For the guys who are getting old and are still SINGLE..do you WORRY?

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Posted by displaced on Jun-06-2002 21:06:

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Originally posted by Damo
i haven't been hurt really at all.... i know i seem defensive but i have witnessed a lot of bullshit in marriages from my own parents and other families around me to realize that marriage isn't the way for me to go.... it just doesn't suit me.... i don't think it really suits any human when you think about it...love fades faster then you'd think... then you're stuck in pure monotonous, a dead end job, no ambition, no fun save for your few hours of respite from your needy family,and the only way out is a bullet to your dome....

ya'll are so jaded...

Posted by Trancevision on Jun-06-2002 21:50:

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honestly...if i busted my ass and prooved to her that i am NOW worthy of her love....which i so desire..then i guess after that i might have a slight chance..but doubtful...VERY doubtful

Think about it is 2012 now and imagine that you didn't find the right one until then.
Would you regret having not tried everything to get back the love of your life in the year 2002 ?

Do you fear to loose her as a good friend if you try it ?
I think you are seriously thinkinh about getting her back...why would you have written all the stuff about in this post at the beginning...

Posted by Tranz on Jun-06-2002 23:19:

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Originally posted by tiesto14

honestly...if i busted my ass and prooved to her that i am NOW worthy of her love....which i so desire..then i guess after that i might have a slight chance..but doubtful...VERY doubtful

You sound like a wanker. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and live your life without regrets. The timing wasn't right for your ex, but don't go back to her, because you cant find someone else. That is the wrong reason. Just let everything happen naturally. Here's a hint, it will happen when you least expect it. Don't try to force love, let it find you.

Posted by JM on Jun-06-2002 23:40:

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Originally posted by Orbax
I merely pity those who cannot truly love. I have friends that I love and have loved for 15 years, and it isnt sexual in the least bit. Love is merely always wanting the best for that person even if you have to sacrifice. It isnt a burning in your gonads where the only way to quench the fire is in the juices of the other (ha that vivid enough for you?). Its a selfless relationship where their needs come before yours, and when you have two people doing the best thing for eachother, thats love. It takes, trust, respect, lots of other stuff, but thats basically what it boils down to.

i agree with u Orbax.

tiesto14, yeah looks like u did fuck up. that's shitty, looks like you had it good too. well i wouldn't try too hard to get her back...i mean maybe try hard but if she refuses dont ever try again, maybe things are not meant to be.

btw. i'm only 22, and have plenty of time to get married. i'll tell you though, that if i found a girl that was "perfect" in my mind, and all went great....for some time...i'd prolly wanna settle down....but doubt that will happen anytime soon...and i'm not in a hurry....(cant get married yet....next fall i'll be living in a pimp apartment in the heart of sororities and frat houses at my University....think of all the girls there no, no marriage yet

>JM<

Posted by discitelli on Jun-07-2002 02:24:

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i jus emailed her said i was sorry for not beleiving her when she said i would never find another girl like her...i cant wait to see if she replys

has she written back yet?!?

Posted by Orbax on Jun-07-2002 02:31:

im drunk desgrad me disrfg disg disregard me

Posted by Slylee on Jun-07-2002 03:09:

tiesto it wasn't meant to be...plain and simple...and answer this question honestly...did u love her and u just want her back because of what she DID for u?? i dunno about u but i dont like people who are so eager to please like that constantly..u tend to take them for granted more easily and not respect them as much. where is the fun in someone who is going to drop and roll over every time you snap your fingers?? it IS somewhat of a sad story but PLEASE do not get scared that u will never find love again or a girl like her...the worst thing u can do is dwell on your past and live ur life full of regrets. you will be fine and your angel will pop up when u least expect it

Posted by Palivar on Jun-07-2002 04:14:

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