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| Originally posted by Moral Hazard Besides, world peace does not mean an absence of hatred, just an absence of starting wars over it (or anything). Pacifists can hate... I'm sure those hippies I called pussies, punched, and then laughed at hated me... they were just too big of hippie pussies to do anything about it. |
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| Originally posted by Lira I disagree. If you really think meaning arises from differences (how structuralist of you!), you ought to contrast love with indiference, not hate. |
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| Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On Who are you talking to? USE YOUR WORDS. FUCK. |
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| Originally posted by SYSTEM-J I wasn't really answering the question, because love isn't the same as fucking anyone you wanted, whenever you wanted. I think the OP meant people would stop hating if they were constantly getting off though, as opposed to bottling their rage up and not acting on it. |
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| But indifference is essentially a lack of feeling, so how can you identify love through comparing it to... nothing? People often talk about love and hate as binary opposites, on the same scale. Indifference would seem to be the middle ground of every scale and no scale all at once. |
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| Originally posted by elFreak buttfuck is a compound swear word. |
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| Originally posted by Moral Hazard That said, I would contend that love and hate are not opposite ends of the same spectrum, rather the same end of parallel spectrums. |
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| Originally posted by nrjizer They already tried this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oneida_Society |
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| The Oneida Community was a utopian commune founded by John Humphrey Noyes in 1848 in Oneida, New York. The community believed that Jesus Christ had already returned in the year 70, making it possible for them to bring about Christ's millennial kingdom themselves, and be free of sin and perfect in this world, not just Heaven (a belief called Perfectionism). The Oneida Community practiced Communalism (in the sense of communal property and possessions), Complex Marriage, Male Continence, Mutual Criticism and Ascending Fellowship. There were smaller Noyesian communities in Wallingford, Connecticut; Newark, New Jersey; Putney, Vermont; and Cambridge, Vermont. In Putney, the authorities attempted to have Noyes arrested for his unorthodox sexual practices.[1] The community's original 87 members grew to 172 by February 1850, 208 by 1852 and 306 by 1878. The branches were closed in 1854, except for the Wallingford branch, which operated until devastated by a tornado in 1878. The Oneida Community dissolved in 1881, and eventually became the giant silverware company Oneida Limited. |
This thread reminds me of an email I got the other day. Not sure of the accuracy of it.
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| Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On So people's moral pathways are as linear as that? You can either be feeding your hatred or honing your love? They have nothing to do with one another and are on their own, separate lines? =/ |
didn't stop bill clinton going to war...
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| Originally posted by Pokit In Santa Cruz , Bolivia , it is illegal for a man to have sex with a woman and her daughter at the same time. |
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| Originally posted by Moral Hazard If they were distant points on the same spectrum then it is implied that you would have to pass through a myriad of points along that spectrum to move from one to the other. This is not the evolution of feeling that I have observed and experienced. Rather then moving gradually through multiple stages from love to hate and vice versa people often move quickly between the two experiencing little or no other emotions along the way. Love can turn to hate and hate to love in an instant because they are parallels, not opposites. Both are intense and complex emotions, the only difference being the connotation one applies to them... love being positive, hate being negative. If you view the spectrum of emotional attachments as being two parallel continuums (one positively connotated, the other negatively) it fits better with the human experience of transitioning from a positive to negative emotional attachment to someone in short order without passing through other intensities of emotion, as you simply jump from the positive to the negative spectrum. |
Good post. We're not as far apart in position as you seem to think.
