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26, and this is the FIRST time ever that I feel like clubbing is getting old. Not only do the drugs interest me less and less....(I RARELY use them anymore, cept for special occasions).....but the scene in general is totally different then it was in 2000-2004. those were the glory years (and the toronto years, for me) lol. NYC scene is completely different and not necessarily in a good way.

No worries, tho. I dont find the change depressing. I have found enjoyment in so many other things, and the distance has made the parties that I *do* go to even better. (but a lot harder to recover from....holy shit a big massive like bal en blanc had me exhausted straight til thursday...)

Im 24....I dont know what im going thru but I have things to look forward to....... getting married in 4 months time....So its gona be a big change...I'll have a wifey for real (Like my very own ) LOL I dont know how to explain buts its kinda kool feeling.

Thats all besides that Im just like most of you.....I think 25 years later I'll be touching 50 and thats big jump.I'll be an old man scary stuff.

whats even scarier is when i start hearing about old friends of mine getting married etc. im like WTF are ppl thinking.

im scared im not ready for marriage anytime in the next 10 years

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy whats even scarier is when i start hearing about old friends of mine getting married etc. im like WTF are ppl thinking. im scared im not ready for marriage anytime in the next 10 years

Some of my HS friends have KIDS!! That's always the shocker for me. Married, meh (maybe it's because I am? Dunno...) but kids! Holy shit man, I don't plan on those til i'm 30-ish. And even that is only 3 years away! I feel so young inside but so old on the outside!
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy whats even scarier is when i start hearing about old friends of mine getting married etc. im like WTF are ppl thinking. im scared im not ready for marriage anytime in the next 10 years

Agreed 100%. I have so many friends that are married now and starting families. I say to hell with that!

I'm anti-marriage through and through, but if I ever do settle down it won't be until I'm at least 30. What's the point of rushing into locking yourself down for the rest of your life??

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Originally posted by loca Some of my HS friends have KIDS!! That's always the shocker for me. Married, meh (maybe it's because I am? Dunno...) but kids! Holy shit man, I don't plan on those til i'm 30-ish. And even that is only 3 years away! I feel so young inside but so old on the outside! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh

yeah Im 19 and half of my graduating class is either married/engaged or has had or is having a kid. parents always ask me why I havent settled down yet.. hello hickville

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Originally posted by loca I'm turning 27 in May and I feel like my life is going to be over. 27 is only 3 years away from 30! God it's horrible

LOL, I felt the same way. Now with 30 rolling in in another 9 months, I am ok with it...FINALLY!

I can feel my body slowing down a little bit (especially with partying) and I rather be at home and in bed by 11pm on a Friday night now, but I have partied enough, I can still pass for 26 if I tried, I have gotten to travel a little and live my life as I have wanted to with no distractions, so 30 won't be so bad.

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Originally posted by barbina yeah Im 19 and half of my graduating class is either married/engaged or has had or is having a kid. parents always ask me why I havent settled down yet.. hello hickville

lol aren't you 19? Your parents want you to settle down already?

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Originally posted by soupastah i can't wait to be a dirty old man... shit you have no idea

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Originally posted by phlog

"where's my beer damn it?"

Really?
*bitchslapps the room*

for real, you all need some god damn perspective!!

when you were six you couldn't have the # of cookies you wanted

when were 14 you were all tired of having the newly driving 16-17 yer who just started driving stealing your gf's

when you were 18 you just couldn't wait till you were 22 and you could go WHEREEVER the f*ck you wanted

and now you're prime mid-20's THE PEAK! now I ruin my appetite right before diner cuz i f*ckin can! in fact i think i'll do that tonight... you can hop on a plane and get into any Vegas club no issues... you can pick up highschool guy's gf's AND tap other people's 'married' wives! there is no better place to be then where you are right now

and you get to use the best start to any given sentence... "yo, back in the day...."

Vivid is in his prime and just where he needs to be... at least he had the drunk excuse... most of this is sober sat beautiful day out talk, and that's the part that freaks me out!

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Originally posted by The Highroller lol aren't you 19? Your parents want you to settle down already?

lol yeah.. I am 19.. and not my parents.. my old friends/classmates parents. They all seem to believe I should be back home, not in school, especially not in Canada and settling down.

Oh the drama I cause .. ahah

No complaints here. I can hardly relate to feeling old, despite having adult responsibilities.

