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Originally posted by EricB.(aka.E) I try to stay cool with my exes. Try is the word. the last gf and I broke up, she rebounded hard as it was a tough break up for her. I try to call and say hi and check up once every few months but never get an answer. Doesnt bug me too much ill just keep checking up every few months until she finally does answer to say hi. shes just bitter always was a vengeful girl. Other then her all my other exes i get along with great.

why do you need gratifcation of this? lol leave the girl alone ffs. you're just trying to fill some selfish void. she's obviously moved on. you should too.

Calling a girl over and over again is not going to help her get over you dude.

You think you're being cool, but the truth is you're just being cruel.

getting under/on someone is not the best way to get over someone else, but the most fun way.

i find it hilarious that he even assumes that she's not over him and that's the reason why she doesn't call him.


oh noooo, it couldn't be the other option. that she's actually matured a lot and done some thinking since you left and realizes you did her a favor and she just straight up doesn't really like you any more and has no desire to be your friend lol


*oh right, you can't take rejection. nevermind.

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Originally posted by Schadenfreude see, i just can't. The thought of another penis in the property (even if i am the one who lets go) just is not appealing. This is why you always make friends that are not in common. Common friends will make you pay.

ya i hear ya when i found out my ex rebounded with the dude she is with i kinda flipped my lid a bit. I will admit it. But the MOMENT this guy heard we broke up he confessed his love lol. like one knee love confession. what a tool. anyways after I thought about it i figured it was best for everyone anyways. She couldnt take the pain of breakin up. Dude gets a chick wayyyy out of his league and I didnt have to put up with the post break up stress she would throw on me.

Right now though Id love to be friends with her. She was truly one of the coolest girls i dated. I always had a kick ass time with her, and she was for a good period of time my best friend.

everytime you think of him popping the question, just remember that time you popped it in her eye imo.

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Originally posted by Slylee why do you need gratifcation of this? lol leave the girl alone ffs. you're just trying to fill some selfish void. she's obviously moved on. you should too.

Ive moved on. Im pretty sure by a year and a half she has too. i havent talked to her in a year hoping everything would simmer down in that time. But i dtaed her for three years i know her well. I know shes not a forgiving person and it takes time with her.

Im not calling her everyday or every week or even every month. I call her on her bday, thanksgiving, and ill give her a shout on christmas.
I dont think its excessive. her parents love me to death, her friends would kill for me and for the first year would call me everytime her and her new bf would break up for a week and beg me to make move to get her backlol. I know Im a **** to you slylee but im not a **** too everyone and am very well liked in my world.

you're just trying to fill your own void, like i said. it has nothing to do with her. you have no respect for her personal space and you are extremely presumptuous. did it ever occur to you that maybe you're one of her "ugh, what was i thinking" exes?

take it from a female eric. we are generally weak and if we were still madly in love with a guy and he was being as persistant as you are, we would give in. the fact that she's not just shows she's over you and doesn't really care to have a friendship with you. be a man and take it and respect it and move on and let her be.

LOL the fact that a GIRL is complaining about this is so funny...

If a guy is a player and/or an asshole, he will maintain contact with ex's, girls he wants to sleep with, and girls who want to sleep with him. I'm not going to get into cheating, but it could happen.

However, it seems every girl I come into contact with has a monstrous amount of guys orbiting her. And these girls love it. They may be going out with me, but that doesn't stop them from keeping all these other guys around, and this includes ex's. They also try to pretend as if every single one of these guys don't want to have sex with them. This is so fuckin annoying, and if every girl didn't do this it would be a dealbreaker for me.

the original poster probably does it too, and you're going to complain? haaaah.

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Originally posted by Slylee you're just trying to fill your own void, like i said. it has nothing to do with her. you have no respect for her personal space and you are extremely presumptuous. did it ever occur to you that maybe you're one of her "ugh, what was i thinking" exes? take it from a female eric. we are generally weak and if we were still madly in love with a guy and he was being as persistant as you are, we would give in. the fact that she's not just shows she's over you and doesn't really care to have a friendship with you. be a man and take it and respect it and move on and let her be.

not every girl has a screw loose like yourself jamie.

i dont have much of a void to fill. I have way more girls in my life right now then i can handle.But with her ya im a persistent cocksucka but for a reason, Im not looking for a full blown friendship. Just looking for good terms so we both dont have to keep going through mutual friends to see how one another is doing. Shes upset with me for somethng i pointed out the last time we talked.

friendships =/= helpful ejaculations

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Originally posted by EricB.(aka.E) not every girl has a screw loose like yourself jamie. i dont have much of a void to fill. I have way more girls in my life right now then i can handle.But with her ya im a persistent cocksucka but for a reason, Im not looking for a full blown friendship. Just looking for good terms so we both dont have to keep going through mutual friends to see how one another is doing. Shes upset with me for somethng i pointed out the last time we talked.

i hate to admit it eric, but she is right.

no good could come of it.

think about it.

