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Fuck her. U mean to tell me your friend had NO say in who comes to the wedding? Can't she invite him just as easily as her fiance un-invites him? Its more her day than his anyway. Fuck the wedding and go have some real fun that night.

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Originally posted by Soeder No need to make a scene...go to the Winchester, have a nice cold pint, and wait for all of this to blow over

Friendships almost always fall by the wayside in favor of relationships.

That's just how these things usually go.

This whole situation sounds like something out of grade 10.

It is definitely not a monetary issue, as I haven't yet been to a wedding where each person didn't bring in at least 50$ as a present. If your friend knows you're in a serious relationship then whether your bf is liked or not should not even be considered. You're invited, he's your partner, he's coming. That's just how it works.

All in all, I would skip the wedding. Not worth the drama.

Their budget is really low, so that's why the shortage on the guest list. There are no +1's on ANY invitation. If you had a boyfriend, it was you + boyfriend on invitation. If you're not involved in serious relationship, it was just you. He wouldn't even allow my bf's name on the damn invitation.

It is petty, and young, and stupid. The drama is unbelievable. The friendship is getting toxic and I'm debating if this is the point where I just let it go.

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Originally posted by squirrelly Their budget is really low, so that's why the shortage on the guest list. There are no +1's on ANY invitation. If you had a boyfriend, it was you + boyfriend on invitation. If you're not involved in serious relationship, it was just you. He wouldn't even allow my bf's name on the damn invitation. It is petty, and young, and stupid. The drama is unbelievable. The friendship is getting toxic and I'm debating if this is the point where I just let it go.

As they say, if there's ever any doubt, then there is no doubt. It's obvious they aren't your friends. Her boyfriend sounds like an insecure fuck. It sucks when you have to make all the effort and friendships turn 1 sided. Seriously, 45 minutes? If my best friend lived 45 minutes away I'd be over his house 5 days a week.

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Originally posted by squirrelly I'm debating if this is the point where I just let it go.

Well I think it's pretty clear where some of us outsiders stand on that...lol We obviously don't know as well as you, but from the information given...yeah...time to quit.

Thats happened to me too many times. The chick gets with a dude and crawls up the bf's ass and forgets about all her friends that were there for her before he was there and all the times he "fucked up".

I just let it go. Friends like that just aren't worthy of the time and stress. Eventually when the novelty of the relationship is gone they come crawling back and thats when u say go fuck ur self I've got more important things to do lol.

Re: wow, I am f*(&ing PISSED.

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Originally posted by squirrelly and exact words of doucebag fiance is "I don't want to pay $30 for him to eat at MY wedding"

this is the gayest thing I've ever heard. I'd say I'm coming so he has to pay for the meal and then get 'sick' the day of and not make it

seriously, $30 a guest? what kind of cheap ass douche is this guy?

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Originally posted by squirrelly It is petty, and young, and stupid. The drama is unbelievable. The friendship is getting toxic and I'm debating if this is the point where I just let it go.

Go to the wedding, girl! Buy an empty gift box with 30bux and tie it up with pink ribbon and put the receipt in it and don't peel of the price tag.

Probably you won't be that tomorrow as you are now and change your mind, but your best friend will remember your precious little gift as long as she's married.

Say you're going, not show up and make them waste money on you being there.

It's a decent way of burning the bridge.

i wouldn't show and then make your gift to them be a gigantic blown up picture of your boyfriend in a nice frame that has a photochopped super smiley saying "CALL ME" on it

is she marrying a jew?

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Originally posted by narcism is she marrying a jew?

To be fair, if it is a small wedding, and they are clearly on a tight budget, they have to draw the line somewhere.

I mean, if they made an exception to everyone who was coming to bring the person they have been seeing for a while, then it would no longer be a small wedding.

Obviously neither one of them is very close to your BF, so he is an easy guest to cut from the list when they are trying to shorten it. Some people just don't have the money to have extravagant weddings, and some just want it to be something they share with the people they know, not the people they know and they people they know, you know? LOL!

I think you're taking it too personally, but then again, I wasn't there so I didn't pick up the vibes and I don't know any of the other circumstances surrounding the situation. However, if I were having a small wedding, and my friend was only seeing someone for a short amount of time... and when it came to shortening the list, he would probably be an easy one for me to scratch off.

