Relationship troubles, i need help...

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Posted by Jayci on Jun-28-2002 20:58:

rozz, she did that cuz you guys got into a fight and she was mad. sometimes when i'm pissed at my guy, i'll think "i don't need him, i can get someone else better" which is totally not true, but its something i think in the heat of the moment. but even though i think that, there's no way i'd ever let any other guy come close to me cuz i know i still love him.

people do stupid things when they are mad, usually saying hurtful things to the other person, but what your gf did was crossing the line. the pillar of a relationship is trust, as was said earlier, and if you don't have that, you have nothing. i think her trip will be a good break for you to just get away from the situation. when she comes back, talk to her about it. don't hold anything back. tell her exactly how hurt you were and everything. ask her why she did it. if she is genuinely sorry, i say give her another chance. but if you catch her doing it again, my advice is to move on. you can't spend your life with someone you're constantly worrying about whether they'll cheat on you. its too hurtful and its not fair for you. if she argues back about why she did it, then there's a problem, and you should really considfer whether you should be with her or not, cuz there is NO reason at all to do that, even if she was mad. there are lines you should never cross, and she was in the wrong.

hope you work things out

Posted by FuzzyGreen on Jun-28-2002 21:55:

I say, true relationships are about love, not sex. Jealousy is the worse human emotion and you should fight it with every ounce of strength you've got.

So, my question to you is, does she love you? Do you love her? If the answer to both is yes, then why do you care that some guy was kissing her? She'll come home to you... Let her have her fun (as long as it's safe)

If you truly love her, then you want her to be happy.

Posted by Jayci on Jun-28-2002 22:05:

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Originally posted by FuzzyGreen
I say, true relationships are about love, not sex. Jealousy is the worse human emotion and you should fight it with every ounce of strength you've got.

So, my question to you is, does she love you? Do you love her? If the answer to both is yes, then why do you care that some guy was kissing her? She'll come home to you... Let her have her fun (as long as it's safe)

If you truly love her, then you want her to be happy.

i totally disagree. how can you say that? do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend? if you really truely love someone, and you're not just playing around, you wouldn't want your gf/bf kissing other people and i'm sure they wouldn't want you doing that either. If he does love her, then he WOULD care that she's kissing some guy, not the opposite

Posted by Rostros on Jun-29-2002 06:19:

Ive had the chat last night and i think we have sorted it out , thanks for all the advice and that. She goes to magaluf today and jesus thank god , she has told me that sometimes she likes to be left alone and chill without me being there as it gives her own space. I think im quite confortable with that. I have some advice, never go to the same night club as your G/F or B/F as its gonna end in tears.

Personally i have started to change my personality and attitude its a cross between , a robert de niro and a scarface attitude , i think it suits me as i don't give fuck anymore and i walk aound like everything is free and i am the Don,

' You don't have the guts to be what u wanna be '

Anyone got a black suit and a tommy gun ?

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