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Posted by XaNaX on Nov-11-2008 16:24:

Wow way to overanalyze the situation. Just fucking move in with her, if it works out its win, if not just move on to the next woman.

Posted by chach on Nov-11-2008 16:27:

I'm still wtfing about walking around for 2 days what are you jesus?

Posted by elFreak on Nov-11-2008 16:28:

love.

Posted by bas on Nov-11-2008 16:29:

She's French, so she's probably slutty. Let her move in then fuck her a few times.

This isn't rocket science.

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-11-2008 16:30:

quote:
Originally posted by bas
This isn't rocket science.

But what if it actually is rocket science?

Posted by elFreak on Nov-11-2008 16:31:

i missed the french part.

oh lol you gonna get raped.

Posted by bas on Nov-11-2008 16:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
But what if it actually is rocket science?

Then may God have mercy on us all.

Posted by kr00t0n on Nov-11-2008 17:02:

Did you check her pits first?

Posted by elFreak on Nov-11-2008 17:03:

not that kind of french

ps...you can shave arm pits, not teeth

Posted by kr00t0n on Nov-11-2008 17:29:

quote:
Originally posted by elFreak
not that kind of french

ps...you can shave arm pits, not teeth

Lahore et Dene Teest?

Posted by daphunky1 on Nov-11-2008 17:34:

Well 7 hours was the first time we hung out. Then 2 days later we went walking around exploring town, doing errands, dropping off resumes, we even looked at a house that was for sale and pretended to be interested, got groceries. That was another 6 hours together, alone.
Then yesterday, I met her in town and brought her back to check out the house and then we went shopping for some second hand blankets. That was another 5 hours together, mostly alone.

My theory was not to over analyze just go with the flow (which is how I roll), but then this friend (who I don't know that well) who is pretty chill has gone all up tight on me, and seems like he's doing everything in his power to not have her move in. I feel like he has some underlying motive or something.

Also, right now, I really just like hanging out with her...I'm really not even thinking about sex.

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-11-2008 17:43:

quote:
Originally posted by daphunky1
I'm really not even thinking about sex.

You're only lying to yourself, you know.

Posted by elFreak on Nov-11-2008 18:10:

his undying motive is not wanting to put up with the blow back if (and the odds are in this favor)it does not work out and you guys are stuck with her.

Do you ever hear about those couples that meet, say it is love at first sight and get married right away? How many of those actually last?

Convenience is a very dangerous thing.

Posted by nefardec on Nov-11-2008 18:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Gauss
Right, and waste 7 hours of their time doing it? Sorry, but only dumb whores can do that. I don't associate with such.

lol she's going to get a good deal on an apt and a personal butler

Posted by ChemEnhanced on Nov-11-2008 18:23:

Re: Re: messed-up situation

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
"Avoiding disaster?". Do French girls self-destruct when they don't like someone back?

Yes they do....I've seen it first hand...only thing worse is red hair irish chicks

Posted by Lira on Nov-11-2008 19:13:

quote:
Originally posted by Vlad
Just tell the girl you like her, and that you think it would be awkward sharing a room with someone youre interested in. Only two things could happen:

A - She likes you too, and you guys fuck all the time and dont have to fit 2 beds into one room.

B - She understands, and agrees it could be awkward if the feelings arent mutual.

Are you out of your mind? The best way to turn a girl off is make things obvious to her. To a guy, kissing a girl and telling her you like her have a similar meaning. Namely, "I like you well enough to search for cavities in your mouth with my precious tongue". But, to a girl, if you tell her you're into her like that, you come across as a freak. But, if you simply kiss her, she will be led to believe, by her strange logic, that you guys clicked and mutually realised how wonderful you are to one another.

Posted by bas on Nov-11-2008 19:24:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Are you out of your mind?

Dude it's VLAD, if anyone ever takes advice from him about women it better be on "how to creep the fuck out of a chick".

Posted by Lira on Nov-11-2008 19:28:

quote:
Originally posted by bas

Dude it's VLAD, if anyone ever takes advice from him about women it better be on "how to creep the fuck out of a chick".

I don't know much about his love life, or lack thereof

Posted by elFreak on Nov-11-2008 19:31:

lack thereof

Posted by djcami on Nov-11-2008 19:37:

quote:
Originally posted by daphunky1
but then this friend (who I don't know that well) who is pretty chill has gone all up tight on me, and seems like he's doing everything in his power to not have her move in. I feel like he has some underlying motive or something.

your friends sounds a little jealous of your random fortune of finding a hot chick to room with

Posted by Krypton on Nov-11-2008 20:08:

Re: messed-up situation

quote:
Originally posted by daphunky1
I just moved to a resort town where the housing situation is extremely tight, so everyone shares a bedroom with one, if not two others.
I couldn't find any housing at first, but eventually my friend's house had a room open, but they wanted more girls. So I told my friend I'd find a girl to share a room with, so that they at least have 1 more girl in the house. So I email some girl on craigslist that was also looking for housing and met up and had coffee. She turns out to be incredibly cute, (and french), and super cool. After coffee we went out for 2 pitchers of beer, and then bought a bottle of wine and wandered around some trails around the resort for a few more hours. 7 hours together straight, and we never talked to anyone else. I just told her I'd let her know as soon as possible when I know that we can move into this house.
I didn't find out for 2 more days that I could move in, so me and this girl hung out the next 2 days, walking around, doing nothing, finding things in common, getting along perfect (and me thinking she's amazing)...

Now yesterday I got the go ahead that I could move in to the house, and that I could pick whoever I wanted to share a room with, just as long as they are cool.

So now my friend has been trying to convince me for hours that if I have any feelings for this girl at all it is a stupid idea to set myself and the other roommates up for disaster and problems in the future... since I can't deny having feelings for her so he is straight up telling me that I shouldn't let her move in tomorrow. Oh, and at this very moment, she thinks she's 100% moving in, and seemed excited about sharing a room with me.

So do I cancel the love miracle waiting to happen, in hopes of avoiding disaster if things don't work out?
Or do I just go for it?
I mean what if she actually doesn't even like me at all, she's just all chill and happy all the time. Then I gotta share a room with a girl I'm crazy about?

Dude, totally fuck them. Let her move in with you. If shit hits the fan, then so what. Get a new roommate. Problem solved.

Posted by daphunky1 on Nov-11-2008 20:12:

Ya I've now made up my mind I got hafta just say 'fuck em'. Can't turn back now.

Even if nothing happens between us, I'm still gonna have a cool roommate.

Posted by airwalker1 on Nov-11-2008 20:32:

good man

Posted by Lira on Nov-11-2008 20:38:

Way to go

Posted by elFreak on Nov-11-2008 20:44:

lol

do you promise to keep us updated?

"if nothing happens you will have a cool roomate"

until she starts bringing home dudes.

also: pics or stfu

you guys are slow.

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