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| Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On But is the scope of human emotions qualifiable to the point of mere binary reduction? Positive/negative - light side/dark side, et cetera. |
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| In our physical and natural world, I don't see there being anything outside of the savagery and the crudeness that comes from every animal striving to survive in Mother Nature's sick playground. But metaphysically, I still do not see hate or love as competitive emotions, as they all too often serve the exact same purpose - to consume. |
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| When I exhibit the very human sensibilities of western magnanimity, I am serving a purpose. When I exhibit socially abhorrible acts of malice and hatred, I am still serving a purpose. This purpose is always with myself in mind. |
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| Now I know that as a Christian, you would argue that not all emotional attachments are selfish, and that it is possible for people to give without any hope of receiving whatsoever, but I simply do not see this. |
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| If you love without hope of reciprocation [reward], you are still geaning your so-called 'positive' emotions from said act, or you are doing it to win the favour of some imagined[!] deity - or, most seemingly common of all, you are serving a social purpose, some 'greater good' by means of acts out of love and positivity. I see hatred as merely a more pure and honest form of this selfish dynamic - is that justification for cruelty? No, but it's certainly more individualistic to serve oneself and hope [love?] to incite this within others. |
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| Whilst I do agree that our notions of love and hate are not polar opposites of one, linear spectrum, I reject the notion of actual indifference as a factor, as everyone has their motivations for feeling and acting the way that they do; few of these emotions being truly quantifiable as part of any measure, and merely just memetic programming made to serve a purpose that is, for all intents and purposes, natural. |
"love" and "hate" are not considered as "basic emotions" by the vast majority of scientists (e.g. Ekman, Plutchik etc.). Emotions which are usually considered as "basic", "unlearned", "fixed action tendencies" or "hardwired" are usually joy and/or happiness, sadness, fear, anger, disgust and maybe surprise and anticipation. Some researchers like Mowrer are even more extreme saying that the true hard-wired and unlearned emotions are just...two. Pain and Pleasure, or Fear and Terror or i would personally say a "pleasant" versus an "unpleasant" emotional state. Everything else derives from the cognitive interpretation of the situation (which is then related to culture/memes/social factors etc.)and the level of "arousal" (the "intensity" of the emotion).
So "hate" probably contains the basic feeling/emotion of "unpleasantness" towards another person due to the cognitive interpretation of the situation that the other person has/had a negative impact with his/her actions towards one self (and "the negative impact of one's actions" are always perceived and formed in relation to the rules of the society etc.) Furthermore, dislike and hate are basically the same emotion with the only difference being that hate is the same emotion on a higher level of arousal
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| Originally posted by Moral Hazard The latter is true... if love and hate reside on opposite ends of a spectrum then indifference is the lack of said spectrum. That said, I would contend that love and hate are not opposite ends of the same spectrum, rather the same end of parallel spectrums. |
Goddamnit, Moral, would you let me pigeonhole you for just one minute? 
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| Originally posted by Moral Hazard Of course it isn't; however, in order to have any sort of meaningful discussion about the pantheon of emotions we need to simplify them down and speak in sweeping generalities. If we were to try and discuss the totality of human emotion nothing could come of that as ever person has a differing experience of any emotion that anyone else may attempt to label or characterize in any fashion. If we did not apply a binary reduction then the discussion would never progress past the defining parameters stage... and what fucking fun would that be? |
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| I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss what you see play out in the physical world as being just the struggle for survival; however, I think that's a separate discussion all together. |
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| I also would not see love and hate as competitive emotions, which is why I place them on parallel spectrums. They can co-exist and/or exist in the absence of the other. In truth I would argue that love and hate are more alike then love and more moderate levels of affinity. |
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| Actually, I would never argue such a thing. I would even take it one further and argue that all actions are selfish... it doesn't matter what one feels or does they are always doing so for some sort of return, even if they do not consciously recognize it. |

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| I'm not sure I would say hatred is a more pure form of the selfish dynamic (as you term it); rather, it is simply less complex or more direct. Whether one is acting out of love or hate or any other motivation, they are ultimately serving themselves. |
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| I fear you don't understand the nature of indifference... indifference is the lack of any feeling on a given matter whatsoever... if one is truly indifferent about a thing they have no feeling... therefore would have no motivation with regard to same. |
But as in everything with the "nature vs. nurture" debate, neither of them holds completly true. Both "genetically hard-wired" and "social structuralist" contribute to the final result. The million-dollar question is how much ofcourse. The majority of modern research tends to accept the view that the five-six emotions i descrived before are biologicaly hardwired and universal (and this derives from a number of evidence from universal facial expressions, unique autonomic and CNS activity, fast-uncounscious processing, early learning and universal antecedents and causes). So it seems that not all emotions are simply derived from "pleasant-unpleasant" and "high-low arousal" (and maybe a "passive-active") scales only (and everything else is language/memes). Still love-hate are not considered hard-wired by many scientists. Hmm...("lost in thought" lol)