I think it's from always getting in shit when I was a kid. There's a always a feeling of "I need to check with an adult first" that lingers in the back of my mind somewhere, lol.



edit: I think I'll start feeling old when I can no longer fit into clothes I wore in high school.

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Originally posted by soupastah "where's my beer damn it?"

i have an idea where the bottle is..

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Originally posted by phlog i have an idea where the bottle is..

i told you to stop putting it there

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Originally posted by loca I'm turning 27 in May and I feel like my life is going to be over. 27 is only 3 years away from 30! God it's horrible

I'll be 27 in the fall and I feel like I'm really getting old and the most depressing thing is that I feel like I haven't really lived *life* yet. I feel that I missed out on a lot of good stuff that I could have had and lost a lot of good times and feelings through my foolishnes or circumstances (yeah, have to blame it on someone/something else, like all excuse-makers I guess).

And also, I'm scared that I'll never achieve those good things/dreams of mine. That's perhaps even scarier than aging.

This thread is useless without Abercrombie.

i'll be 28 in a few weeks! i can't complain though... every year seems to be better then the last for me so if trends continue 2008 should be phenomenal. partying is becoming few and far between but i'm ok with that. it just means that i get to pick and choose the parties that i think are going to be amazing. i just need to give myself adequate time to recover afterwards and make sure i get my naps in beforehand.

on a related note, i was having a little house party not too long ago and spent a good chunk of the night talking to a buddy of mine about mortgages, marriage and child support... lol. i felt soooo old after that conversation.

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Originally posted by Abercrombie This thread is useless without Abercrombie.

& fitch?

STOP fucking around and partying and you wont feel old lol. I am 26 its not the age , its the mindset! your not old consider a 45 year old ot even 55 ? I dont think they are old, its not like your in a scooter and with a walking stick *shakes fist* lol

i understand what your saying you having diffrent opinions and stuff . that just comes with age its called experience and be prepared we arent too far from the bend to the 30s and then we can call ourselves cougars LMAO!

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Originally posted by soupastah Really? *bitchslapps the room* for real, you all need some god damn perspective!! when you were six you couldn't have the # of cookies you wanted when were 14 you were all tired of having the newly driving 16-17 yer who just started driving stealing your gf's when you were 18 you just couldn't wait till you were 22 and you could go WHEREEVER the f*ck you wanted and now you're prime mid-20's THE PEAK! now I ruin my appetite right before diner cuz i f*ckin can! in fact i think i'll do that tonight... you can hop on a plane and get into any Vegas club no issues... you can pick up highschool guy's gf's AND tap other people's 'married' wives! there is no better place to be then where you are right now and you get to use the best start to any given sentence... "yo, back in the day...." Vivid is in his prime and just where he needs to be... at least he had the drunk excuse... most of this is sober sat beautiful day out talk, and that's the part that freaks me out!

THIS IS THE POST I WAS WAITING FOR!!!!


my mind is clear.



^^^thats not even sarcasm. im dead serious. that post made me feel better lol

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy THIS IS THE POST I WAS WAITING FOR!!!! my mind is clear. ^^^thats not even sarcasm. im dead serious. that post made me feel better lol

Have you been drinking again? lol

I'm sorry guys but alot of you are being ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS!!!

Mid 20's and feeling old....

pure bollucks...

OMG!!! Wait till you young'uns turn 25+... LIFE GETS SO MUCH BETTER!!! I experienced the quarter life crisis too and had a hard time dealing with it but seriously, what I know now and what I have now compared to when I was under 24 is a world of difference! First off and the biggest thing for me, I am no longer drowning in student loans and having to do crappy summer jobs like being some CEO's bitch! I now have an awesome job I truly enjoy and I can buy pretty much what my little heart desires. In the last few months I purchased a new car and home (and pimped it out completely with the latest tech and furnishings). I've been travelling the world. People at work respect me and come to me for advice/recommendations (I'm the decision-maker now). I've also met people that wouldn't have given me the time of day if I was younger. And yes, I STILL make time to party hard and have tons of FUN! I also have enough $$$ now to treat my friends to nice dinners and to buy them all Decadence/Freedom tickets! I've come a long way and worked very hard to get to where I am now. I've had many challenges along the way of course, and watching life speed by and wondering often what I'm going to do next or what there is left of life... but honestly, I wouldn't trade this fabulous position called the late 20's to be 24 again! And one of these days I'll have marriage and a family to look forward to. Trust me, hang in there, live each day to the max and plan for the future! You'll look back with a smile as I am now.

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