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Posted by BTG on Sep-14-2009 03:54:

quote:
Originally posted by yukii
ok. awesome bro bonding. but same for the bitch, if she has any sense of dignity/morality- she would take her ex's feelings into consideration. actually, nvm, she's a bitch, so she won't. you're right.


exactly.

she's a slut, and she really shouldn't be expected to contemplate any moral decisions.

but his brother...oh man. i'd kick my brothers ass so hard.


Posted by Spacey Orange on Sep-14-2009 06:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
What if she realised that it was actually his brother that she liked?

I do happen to know a couple in which a friend of mine first dated a guy, became disillusioned with him and noticed she had much more in common with his brother - so he then started to go out with his brother (had broken up previously, as one would've expected). They're a very happy couple now, and the (then) jilted brother later found an even hotter girl, with whom he's very happy.

Really, his happiness is in no way more important than theirs. It's his problem, and he's the one that should do something to change that. If I were him, I'd be glad to know a girl I (once) care(d) for is now going out with someone I trust.

But, go figure, some people probably find it extremely hard to get over selfishness


lol. people aren't perfectly rational robots lira.


op, what the fuck did you do to both of them? they're obviously getting back at you for something.


Posted by Ian on Sep-14-2009 07:17:

Think about what she really really hated, then tell him how much she likes it. When he does it to her, she'll dump him and you'll have revenge on both.


Posted by Fledz on Sep-14-2009 09:38:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
How come? You're not in a relationship with her any more and you've got no authority whatsoever over their actions. They're free to do whatever they will and, as long as they don't tease you or anything, there's no reason why you should be bothered by their romance. She moved on, and you should do the same. So what if she fancies your brother? At least she's with someone you (probably) trust, and not with a drug dealer in New Jersey.

But, if you're really possessive about your past, talk to him. He probably thinks you're a big guy that knows how to deal with your past experiences... it's about time you showed him he's wrong.

Please tell me you're trolling, because what you just said is retarded.
You NEVER date a friends or even worse, relatives ex. Never. Ever. Never ever ever. Never.


Posted by xCxStylex on Sep-14-2009 10:03:

Evil1

HOLY FUCKING SHIT. DO YOU KNOW HOW HARD IM RAGING???

No I'm not being sarcastic nor trolling. I seriously feel very strongly that it's disrespectful on BOTH of their parts, especially if the breakup was clean. It's MUCH worse on the part of your BROTHER though. That's terrible and horrible.

I do have one thing to ask... How old are you two? Not that it makes much of a difference, but it's possible that all of you guys are young and your brother doesn't realize how immature and thoughtless (of your feelings) in asking you to hang out with them. I'd fucking punch them.

Unless you and your ex had a really casual relationship and your brother approached you AHEAD of time, there's no way in hell someone should date their brother/sister's ex.





quote:
Originally posted by JasonThomas
yeah, the problem is they expect me to be all cool and hang out. I live with my brother and she comes over all the time. me and my ex have been friends longer than we were dating. so i feel our friendship should come first. but it's really eating my insides.


Posted by jastiC on Sep-14-2009 10:50:

kill your brother. make her watch. rape her


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Sep-14-2009 13:16:

quote:
Originally posted by yukii
don't stump down to their level.



Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Sep-14-2009 13:16:

quote:
Originally posted by Krypton
Is this her?

[img]http://whoresome.com/wp-content/NDNikkiJerrySpringer1.jpg/img]


Quoted for ban.


Posted by colonelcrisp on Sep-14-2009 13:31:

seriously, your brother deserves a good punch to the face, he has broken the bro code, and he has it comming.

i decked one of my buddies last night at a bar in ottawa because he banged my x last week. the remedy for teh breach of the bro code is a good punch to the face. afterwards you have to forgive him for his breach, unless he choses to continue breaking the bro code, then you get to punch him in the face once per day until he gets it


Posted by Rose on Sep-14-2009 13:47:

Re: Re: I don't like my ex dating my brother.

quote:
Originally posted by The17sss
what kind of brother is that??? that's fucked up on his part.



+1 seriously, what a fucking dick. embarrass him or do something awful.


Posted by JasonThomas on Sep-14-2009 14:01:

Re: Re: Re: I don't like my ex dating my brother.

quote:
Originally posted by Rose
+1 seriously, what a fucking dick. embarrass him or do something awful.


haha, this is the kind of mentality i have. i hate my brother and he knows it. i want to punch his face so fucking hard sometimes.

i just still value my friendship with my ex. it was a clean break and we've been friends for a long time. i'm just wondering if i should just get over it and not say anything to her.


