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| Originally posted by Slylee he's probably bipolar dude |
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| Originally posted by Vivid Boy its not like i walked up to my dad and knocked him out while he was sipping a tea watching tv. im talking you get into an argument and he steps out of line either pushes you or tries to throw the smack down, and you have to check him. its happened quite a few times before. my pops is an extremist. Hes either super happy or really pissed, so some fights he steps out of line and charges. The last time i kicked his ass he got into a yellingmatch with my mother and pushed her. I wont have that shit in my house so i had to beat him down and put a little fear into him. |
well i got pretty big in my twenties. i never fully kicked his ass, i mean its your dad. but deffinately tackle to him to the ground and put him in a hold until he calms down, throw in a few shots. when i was younger it was different, he'd kick my ass. i deserved each one, either tellin him to go fuck himself or something stupid. If a fight gets to loud shouting usually he will lose it and he will charge so ill tackle him and throw him in a lock. and then he'll be like "oh you think because your big and strong you are the man of THIS house!?!?" its quite funny actually
not me but two good stories.those with add stop reading now.
first story:
i was about 19 and had just walked into my girlfriends house after a major fight between her brother and father.her father used to beat her and siblings,and her mother when she was younger.
apparently he hadnt done it for years and her brother, who was 16 and in really good shape was getting to a size where he wasnt going to be able to do it anymore anyway.but her dad got into a fight with her mom and he thought he was going to hit her so he jumped on him.they wrecked the whole kitchen.dishes were smashed, the table was broken,door was broken etc.
by the time i got there the dad had rolled out.her brother said to me"i didnt win,but i didnt lose either" after their mom broke the fight up he told him if he ever touches him or anyone again he would kill him.he told me after they were separated he could see it in his dads eyes that hid dad knew he would never be able to be violent with them again.he never was either.
best story:
a guy i knows dad used to brutally beat his mom.
the end.
just kidddin.anyway when he was about 18 his dad got into an argument with his mom and hit her.he stepped between him and told him it was the last time.he said his father went to grab him and he knocked him out.completely out.when he woke up he told if he ever found out he touched his mom again he would beat him worse.
after he moved out he would still come over to visit and for holidays.he said thanksgiving was the best.there would be all this family over,everyone having a good time,drinking ,laughing etc.
he would come over and when the food was all brought out his father would come down,not speak to him or anybody else,grab a plate of food,and go upstairs.he wouldnt come back down until his son left.some of my friends relatives would say"come on sit down here with us!"but he never does.
he had to explain it to his girlfriends and eventual wife if he would bring them over for thanksgiving.he wouldnt sugar coat it to them either he would tell them his dad beat his mom and he knocked him out once.so dont expect to see him or have a conversation with him lol.
anyway one thanksgiving his dad comes down for his usual plate 'o food,and he hears him in the kitchen arguing with his mom about something.he said he could tell his dad was getting enraged like he used to do when he beat his mom but he was trying to be quiet about it so people(or more importantly probably him) wouldnt hear.
he said he got up and walked into the kitchen and when his dad turned around and he said to him "you want it again old man?"he said his dads eyes were filled with nothing but anger but he knew he couldnt do anything about it.he just went back upstairs.
he said his father has never spoken to him since he knocked him out which hes fine with.
one thing about guys who fight their abusive fathers and win is the dad usually never forgives or forgets it.their ego can never overcome the fact they can no longer just do what they want to people.each of my friends said the same thing that their dads never get the look of resentment out of their eyes for them.
but thats the look all abusive people have when they know they cant push someone around.i love that look it shows how weak these people are.
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| Originally posted by bigjimslade002 not me but two good stories.those with add stop reading now. first story: i was about 19 and had just walked into my girlfriends house after a major fight between her brother and father.her father used to beat her and siblings,and her mother when she was younger. apparently he hadnt done it for years and her brother, who was 16 and in really good shape was getting to a size where he wasnt going to be able to do it anymore anyway.but her dad got into a fight with her mom and he thought he was going to hit her so he jumped on him.they wrecked the whole kitchen.dishes were smashed, the table was broken,door was broken etc. by the time i got there the dad had rolled out.her brother said to me"i didnt win,but i didnt lose either" after their mom broke the fight up he told him if he ever touches him or anyone again he would kill him.he told me after they were separated he could see it in his dads eyes that hid dad knew he would never be able to be violent with them again.he never was either. best story: a guy i knows dad used to brutally beat his mom. the end. just kidddin.anyway when he was about 18 his dad got into an argument with his mom and hit her.he stepped between him and told him it was the last time.he said his father went to grab him and he knocked him out.completely out.when he woke up he told if he ever found out he touched his mom again he would beat him worse. after he moved out he would still come over to visit and for holidays.he said thanksgiving was the best.there would be all this family over,everyone having a good time,drinking ,laughing etc. he would come over and when the food was all brought out his father would come down,not speak to him or anybody else,grab a plate of food,and go upstairs.he wouldnt come back down until his son left.some of my friends relatives would say"come on sit down here with us!"but he never does. he had to explain it to his girlfriends and eventual wife if he would bring them over for thanksgiving.he wouldnt sugar coat it to them either he would tell them his dad beat his mom and he knocked him out once.so dont expect to see him or have a conversation with him lol. anyway one thanksgiving his dad comes down for his usual plate 'o food,and he hears him in the kitchen arguing with his mom about something.he said he could tell his dad was getting enraged like he used to do when he beat his mom but he was trying to be quiet about it so people(or more importantly probably him) wouldnt hear. he said he got up and walked into the kitchen and when his dad turned around and he said to him "you want it again old man?"he said his dads eyes were filled with nothing but anger but he knew he couldnt do anything about it.he just went back upstairs. he said his father has never spoken to him since he knocked him out which hes fine with. one thing about guys who fight their abusive fathers and win is the dad usually never forgives or forgets it.their ego can never overcome the fact they can no longer just do what they want to people.each of my friends said the same thing that their dads never get the look of resentment out of their eyes for them. but thats the look all abusive people have when they know they cant push someone around.i love that look it shows how weak these people are. |
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| Originally posted by Slylee i hit my stepdad with my tennis racket one time when i was like 13 and talked a bunch of shit and threatened him and he laid off lol my mom ended up leaving him eventually thank god. |
never saw it. it's a movie?
