better for me...the Summer is close and I will be outta this whole thing then but nevertheless, life sucks at the moment.

FEEL FREE TO POST YOUR OWN PROBLEMS AS WELL




Dude, You can look at it as if it is stressful or you can look at it as if it's easy. I perfer to look at high school/junior high as easy. I got univeristy to handle now and it's a helluva lot tougher than high school. As for the girl, fuck man, take it from me -- just ask the girl out. Trust me, you dont' want to end up regretting anyting 2 or 3 years down the road. If she's a gold digger, just drop her -- you don't need that shiat.

Life doesn't suck! You just gotta learn how to do what you want -- and when you do make sure to let me know!

*takes another sip of beer*


Posted by elena on May-11-2002 13:58:

quote:
Originally posted by PhaseFour


im in IB....

ill straight up say it sucks...it stands for international baccalaureate...supposedly, its the best academic program in the world. Well, with the amount of work ya gotta do for it, i believe so. look in the AP Computer Sciences thread, and i bitched about it more in there.

IB and school is the biggest problem in my life, of course. SO much work that it kill syour social life, really. It very thogh to talk about this prog without people being familiar with it. And yes, Junior year in IB is probably gonna be my worst year in life (biology 1 is suicide enough, ive heard)

I dunno though. But someone raised the point of hating the real life after studies, and thats something i realized a bit earlier. see, right now, i really only care abuot the kings winning the championship, and school.

so yeah, im looking toward my future for more fun, ive always had a wait and see attitude. i am a sophmore in highschool right now. I envision a time, maybe when im 25 or so, where i can just chill out, and achieve my dream of going around the world (namely ibiza ). thats whats driving me out of depressoin; the future.

btw.....my summers gonna suck. english is assigning two books to read, spanish is assigning one book, and i am taking calc just to dominate AP AB calc next year, without hope going into IB3. academics all the way baby!

if anything i have posted is whack...sorry...brain isnt functioning.


IB can fucking suck my nonexistent balls damnit...i fucking TRULY hate it with all my soul..thats not even the main problem in my life
try being an asian with fucking hardcore ignorant fucks as yer "parents" fucking im not even in college and i hate it already
im sure most of the TA's will not be able to relate but whatever...
i cant even enjoy the only thing in my life that keeps me happy (trance) anymore...utter state of depression...

as for the real world...its better than having controlling maniacs tell you waht to do


Posted by PhaseFour on May-11-2002 16:34:

quote:
Originally posted by miss_e


IB can fucking suck my nonexistent balls damnit...i fucking TRULY hate it with all my soul..thats not even the main problem in my life
try being an asian with fucking hardcore ignorant fucks as yer "parents" fucking im not even in college and i hate it already
im sure most of the TA's will not be able to relate but whatever...
i cant even enjoy the only thing in my life that keeps me happy (trance) anymore...utter state of depression...

as for the real world...its better than having controlling maniacs tell you waht to do


whoa, ur in IB too?

anyway, i happen to be asian, with hardcore parents etc etc. pisses me off when they compare me to other kids, and i am quite sure other TAs can relate. don't be depressed bout school though, its supposed to be fun, amek the best out of it. and plus..get full ib diploma, u get one of those cool little IB bibs!


Posted by Uisgdlyast on May-13-2002 02:39:

life sucks for everyone, just live with it and hold you head up. Its not gonna get any better complaining, just do whats the best and live in the PRESENT MOMENT.

Everyone can say life sucks, it does.. it might suck cause your ugly, or cause your short, maybe your too damn tall, maybe you have cancer, or your parents both died, your too smart, shy, your dumb, you have to sell crack to live, or maybe because you just crashed your new ferrari into your BMW.. it sucks for everyone

Don't worry about anyhting, practice relaxing, and look into the book "Don't Sweat the Small stuff" i'm not promoting it but it teaches how to handle everything and look at life in a way that makes it not "suck". Just remember to relax, look at things from a different view, other peoples view, don't over-react, and live now.. don't think it will all be better later.
Also just go for it, ask the girl out, try for the job, jump the tracks with your car, do that line, skip a class.. well avoid the last ones really.
And whats this about drinking? what about other drugs? and dont do them to feel better or you will be dependent somewhat like you said


Posted by Rostros on May-13-2002 12:16:

Hey TranceDJ , please read and any other people who think life sucks.

One of my best friends is in a wheel chair , he has been all his life and he is dieing everyday to some rare case of luekimia , hes never had a g/f and he has never walked, he always smiles and i never see him upset, i look at him and i think , how can he smile when he cant walk or have sex , or go clubbing or any of that cool stuff...Imagine if that was you.? please dont take this the wrong way and i aint being harse on those u hate life coz thats unfair. life is what u make it...

I was once pissed off with life , like homework , girls etc , then i started to see how life is so valuble im totally healthy , maybe a little beer belly but what can i say, i work hard and i play hard, everything happens for a reason , girls are complicated and things work out right in the end.

I find that music helps fight the pain.


Posted by attacc on May-13-2002 13:54:

school sucks..

You have to find out what you want in your life. Do you want a college degree and a big important job.. hey, sound nice doesn't it? But on the other hand you might have to devote 100% of your time and effort to do it. Doesn't sound so nice now does it?

I'm not sure if I'm able to work 100% with my studies.. I have tried.. and when I tried I felt my life sucked..

my 2p


Posted by Tsunami One on May-13-2002 14:57:

Maybe your notspinning theright track.......


Posted by mute79 on May-13-2002 14:57:

*sigh*

i'd give anything to go back to highschool... :/


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