Posted by Lira on Sep-14-2009 15:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Spacey Orange
lol. people aren't perfectly rational robots lira.

It's not a matter of being perfect robots, but he's got two choices:


  1. To dwell on it;
  2. To move on;


What do you think is the most sensible option?
quote:
Originally posted by Fledz
Please tell me you're trolling, because what you just said is retarded.
You NEVER date a friends or even worse, relatives ex. Never. Ever. Never ever ever. Never.

Firstly, he asked us to "do (y)our worst", so I'm being frank with him. I'd probably just use kinder words in another context, but opinion would be the same.

Secondly, no, it isn't retarded - we don't know any details about their relationship, to begin with! All I know is that this isn't high school (the guy is in his late 20's, according to his profile), and it's about time he learnt to be happy for others despite what happened to him. I can't see how that is retarded when compared to feeling struck by an avalanche of self-pity for having a "sadistic brother" and a "manipulating ex-girlfriend"


Posted by Rose on Sep-14-2009 15:33:

Re: Re: Re: Re: I don't like my ex dating my brother.

quote:
Originally posted by JasonThomas
haha, this is the kind of mentality i have. i hate my brother and he knows it. i want to punch his face so fucking hard sometimes.

i just still value my friendship with my ex. it was a clean break and we've been friends for a long time. i'm just wondering if i should just get over it and not say anything to her.





Though you are on good terms with her, that cunt should have known better than to date your BROTHER. What the hell is wrong with her? Did she cheat on you with him or something? Start dating her sister!


Posted by Ian on Sep-14-2009 15:50:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Quoted for ban.


dammit. why does the gimp get banned just before I go away and miss most of the krypton-free time


Posted by lenazi on Sep-14-2009 15:59:

do you cry and masturbate in a fetal position as you hear the sounds of throbbing sodomy from the next room?


Posted by ChemEnhanced on Sep-14-2009 17:06:

I smell threesome


Posted by gehzumteufel on Sep-14-2009 17:56:

quote:
Originally posted by Fledz
You NEVER date a friends or even worse, relatives ex. Never. Ever. Never ever ever. Never.

I almost always agree with this. I do see circumstances where it is okay...although I do concede it is exceedingly rare.

edit//And Lira, yes you have to know bro code. You pretty much avoid it at all costs.


Posted by lenazi on Sep-14-2009 18:11:

he could always date her brother or dad.


Posted by SuspicionVandit on Sep-14-2009 19:00:

pics of your brother's mom


Posted by bas on Sep-14-2009 19:58:

quote:
Originally posted by yukii
don't stump down to their level.




And...bye Krypton! See ya in 2 weeks


Posted by noikeee on Sep-14-2009 21:36:

Funny that this thread would pop out as I'm thinking about hitting on a friends' ex.

Long, long story.


Posted by Lira on Sep-14-2009 21:52:

quote:
Originally posted by noikeee
Funny that this thread would pop out as I'm thinking about hitting on a friends' ex.

Long, long story.

Apparently, there's a bro code, mate. People think I'm trolling, so I'm going to give up and accept this weird part of male culture.

Now, you know they say "bros before hoes", right? I reckon that means you first should make a move on your bro, and then on the ho. Real bros help mend broken hearts <3


Posted by noikeee on Sep-14-2009 21:57:

I'm pretty fucking reluctant on it because of bro code, lol.


Posted by Lira on Sep-14-2009 22:09:

quote:
Originally posted by noikeee
I'm pretty fucking reluctant on it because of bro code, lol.

Look,

There's a reason why your friend and his ex are not seeing one another any more: it didn't work. It's over, já era. She's not his property, she's an independent human being old enough to make her own choices as she wishes. And, so are you.

If he's really your friend he should either be happy for your new relationship, hoping you're more successful than he was with her or, if she's nothing but trouble, he should be concerned for your well-being (and tell you why).

Suppose an ex of yours had a really hot friend interested on you: Wouldn't you be rather irate to find out the sole reason why she doesn't go out with you - despite the mutual attraction - is because of a failed relationship already buried in the past? This whole thing reeks of insecurity and unjustified jealousy.


Posted by R.j. on Sep-14-2009 22:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
já era.


What does that translate to? And from what language?


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