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Originally posted by breakawayj I think kids these days are definately getting out of control. HOWEVER....I never got smacked in the face?? wtf??

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Originally posted by chinamon i got the belt, wire coat hanger and wooden spoon. my mom was buying a new wooden spoon almost every week cuz they kept breaking.

ahahahaha...I remember the wooden spoon! The problem is that when it broke, I bet your mom got even more pissed, right? LOL!!!

I laugh now, but it wasn't funny when I was a kid.

Thinking back, actually being hit was extremely rare...as just the sound of the drawer opening was usually enough to elicit compliance. Pavlov would be proud.

meh...so unecessary to repeatedly beat your kids though. you do it a few times and the kid learns to not to tempt fate...or it doesn't work and beating them repeatedly is pointless and you need to find something else.

he should have sodomized her while she was sleeping. that's what I would have done.

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Originally posted by activate he should have sodomized her while she was sleeping. that's what I would have done.

I believe you. I saw you do it to a plant on Sunday.

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Originally posted by activate he should have sodomized her while she was sleeping. that's what I would have done.

Honestly that's the only real-world solution I can think of.

ok. so let me get this straight ....

she bangs a neighbours window at midnight (dont know if this means she broke the window or was tryin to break in or ummmm nevermind)

wait a minute.

how did the father know she banged neighbours window?

according to the article, the father quit the volunteer shit he did with kids... doesn't say anything about him being asked to resign or canned do to recieving his "caution".

why not just right an article about the guy with unpaid parking tickets who fears he might not be able to renew his plates


this article is stupid, and those people are fags.

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Originally posted by TranceGrooves ok. so let me get this straight .... she bangs a neighbours window at midnight (dont know if this means she broke the window or was tryin to break in or ummmm nevermind) wait a minute. how did the father know she banged neighbours window?

maybe he was banging the neighbour's wife?

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Originally posted by kaniz my sister threatened my mom with "if you hit me, I'll call child services!".

I tried that once with the same result.

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Originally posted by Jer Steppin' outta line. That's a paddlin'.

Lmao! good stuff

Love your kids? Prove it by beating them.

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Originally posted by chinamon i got the belt, wire coat hanger and wooden spoon. my mom was buying a new wooden spoon almost every week cuz they kept breaking.

lol my dad used wood sprues, and when they broke, he'd send me to a forrest close to our house for me to pick out another one, on my own. If I were stupid enough to get one that was dry and would break on the first hit, I knew I'd just be in for another walk to pick up a fresh one.

I completely agree with the general sentiments in that children should definitely be disciplined, and that includes physical discipline, in moderation, and when called for. Sometimes, there is just no other way to teach someone the concept of action -> consequence.

this is a tough situation.

I think the problem is that kids now-a-days live in a world where they believe they can do no wrong. This is both a scary and dangerous scenario. In an effort to keep our children safe from the chronic abusers who DO definately exist in society, it is affecting a modern parent's ability to discipline their child (to reasonable measures). Kids are encouraged to report incidents of aggression at home and so they believe this is their way of fighting back. A lack of maturity usually means that they are not thinking clearly about the consequences of their actions.

sad really.


My personal approach would be slightly different. I am a firm believer that you can bring a child up without raising your hand on them. It takes alot of patience and requires parents to develop closely bonded relationshipos with their children. This leads to a stronger than usual trust between a parent and a child which in turn leads to the child being less disobedient.


i learnt the hard way though...a few solid whacks coupled with tonnes of love and nurturing means i came out alright...i think.

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Originally posted by zokissima I completely agree with the general sentiments in that children should definitely be disciplined, and that includes physical discipline, in moderation, and when called for. Sometimes, there is just no other way to teach someone the concept of action -> consequence.

totally agree. kids need to be disciplined. i totally got the wooden spoon and the belt several times in my youth and i definitely deserved it cos i was a mouthy little kid. i think i turned out allright.

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Originally posted by samhouse I think the problem is that kids now-a-days live in a world where they believe they can do no wrong. This is both a scary and dangerous scenario. In an effort to keep our children safe from the chronic abusers who DO definately exist in society, it is affecting a modern parent's ability to discipline their child (to reasonable measures). Kids are encouraged to report incidents of aggression at home and so they believe this is their way of fighting back. A lack of maturity usually means that they are not thinking clearly about the consequences of their actions.

i'd be terrified to have a child these days.

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Originally posted by zokissima lol my dad used wood sprues, and when they broke, he'd send me to a forrest close to our house for me to pick out another one, on my own. If I were stupid enough to get one that was dry and would break on the first hit, I knew I'd just be in for another walk to pick up a fresh one.

HAHAHA That is soooo immigrant! I got the same thing! LOL

I know how you feel...kad se siba zamota oko nogu..lol...

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