P.s. This post is mostly aimed at SYSTEM-J
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| Originally posted by PETRAN "love" and "hate" are not considered as "basic emotions" by the vast majority of scientists (e.g. Ekman, Plutchik etc.). Emotions which are usually considered as "basic", "unlearned", "fixed action tendencies" or "hardwired" are usually joy and/or happiness, sadness, fear, anger, disgust and maybe surprise and anticipation. Some researchers like Mowrer are even more extreme saying that the true hard-wired and unlearned emotions are just...two. Pain and Pleasure, or Fear and Terror or i would personally say a "pleasant" versus an "unpleasant" emotional state. Everything else derives from the cognitive interpretation of the situation (which is then related to culture/memes/social factors etc.)and the level of "arousal" (the "intensity" of the emotion). So "hate" probably contains the basic feeling/emotion of "unpleasantness" towards another person due to the cognitive interpretation of the situation that the other person has/had a negative impact with his/her actions towards one self (and "the negative impact of one's actions" are always perceived and formed in relation to the rules of the society etc.) Furthermore, dislike and hate are basically the same emotion with the only difference being that hate is the same emotion on a higher level of arousal |
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| Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On Very interesting. To take it what I think to be a step further, all reactions - actions based upon either emotional or intellectual programming - are just that: programming. A social factor which installs prejudice in people, indicating either love or hate, pleasure or pain, etc. I know this is just a further reduction of immensely complex faculties, to say that everything stems from prejudice, but if you consider the meaning of the word other than the racist, violent, or otherwise "negative" attachments we assign to diction, it seems to literally mean the way we judge things based upon previous experience. I can think of numerous things I have learned to love or learned to hate through through either exposure or conditioning - my prejudice is malleable, as it is a primarily social derivative. In this sense, love and hate are still emotions, but ones felt only through the experience of what a given cultural filter allows. that is to say, cultures, should we consider them entities - organisms of sorts - are competing against one another, and we are their audience, benefactors, agents, and servants. They, like amoebas, drift along the ether of our minds, consuming whatever is smaller than them, banding together to absorb greater organisms when it conveniences them - but in the end, selfish consumers. The caveat to this being that society is, so far as we can tell, a completely natural function in itself. How does this relate to the topic though? Sex, as both a product of culture and instinct - inexorable from either, is an exercise in our discontinuation, yet similtaneously a movement of memes - of this same absorbative behaviour of ideas, of ego. In the simplest insemination, there are millions of organisms vying for survival - for the achievement of continuing their existence in another form. At the same time, there are 200 million deaths just the same, competitive from the very beginning to their eventual end, yet all in the struggle - perhaps unbeknownst to them - to perpetuate life. This where the symbiosis of sex, as a social function, and war, as another social function, must coexist. Love and hate are not necessarily these things, and may perhaps be emotions attached to the actions or reactions as such, but seperate nevertheless. As such, no, I don't think that a world in which sex were as free and as open as possible would be one devoid of war because it would also be one devoid of sex [as we know it] just the same. |
(the last sentence was a joke)
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| Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On Goddamnit, Moral, would you let me pigeonhole you for just one minute? |
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| Perhaps it is an entirely other subject, but the topic of this thread entirely lends itself to reproductive activity as an immensely potent driving force for both our emotions and our actions on both the smallest and the largest cosms we know of. The freedom of animals seperate from us to act upon sexual inclinations by means of either instinct or violent force and the implications of our derivation from them are not a dismissal at all - I don't see it as mere survival, but the simplest and purest goal that exists, despite our sensitivites and our taboos fabricated in an attempt to - here's that word again - dismiss it from our nature. An interesting paradox, no doubt. |
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| Originally posted by PETRAN What you probably describe as "prejudice", psychologists call it "appraisal" (of a situation) if i get what you say. So, you actually say that previous experiences set "states of appraisal" for every situation we encoutner and depending on the "pre-set (type of)appraisal", e different emotion is experienced. This is true. BUT unfortunately this is not the whole case. The problem comes with a mechanism that famous scientists (of that field) like Zajonc and LeDoux call "fast appraisal". It basically states that some emotional states occur fast in an automatic pre-cognitive manner, before even consciousness (and hence thought) has time to catch-up! This has proven to be true for fear and sadness. You can argue here that previous extensive conditioning could make things to be fast and automatic. This is actually not true, because extremely rare events can also cause a "fast emotional reaction". It seems that a looming or expanding stimulus covers the retina, then a fear-response of collision occurs, then you push the break-pedal, then your car stops and then you become conscious of what you have just done! Plus some emotions tend to occur easier than others (famous experiment in which Lazarus induced fear of snakes in monkeys and human babies in just a few trials, whereas other stimuli such as cars where much slower to be acquired). Some emotions (we are alsways talking about these 5-6 ones of my first post) seem to have a unique autonomic-activity pattern. This makes sense if one views emotions as evolutionary "action-tendencies" capable of preparing an organism to act in a "fast" manner. So in fear, blood goes to large muscle groups, in anger, blood goes to the hands etc. (some of the many unique autonomic responses). Most of these basic emotions also show unique EEG patterns. It also seems that some causes are very consistent in producing specific emotional states despite the culture. Cultural information may influence "When" and "How Much" these emotions occur but not "What" emotions occur. |