My own cousin did it to me last year. He was getting married and I was invited. I asked if I could bring the guy I had been with for 2 years and he told me straight up that they simply couldn't afford it.

Nothing to get upset over.

$30 person....they are lucky its that cheap. First place I looked was over 100, finally found one to do $50!


I say eff those em effers.

similar situation:

My GF's friend(23 years old) met some doctor(46) and hit it off and within two months they were getting married. She invited only her and well GF and I have been together for 4+ years.

Final word is she did not go and if we get married my GF knows who she will only be inviting and thats a fact!

Sometimes you know who your true friends in these situations.

My advice don't go to the wedding due to sickness and then when you get married only invite her and see how she likes it. F'n Bitch

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Originally posted by Theresa To be fair, if it is a small wedding, and they are clearly on a tight budget, they have to draw the line somewhere. I mean, if they made an exception to everyone who was coming to bring the person they have been seeing for a while, then it would no longer be a small wedding. Obviously neither one of them is very close to your BF, so he is an easy guest to cut from the list when they are trying to shorten it. Some people just don't have the money to have extravagant weddings, and some just want it to be something they share with the people they know, not the people they know and they people they know, you know? LOL! I think you're taking it too personally, but then again, I wasn't there so I didn't pick up the vibes and I don't know any of the other circumstances surrounding the situation. However, if I were having a small wedding, and my friend was only seeing someone for a short amount of time... and when it came to shortening the list, he would probably be an easy one for me to scratch off. My own cousin did it to me last year. He was getting married and I was invited. I asked if I could bring the guy I had been with for 2 years and he told me straight up that they simply couldn't afford it. Nothing to get upset over.

Squirelly was asked to be the maid of honor and supposed to be her best friend. when you dont invite your best friends partner to your wedding, thats fucked imo.

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Originally posted by Fpcookie Squirelly was asked to be the maid of honor and supposed to be her best friend. when you dont invite your best friends partner to your wedding, thats fucked imo.

I disagree.

When you are having a small and intimate wedding with your closest friends and family, extra people you don't really know don't make the cut.

Period.

A wedding is often considered a celebration of the joining of 2 people. This can be a very intimate thing for people, and they may choose to share this experience with a select group. This usually doesn't include strangers, or acquaintances.

Had she been married to the guy, I could see the reason for the fuss. But she isn't.

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Originally posted by Theresa I disagree. When you are having a small and intimate wedding with your closest friends and family, extra people you don't really know don't make the cut. Period. A wedding is often considered a celebration of the joining of 2 people. This can be a very intimate thing for people, and they may choose to share this experience with a select group. This usually doesn't include strangers, or acquaintances. Had she been married to the guy, I could see the reason for the fuss. But she isn't.

I don't buy it for a second. The groom said he's not paying $30 for Squirrelly's bf to eat at the wedding. That sounds fuck all like it has anything to do with the wedding being "an intimate wedding" or whatever.

It's absolutely piss-poor form to not invite your best friend's partner to your wedding.

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Originally posted by Theresa I disagree. When you are having a small and intimate wedding with your closest friends and family, extra people you don't really know don't make the cut. Period. A wedding is often considered a celebration of the joining of 2 people. This can be a very intimate thing for people, and they may choose to share this experience with a select group. This usually doesn't include strangers, or acquaintances. Had she been married to the guy, I could see the reason for the fuss. But she isn't.

are you jewish aswell?

AND fuck me $30 ahead
you cant get anything under $150 per person down here

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Originally posted by narcism are you jewish aswell? AND fuck me $30 ahead you cant get anything under $150 per person down here

Even a backyard BBQ wedding would be pushing $30 a head

Not including alcohol, obviously

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Originally posted by Sushipunk Even a backyard BBQ wedding would be pushing $30 a head Not including alcohol, obviously

i know id like to know where they are having this wedding at mcdonalds?

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Originally posted by narcism i know id like to know where they are having this wedding at mcdonalds?

"No no, we can't serve Bag Mac Value Meals to everyone, it's too expensive!"

Lol.

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