Politics of cooking for people/eating food people have cooked for you

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Posted by RandomGirl on Sep-23-2008 23:55:

It was a little insensitive, but not everyone values food and the effort to make it as much as others. It was probably not meant to say that he wouldn't like your food, it was probably an old habit of his from growing up. I mean, if he didn't even taste it first and immediately wanted to put sauce on it, that is an indication that it wouldn't have mattered what you gave him, he would likely want to sauce or spice it up anyway.

Guys are notoriously bad for this. My ex wanted to put ketchup on everything, even if what he was eating tasted awesome on its own.

EDIT:

In the future, don't let this bother you.

Posted by Frenchie on Sep-23-2008 23:56:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
he's just a meat and potatoes and beer type is kinda disappointing.
Deal with it. That's a man. It's not ALL men but most want their meat, taters ,beer and pussy for dessert.

Posted by Ghost Raver on Sep-23-2008 23:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
lol

bitch please, u dont even know about my cocking skills.

Don't know

Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Sep-24-2008 00:02:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
believe it or not, i pondered it. not that he doesn't love me, but whether or not the difference in food taste is a deal breaker.

he doesn't have a very sophisticated palet and i love trying new stuff and cooking exotic dishes. it's a huge part of my life (food lol) so the fact that he's just a meat and potatoes and beer type is kinda disappointing.

jesus christ. you could be a character in seinfeld.

Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2008 00:04:

i can't stop laughing at myself tonight

/stoned

Posted by Clovis on Sep-24-2008 00:07:

Woman, get back to that fucking kitchen.

Posted by Moongoose on Sep-24-2008 00:10:

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
Woman, get back to that fucking kitchen.

Yes! Excellent point.

Ga make something delicious for the cor, we can appreciate it

Posted by Domesticated on Sep-24-2008 00:11:

quote:
Originally posted by Moongoose
Go make something delicious for the cor, so we can put sauce on it and not appreciate it

Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2008 00:12:

i'm eating whole wheat pita bread stuffed with grilled chicken strips, romaine lettuce, feta cheese & ceasar dressing

those pita breads that come as pocets so you can stuff things in them are the BOMB.

Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2008 00:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Domesticated

lol

Posted by nchs09 on Sep-24-2008 00:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
you can stuff things in them are the BOMB.
Thats what she said!

Posted by Clovis on Sep-24-2008 00:20:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
Thats what she said!

Yeah she did!

Posted by nchs09 on Sep-24-2008 00:21:

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
Yeah she did!
Thats what she said!... wait

it doesnt work this time

Posted by Clovis on Sep-24-2008 00:22:

See, a normal person would have just not posted that Mario.

Posted by nchs09 on Sep-24-2008 00:23:

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
See, a normal person would have just not posted that Mario.

Posted by Clovis on Sep-24-2008 00:24:

Posted by l�cid on Sep-24-2008 01:00:

i think it's just one of those things that you have to let go and not make a big deal out of. i mean there are more important things to worry about in life than whether someone "ruined" your home-cooked meal.

if he wants to be a picky baby about his food, that's his problem... not yours.

Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2008 01:05:

u guys have to compare this to like showing your bf/gf an amazing edm song u love full of eliteness and them going, "meh....i have to be fucked up to like this"

lol

Posted by mezzir on Sep-24-2008 01:06:

here's the important discintion for me: so he did NOT try it before asking if he could add sauce?

Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2008 01:09:

no he literally looked at it on the plate and was like, "babe can i put some tomato sauce on it or something?" i just gave him a blank stare...lol

i ended up opening the fridge and saying, "do you have any?" and he was like, 'what abou this' as he pulled out some jarred bertoli VODKA SAUCE (on greek style stuffed potatoes let me remind u).

i was just like, "wow lol ok.."

Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Sep-24-2008 01:15:

i bet his other girlfriend never complains about this shit.

Posted by l�cid on Sep-24-2008 01:17:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
u guys have to compare this to like showing your bf/gf an amazing edm song u love full of eliteness and them going, "meh....i have to be fucked up to like this"

lol

i wouldn't date a guy who said that.

Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2008 01:18:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
i wouldn't date a guy who said that.

i am

omg should i break up with him?

Posted by mezzir on Sep-24-2008 01:19:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
no he literally looked at it on the plate and was like, "babe can i put some tomato sauce on it or something?" i just gave him a blank stare...lol

i ended up opening the fridge and saying, "do you have any?" and he was like, 'what abou this' as he pulled out some jarred bertoli VODKA SAUCE (on greek style stuffed potatoes let me remind u).

i was just like, "wow lol ok.."

hah
i'd be fucking pissed actually i'm totally with you on this one.

Posted by Slylee on Sep-24-2008 01:20:

lol u and my dad are the only ones who see it my way on this one.

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