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Originally posted by squirrelly Although, if one particular girl were involved... I would get uneasy. Not because I don't trust HIM... but because she is known to get a little out of hand and ignore boundaries. I have no doubt he would stop an escalating situation - however, no one really WANTS their S.O. to be put in that kind of situation.

I completely agree. When guys get way too feely with my girlfriend, it's like the only scenario I can think of that I become really livid over the thought of. Within just the past few weeks, some married guy we know hugged her and got all gropey with her, wouldn't let her go. And THEN some guy she was showing a room to (she is a sales director) totally tried to get down with her right then and there. Of course, he is the regional head of some Swingers club... and she did promptly knee him right in the groin, but still!

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Originally posted by david.michael I'll agree with this as well. Sometimes I get uneasy because of this, not because I have any doubt in my mind that my s/o is going to do anything. Though, this is often used as a crutch and excuse by many to be insecure.

This, I agree with. However, you can usually differentiate between those that use it as a crutch and those who do not. Those who use it as a crutch follow "I'm going out with so and so" with "What?! Where?! For how long? When are you going to be back?" and also proceed to call the cell phone 38403843368404120 times and freak out on the phone to all of their friends.

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Originally posted by squirrelly This, I agree with. However, you can usually differentiate between those that use it as a crutch and those who do not. Those who use it as a crutch follow "I'm going out with so and so" with "What?! Where?! For how long? When are you going to be back?" and also proceed to call the cell phone 38403843368404120 times and freak out on the phone to all of their friends.

lol, yeah. In my own personal experience, though, it is possible to be subtle about it and still feel insecure (I've been that person). Usually, there is a reason for it with these people, and it should act as a huge red flag.

Re: Friendship and sex

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles Has anyone here found that you're better at making friends with the opposite sex than with your own? For the past five years or so that's been the case for me. Not sure why... Of course I've seen a number of guys here say that men either can't really or shouldn't be friends with women outside the context of looking for sex. But I say that's a load of crap. What about you?

I've always had way more girl-friends than guy-friends, but I'm probably a male lesbian

Even before I entered a serious relationship, I can't say I was attracted to more than 10~15% of my friends.

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles Guys, would you get uneasy if your girlfriend went out with a group of guys? Or with just one other guy?

Not really. I've been out with girls even after I started dating, but I've never done anything that could make my fiancée worried. Hell, I even made a trip to another state with a group of friends, got drunk, and all I could babble about was how great I thought my sweetheart is

One theorem to rule them all

Ladder Theory

Generally speaking, platonic relationships between a man a woman do not exist. They might at first, but eventually one grows feelings for the other. It's natural. We're human beings. And when this happens, of course, the friendship is no longer the same. The advice is never the same. It's skewed and no longer pure.

That's why it's best to have girl friends who you fuck once in a while. I know I do. Cut right through the bullshit. I care about them, but I care a lot more when my penis is in their mouth.

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Originally posted by shadow_419 One theorem to rule them all Ladder Theory

The ladder's theory is egregious.

Im tired of the oppostie sex. Tired of thinking abtthem tired of talkin to them, tired of putting up with their psycho feelings controlled behavior. Tired of the bullshit they say, tired of them fallin in love every 2 seconds, tired of them period. Fuck chicks. Only good for cooking cleanin and suckin dick and editing essays.

I wish there was no such thing as marriage. Just everyone out running a muck, doing hteir own thing and fuckin every night.


thats bliss.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy Fuck chicks. Only good for cooking cleanin and suckin dick and editing essays.

Fuck. I am usually the one editing bitches' essays. Unlucky.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy Im tired of the oppostie sex.

You're going back to school, aren't you, Eric?

I bet your opinion will change in no time

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Originally posted by Lira The ladder's theory is egregious.

True, but it's still funny.

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Originally posted by shadow_419 True, but it's still funny.

Oh, there's no disputing that

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Originally posted by Renzo Fuck. I am usually the one editing bitches' essays. Unlucky.

lol btw. Thanks for that B+ on my research paper (no one got an A)

Of course. I defintiely relate to men better than most women, which is why I appreciate and love my girlfriends so much. It took me 23 years to find the right ones, but now I finally have a group I can call "My Girls".

And only a couple of my guy friends have been dumb and tried to pull moves. I say dumb because I've always made it very clear where the boundaries are in our friendships. And actually, it's because of hanging out with guys all the time that I'm a terrible flirt. I only know how to bust balls, lol.


As for beig uneasy if my bf was out with a bunch of chicks? No. Just plain no. I don't even need to explain or justify why.

What if he was out with just me, would you worry then?

I would masturbate thinking about it.

And you say you're a terrible flirt.

I thought it would offend you. :/

Hah.

The only thing I am offended by is the pungency of your fissure. Tone down the lentils.

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Originally posted by Aortik Hah. The only thing I am offended by is the pungency of your fissure. Tone down the lentils.

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Originally posted by squirrelly Usually, when a man and a woman have a friendship, one or the other has pining feelings for the other at SOME point in the friendship. I think a lot of people get into that mentality of "but he's my FRIEND! He wouldn't steer me in the wrong direction!!!!!!!" Uh, yes he would. Eventually, you can't keep those feelings inside forever. Sucks, but so true. I have some guy friends, but that little fact was true for ALL of them.

Goddamn... nice to see a girl that "gets it". You, me lady, are a rare breed. Lord knows I could have used your help with pretty much ALL of my ex girlfriends.

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Originally posted by The17sss Goddamn... nice to see a girl that "gets it". You, me lady, are a rare breed. Lord knows I could have used your help with pretty much ALL of my ex girlfriends.

hahaha one of my guy friends blows up my phone all the time asking for advice. I'm his little guru - always steering him in the right direction. (and yes, at one point I did have feelings for him. And then those went away when they weren't reciprocated, and then he formed them for me, and then we went back and forth for a little while and now he's nothing other than a brother to me [although I'm not sure about his current feelings]).

I get a little confused about my situation , i went out with her for 6 years and we broke up last september , and since then we have been going places ,like out for meals and other things. But any mention towards the relationship from her is strongly rebuffed , eg like , are you going back out? , no way hahaha?.
Or are you two not telling us something? , she would say , pfftt yeah right.

fuckin women,

cant live with em , cant live without em

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Originally posted by Lira You're going back to school, aren't you, Eric? I bet your opinion will change in no time

nah bro trust me in this last year i have had it up to here with chicks. Theyre all fucked up. I had to delete my ex of msn cause i had it up to here with her. She goes around telling everyone we're like "best friends" now. So i had to get something straight with her we're not best friends we're not even friends. Just because we talk on msn like once every 2 weeks does not = friendship. To me a friend is alot more and us talkin on msn once every few weeks, that is more like checking up to see how one another is doing. And then she flips out because I dont consider her a friend. lol. Then I tell her if she wants to be a friend the door is open for it and she says she can't live up to my expectations of a friend. so i said okay take care and deleted her. fuckin broads dude. All they want to do is bitch

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Originally posted by adi_hanson I get a little confused about my situation , i went out with her for 6 years and we broke up last september , and since then we have been going places ,like out for meals and other things. But any mention towards the relationship from her is strongly rebuffed , eg like , are you going back out? , no way hahaha?. Or are you two not telling us something? , she would say , pfftt yeah right. fuckin women, cant live with em , cant live without em

she's fucking somebody else.

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