Well this one time when I was younger it was a dirty fight. There was headbutting involved and stuff lol.
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| Originally posted by Slylee never saw it. it's a movie? |
my dad had his 2 front teeth knocked out in a bar fight in australia while he was on deployment with a bunch of marine harrier pilots. lol start feeding them shots and there is bound to be a fight break out. i think he said he got hit in the face with a chair. he doesn't remember the rest. 
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| Originally posted by Slylee never saw it. it's a movie? |
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| Originally posted by Joss Weatherby lmao... |
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| Originally posted by Slylee of course you would know about it. it's about a fucking pedophile |
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| Originally posted by Slylee of course you would know about it. it's about a fucking pedophile |
well the name totally rings a bell but i can't say it was any of my required high school or college english reading
Ive only skimmed the book and seen parts of the original Kubrick film on TV.
My dad and I have always been on good terms with each other; however, my friend and his dad get in physical fights all the time.
My father and I don't get along at all, but I've never reached the point of actually raising a hand and swinging even after countless occasions of being physically beaten by him. I take pain pretty well and we're pretty even in size, but even though I don't think I have any respect for him anymore he's still my father, it's kind of hitting your own blood, man. If he ever does anything to my mother or sister than that's another story, shit's gonna get wild.
I think its just in our character that every couple of years we have to have it out with one another. its really just part of the relationship. I dont hate him and he doesnt hate me, i just consider it festivus
VividBoy is Anxious/Ambivalent
makes sense
My dad never punched me out or anything, but he did some standard ear pulling, arm twisting, pushing down, and smacking while growing up.
We are now the same exact height, but he has 40 pounds of extra tire. I knew if it came down to it I could easily tackle him down from his legs, pull his arm from the opposite side while kneeing his torso down.
One time I attempted to go to the labor camps to film the conditions, and I ran into hot water. My dad got really pissed, and he "banned" me from such stunts against the UAE government, since he said the whole family /business could be jeopardized by my actions(now I see that there is truth to this) He kind hail blazed me a few times in the torso, and pushed me onto the couch. I got back up, said fuck you, and this time I didn't let him push me back down. I remember driving him into the wall and grabbing his neck saying I am "free from his tyranny". It then threw him forcefully back onto the couch and pressed him down and told him to cool off. No shots to the face from either side, which was a good thing. We didn't talk for a while, and in I referred to him as "Homo" whenever we did talk which gets his blood boiling. Nowadays, we regularly call each other homo in a very casual way with no malice intended lol.
More recently, there was some cocktail party that had some pretty interesting people. One of which was a Dr. Al Riyadhi, who was a personal Doctor to Saddam's family for some time. I am not the to put up with convention and be polite and talk about the fucking weather, so I flat out asked him why he didn't poison the weasel when he had the chance, along with his sons. Very offended that I asked the question, he said"oath" and just started to walk off, so I kind of grabbed his arm lightly saying "hey did you ever get contacted to kill the prick"? my dad was nearby and said to cool it, and we got into an argument, I was cussing him, his ways, his conventions, so in another room(this party was in our house) he went to that zone where he is my commander and started pushing, so I just got up in his face, then he said get out,and threatened to call the cops(in which even if the father hits the son I will still be at fault) I said make me, and he tried to make me, and I just kept resisting while letting my words do some damage. Eventually he gave up and went back, and I pissed off for a bit.
Things have been kind of shaky since then, and its a very conditional relationship. I sometimes remind him, "dont go there", and that will suffice. We are somewhat civil today, and perhaps I will get involved in business/Iraqi politics in the future with him If we can figure out how to not drive each other crazy
Good thread...those moments of breaking through the barrier when you've had enough is like reaching the next level in a videogame or someshit! I am lucky that I managed to come out of conflict with minimal damage, Middle eastern patrairchs tend to have very little tolerance for this kind of treatment of the parents.
Nope, luckily me and my Dad have a good relationship. He's quite a bit older now too (70, on June 5th), so he's not very strong anymore. Had our share of shouting matches, but nothin' serious.
Me and my dad are on very good terms so there's never really any reason.
Although once when I was in high school he socked me in the face pretty hard. I was asking for it though.
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| Originally posted by enydo Me and my dad are on very good terms so there's never really any reason. |
I can't really imagine punching my dad since it's just not in me to start fist fights and he would fucking kill me if I ever did that. We don't get along too well but the most that's happened in fights between us was him pulling me up by my shirt and threatening to punch me. I was around 13 at the time then so I wasn't really in the position to do anything but now I'm way taller than my dad and I don't think he can still do that.
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