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Posted by barbina on Jul-19-2008 00:22:

GTFO before shit goes craazzyyyy

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner"

Posted by NeoShaman on Jul-19-2008 00:23:

quote:
Originally posted by barbina
GTFO before shit goes craazzyyyy

Easy to say...

Posted by MrJiveBoJingles on Jul-19-2008 00:23:

quote:
Originally posted by NeoShaman
I'm 27... had so many girls but never felt in love like I did now...

She's 19...

3 months together... 1st - happy, 2nd - concerns arise, 3rd - hell..

She doesn't show respect, she doesn't care for what I wish, she takes a shit on my head, and says "I love you" afterwards.

You decided you were "in love" after a couple months?

Sounds like a bad case of infatuation to me.

Of course it will hurt to break it off, but if she's treating you like shit after just three months, then ten to one this thing isn't going to work out very well at all.

The problem is, if you're as infatuated as I think you probably are, then you won't listen to what people on this site tell you about breaking it off, making this whole thread rather pointless.

Posted by barbina on Jul-19-2008 00:25:

quote:
Originally posted by NeoShaman
Easy to say...

yeah okay. 3 months and youre in love?
I walked out of a 3 year relationship a month ago.
Walk away and don't look back.
Thats it.
Stop being a pussy and move on.
Shes almost 10 years younger than you, you're obviously not on the same level. Get out and move on

Obsession =/= love

Posted by NeoShaman on Jul-19-2008 00:27:

quote:
Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles

Of course it will hurt to break it off, but if she's treating you like shit after just three months, then ten to one this thing isn't going to work out very well at all.

Yeah, but many girls are like bitches when they are "testing" their boyfriends... and when all "tests" are complete, they become angels after marriage.

Posted by barbina on Jul-19-2008 00:29:

are ya serious? where did you learn that bullshit?
a bitch is a bitch
end of thread

Posted by MrJiveBoJingles on Jul-19-2008 00:29:

quote:
Originally posted by NeoShaman
Yeah, but many girls are like bitches when they are "testing" their boyfriends... and when all "tests" are complete, they become angels after marriage.

Uhh...I've never seen a real-life relationship work out that way. Maybe you've been watching too many movies?

I'd bet big money on such marriages turning sour once the girl decides it's time to do some more "tests."

Posted by NeoShaman on Jul-19-2008 00:30:

quote:
Originally posted by barbina
yeah okay. 3 months and youre in love?
I walked out of a 3 year relationship a month ago.
Walk away and don't look back.
Thats it.
Stop being a pussy and move on.
Shes almost 10 years younger than you, you're obviously not on the same level. Get out and move on

Obsession =/= love

Yeah, love...

That's why it's hard not to look back...

Posted by barbina on Jul-19-2008 00:32:

quote:
Originally posted by NeoShaman
Yeah, love...

That's why it's hard not to look back...

you over use the rolleyes smiley
don't ask for advice on a really easy situation if you're just going to blow it off without actually listening.

3 months is nothing. You're not in love. You're obsessed/infatuated. She's basically a baby and obviously immature.

Posted by NeoShaman on Jul-19-2008 00:32:

quote:
Originally posted by barbina

a bitch is a bitch

She wasn't like that... and I know, that she could fix up if she'd want to.

Posted by Ted Promo on Jul-19-2008 00:35:

Posted by verndogs on Jul-19-2008 00:39:

Cut your losses and get out. It's not even worth salvaging. Don't you know how illogical you sound by saying you can't because of feelings? Fuck that. Save yourself the agony and just dump her.

Posted by Echo of Silence on Jul-19-2008 00:40:

quote:
Originally posted by NeoShaman
Yeah, but many girls are like bitches when they are "testing" their boyfriends... and when all "tests" are complete, they become angels after marriage.

We're not bitches when we're testing our bfs, dude, c'mon. Trust me, bitches do not become angels after marriage. FFS, I think you're just making up this stuff to justify staying with a woman who from all appearances has already cut you lose but doesn't have the courtesy to tell you. :/

Posted by L.E.N. on Jul-19-2008 01:05:

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence
We're not bitches when we're testing our bfs, dude, c'mon.

Yes...yes you are. Its bullshit. Cant you just have a good time? You have to test us? I know Im trustworthy and I will earn it over time but Im not going to deal with stressful situations to prove it. I know I dont need to do that when Im getting to know and build trust with them.

Posted by The17sss on Jul-19-2008 01:46:

quote:
Originally posted by verndogs
Cut your losses and get out. It's not even worth salvaging. Don't you know how illogical you sound by saying you can't because of feelings? Fuck that. Save yourself the agony and just dump her.

This guy is right. It may sound like a cliche, but those cliche's come from reality... you will be a lot better off in the long run even if it hurts like a bitch now. You guys are just at totally different points in your life man. You're 27 and getting your life going, approaching serious career and life decisions. She is a year removed from high school. May be a case of the right girl, but at the wrong fucking time. Nothing you can do about that... get out before it gets worse dude.

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