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As for the second paragraph i don't exactly think i get you. Would you say that a world free of war would also be free of sex? If yes i certainly can't see that. Sex and war could certainly co-occur though, as evidenced in ancient Greece and Rome (the last sentence was a joke) |
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| But certainly more pleasure=lower chances of participating in violent acts. |
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| Originally posted by Moral Hazard I think you oversimplify the goal of life. I agree, passing genetic material on to future generations is the goal of all life; however, your argument above suggests that the only viable strategy for that is to have as many offspring as possible, which necessitates having as many partners as possible and that the prevailing social constructs that act as a barrier to that in human society is contrary to nature... an attempt to make us feel superior to other animals perhaps (that is what you're driving at, right?). I would submit to you that having many children is only one of a number of viable strategies for ensuring one's genetic material goes on into the next generation. One other viable strategy is to limit the number of children but ensure that all are kept healthy and secure so that they may live to reach breading age. This is the case of the mountain gorilla which, while having many children, have been known to sacrifice their own lives to safeguard their children. If the only viable strategy were to have as many children as possible then putting oneself at great risk of death in order to protect already living children would be contrary to that strategy. Humans have adopted a similar strategy to the mountain gorilla... we limit the number of children we have and take great effort to safeguard them, even their children into adulthood... this makes sense... if I nail 300 women and that results in 75 children (25% is pretty good) but do not ensure their security I cannot be assured any of them will survive to produce offspring of their own. On the other hand, if I choose one woman as my mate and that results in 2-3 children and I remain to ensure their survival to adulthood I have greater control over the probability that my genetic code will proceed to future generations. You see the social construct of marriage and monogamy as contrary to the primary goal of life; whereas, it is really just another strategy. |
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| Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On Very interesting, yet again. And I did not seek to encapsulate all response as prejudice, but only reduce social intereactions as such, differentiating from what you described as hard, physical responses - instincual ones. Anger, fear - "fast" reactions being different than programmed ones, as fast as a reflex could be, and without necessary appeal to the cultural "programming" I spoke of. but don't you think it's possible for these instincual reflexes to be programmed or honed by the very same social prejudice which incites cognitive reactions in people? I don't see the notions as entirely seperate, nor are they strictly the same, but nobody can deny they manifest themselves in conflict far more directly than floaty ideas such as "love" or "hate", as we so casually know them. |
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I am, of course, being philosophical in what I say, but my point was that sex is a major component of humanity as we know it. Certain basic motives for war and violence have been observed in animals, just as pleasurable reproductive frequency has been as well, but they are nowhere as consistent in other species as they are in human beings. Can this be a coincidence? It may very well be, but I tend to think that it is our proclivity towards stressing our mortality and our demise in both culture and action that makes sex a pleasurable act in the first place - but I am not strictly speaking physical pleasure, but a spiritual ascension as well. the french, for example, have an extensive referral to the orgasm as le petit mort - common enough knowledge that this means "the little death", because ssentially, that is what it means for the millions upon millions of seed that shall compete for their continuation. Their death is violence at the hands of nature, as they topple over one another in their hazardous and scarcely familiar world, doomed to discontinue and proceed for an immeasurable infinity just as we humans, who think so highly of ourselves, shall some day succumb to as well. It is the danger in their race that defines their existence - the hazard of their not being able to propagate that must confirm their hard-wired prejudice for pleasure, as evident by their vigorous drive to dominate one another. Of course people aren't sperm, but I think you can wrap your head around the analogy I am attempting to establish. |
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When speaking of pleasure however, it is important to consider what is and is not pleasure is scarcely consistent among people on a natural basis. People often derive pleasure out of violence, as it confirms a likewise natural inclination in a different yet equal way that intercourse does. |
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I would argue that people never get what they want, as their desire often changes with their given situation, often-times indicating that there is no end to the pleasures of sensation. Even if people got all of the sex they "wanted", they would merely want more, and if the whole of human history is any indication, they will cease at no horrible act to attain their right to the prospect of "progress". |
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| Originally posted by nrjizer They already tried this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oneida_Society |
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