Sounds like you need to drop him.

three years dating doesn't seem like one of "what was i thinkin" exes, dunno *shrug*

those are the worst ones to keep around, the one night things might = more 1 night things.

the long termers = an unhealthy competition.

i spent 2 years with a manipulative liar who mentally abused me when i was much younger. then i smartened up and left him and i definitely think, "ughh, what was i thinking" when i think of him


but hey it had to happen i guess for me to learn from it and whatever. not saying i wish it never happened, because who knows where i'd be right now if it hadn't (meaning, i might not have met my current bf who is the love of my life).

abusing you mentally = more easy than u d u d l r l r b a b a select start?

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Originally posted by Slylee you're just trying to fill your own void, like i said. it has nothing to do with her. you have no respect for her personal space and you are extremely presumptuous. did it ever occur to you that maybe you're one of her "ugh, what was i thinking" exes? take it from a female eric. we are generally weak and if we were still madly in love with a guy and he was being as persistant as you are, we would give in. the fact that she's not just shows she's over you and doesn't really care to have a friendship with you. be a man and take it and respect it and move on and let her be.

I think it's time to put it back in the shelf.

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Originally posted by Schadenfreude i hate to admit it eric, but she is right. no good could come of it. think about it.

you are probably right dude.

but one thing people who have known me for along time know about me is that im a loyal dude. If you ever made a really good impression on me or got to the point i considered you as a friend, I never take that lightly. Im a friend in the true sense of the word and don't give up on my people. I have a ton of acquaintances and only like 5 people i consider my true friends (most of them stemming all the way to my childhood). I hang out with alot of different people and have all sorts of boys, but the word friend to me means something alot more then hnaging out ith someone or being friendly with them. i dont give up on my friends and never put my friendships in jeopardy. This is the first time I have lost someone i consider my friend and I am willing to do as much as i would for any one of my other of my friends to make things right. thats the best way i can describe...OI am also the most persistent stubborn mother****** you will meet :P

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Originally posted by Slylee i spent 2 years with a manipulative liar who mentally abused me when i was much younger. then i smartened up and left him and i definitely think, "ughh, what was i thinking" when i think of him but hey it had to happen i guess for me to learn from it and whatever. not saying i wish it never happened, because who knows where i'd be right now if it hadn't (meaning, i might not have met my current bf who is the love of my life).

what does this have to do with this thread? no one cares about your life story !

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Originally posted by ownymcown what does this have to do with this thread? no one cares about your life story !

she is desperately trying to put herself in the shoes of my ex just so she can somewhat envision me plugging her in the ass while she daydreams about the wedding in her head.

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Originally posted by EricB.(aka.E) you are probably right dude. but one thing people who have known me for along time know about me is that im a loyal dude. If you ever made a really good impression on me or got to the point i considered you as a friend, I never take that lightly. Im a friend in the true sense of the word and don't give up on my people. I have a ton of acquaintances and only like 5 people i consider my true friends (most of them stemming all the way to my childhood). I hang out with alot of different people and have all sorts of boys, but the word friend to me means something alot more then hnaging out ith someone or being friendly with them. i dont give up on my friends and never put my friendships in jeopardy. This is the first time I have lost someone i consider my friend and I am willing to do as much as i would for any one of my other of my friends to make things right. thats the best way i can describe...OI am also the most persistent stubborn mother****** you will meet :P

believe it or not, i'm a pretty loyal guy myself...but there is nothing wrong with being more loyal to yourself. If anything it is the best.

Everything is great if you are ahead, but when they are, even if you are "over" it it can still make it an "unhealthy competition".

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Originally posted by EricB.(aka.E) she is desperately trying to put herself in the shoes of my ex just so she can somewhat envision me plugging her in the ass while she daydreams about the wedding in her head.

ew dude i just threw up a little in my mouth at the thought of that.


anyway, good luck with that dude


btw eric, you were the same exact way when u first joined TA and i didn't really care for you or pay attention to you on the forums and i generally avoided you. i mean you were fucking insane with your emails and messages n shit. you simply couldn't take no for an answer. your charm worked for a little bit but then i started to realize how you are. a little boy who always has to have the last word and can't take rejection.

that can't be true, he's changed now, he's eric b aka E

well i know we can never be close friends while either one of us is dating or for at least the next few years but somewhere down the road it would be cool.

I dont know maybe im being fucked, but in my head it makes sense and it would be against my character just to let one of my best friends slip away without somewhat of a fight. we always agreed we were firends first and gf/bf second, I would have put a ring on that finger if I could have juggled everything in my life at once. But i couldnt and something had to go and my aspirations and goals unfortunately held a more major role in my life. and still do. I don't regret my decision. theres more to it then that as well

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