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Originally posted by Lira Although I understand the good intentions behind Valentine's Day Cynicism, there's absolutely no reason why you should take it to be an evil day created by corporations that want to give consumerism a boost. Even if you don't have the money (or simply don't want to) buy the necklace, the least you could've done was come up with a cute surprise made by yourself to show you care for her. Not because it's Valentine's Day, but because it's yet another opportunity to tell her how much you like her. You know what's the coolest thing my fianc�e ever gave me for VD? A tin can that looks like a train. I told her one day that I used to dream an awful lot about lifts and trains, and she gave me the tin can (which must've cost at most 5 dollars because of the bubble gum that came with it) so "she could join me in my dreams", in some sort of way. Too frigging cute and also cheap i.e. it was super-effective Ps.: And Sushi's got a point. I believe the main point is still there, but is that how it really happened?

you lost me with the whole tin can thing.

beat her , break her down emotionally (meth is good for this), make her feel worthless, share her with your friends, beat her again and again until she is trained.

if she tries leaving hold a knife to her throat, whisper to her that its her fault and shes making you do this, tell her you'll kill her if she tries to leave, lick the tears out of the corner of her eyes.. hold her there for a few hours..keep the knife to her throat.. keep telling her how worthless she is and that you will kill her if she leaves ..when you have sucessfully broken her down.. fuck her violently.. punch her a few times dont be afraid to break a few bones the more pain the better.. pain is good.. pain is memory

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Originally posted by Sphere City beat her , break her down emotionally (meth is good for this), make her feel worthless, share her with your friends, beat her again and again until she is trained. if she tries leaving hold a knife to her throat, whisper to her that its her fault and shes making you do this, tell her you'll kill her if she tries to leave, lick the tears out of the corner of her eyes.. hold her there for a few hours..keep the knife to her throat.. keep telling her how worthless she is and that you will kill her if she leaves ..when you have sucessfully broken her down.. fuck her violently.. punch her a few times dont be afraid to break a few bones the more pain the better.. pain is good.. pain is memory

Now I know who you are. Your that JastiC (sp?) guy who got banned.

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Originally posted by shaw An ointment?

I had a similar thought when I read "VD"

Why recover the relationship? Do you actually like her, is it worth working out? There are a lot of girls in this world, perhaps your time would be better spent finding someone you mesh better with than repairing a relationship that constantly needs maintenance due to misunderstandings that are probably brought on by dramatic personality differences.

You're stupid, just stupid.
Apologise and WHEN she has forgiven you, only then, when you know she is fine, give her some Kay stuff.
Simples.

how many guys here got diamonds from their gf's?

The only up side in this is that you can fix it making a speech about how VD is unnecessary but at the same time professing your unconditional love. My suggestion is that you wait til Friday to prepare something worth remembering since you managed to fuck up pretty good.

I suggest a combination of small gifts which will show your creativity and dedication. Go to the DJ Promotion subforum, download an okay mix, burn it and put your name on it. After that, go steal some flowers from your neighbor. Next, copy and paste a love letter to later print it--do proofread and edit for credibility reasons. Cut yourself so you can sign the letter with your blood once it's printed. Yes, you will have to waste some ink. But if you don't have ink, you can refill any cartridge with your blood and print the whole letter with your blood. Lastly, go buy her something from that store, you moron.

Honestly, I think for most women it's the jealousy part of VD that really makes us want to participate. It just sucks when you're at work/school/wherever and all these girls get lavished with flowers and presents and get to gloat all day about how wonderful their BF is. It really has the power to make you feel pretty shitty and forgotten.

Yea, I agree it's all fabricated corporate bullshit, but women want to feel like they are special and when all the women around them get to enjoy that, they can really feel left out. Something as simple as a single rose, or even just a hand written, heart felt letter would likely be good enough for most women.

Besides, how often do men ACTUALLY show their love in such overt ways? Not often, and don't fucking lie about it. So many guys use that as an excuse, but the reality is, they will ignore VD and STILL wont do anything special for their woman. You would think that men would clue in that small gestures like that can make a woman's day, and is more likely to get you laid, but nope.

And for the record, I don't think it's all the men's responsibility. Women should make an effort to make their man feel special too.

Oh... and to the OP.

You're a complete dumbass.

If you knew it meant so much to her, but you were so opposed to VD, then why didn't you do something special for her on the weekend or something? Best of both worlds. You don't go against your convictions, and she gets to feel loved and appreciated. And you get laid.

Now all you're gonna get is a lot of your own hand while you watch porn.

Idiot.

sounds like someone got left out yesterday.

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Originally posted by Zyklon_Jay how many guys here got diamonds from their gf's?

i opted for the pearl necklace, its classier

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Originally posted by Zyklon_Jay sounds like someone got left out yesterday.

Nah... my BF isn't a complete fool. But I have been single on VD before and I've talked to my GFs about it and we all agree that it comes down to envy/feeling left out.

ahhhh....so just your period then.

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Originally posted by Theresa Yea, I agree it's all fabricated corporate bullshit, but women want to feel like they are special and when all the women around them get to enjoy that, they can really feel left out. Something as simple as a single rose, or even just a hand written, heart felt letter would likely be good enough for most women.

Nothing like a forced celebration of love to make you feel special! Just like everyone else.

meh...i gave her a really corny card, some chocolates and my cock.

i'll take her out this weekend to our favourite restaurant. There is no point in going to a restaurant on VD. Not only is everything packed to the gills, but you pay double and can't even order a la carte half of the time because of some stupid "Valentine's day" menu.

I can't wait to go to the pharmacy after work and buy all of the VD chocolate that is now 75% off. Its not warmer outside, but for some reason the price of flowers is also about 60$ less for a dozen.

I hate jews, i don't hate their modus operandi

Re: How can I recover my relationship? WORST VALENTINES DAY EVER.

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Originally posted by -FSP- I was just annoyed at her ass this whole month. ...you are a fool.... ...no response from her, only a sad face. I angrily shouted to her... ...I had my murder face on too... ...she stormed away crying. I pointed and laughed at her...

You see the problem?

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Originally posted by yukii i despise those kay/jared commercials- i think it just adds pressure on guys to 'perform' and give the girl some overpriced jewelery.

I hate them for another reason - it makes men think that they SHOULD be buying women jewelry. The only time a boyfriend got me jewelry, I ended up selling it on Craigslist after the relationship was over. And because he bought me jewelry, I knew the relationship was destined to fail.

But I made a pretty penny off of it, so that was nice.

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Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie I hate them for another reason - it makes men think that they SHOULD be buying women jewelry. The only time a boyfriend got me jewelry, I ended up selling it on Craigslist after the relationship was over. And because he bought me jewelry, I knew the relationship was destined to fail. But I made a pretty penny off of it, so that was nice.

Some women buy into that though that "I don't really want it but I do" crap. It rocks that you're not one of those and look like are completely the opposite of thinking like that.

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Originally posted by Zyklon_Jay meh...i gave her a really corny card, some chocolates and my cock. i'll take her out this weekend to our favourite restaurant. There is no point in going to a restaurant on VD. Not only is everything packed to the gills, but you pay double and can't even order a la carte half of the time because of some stupid "Valentine's day" menu. I can't wait to go to the pharmacy after work and buy all of the VD chocolate that is now 75% off. Its not warmer outside, but for some reason the price of flowers is also about 60$ less for a dozen. I hate jews, i don't hate their modus operandi

Its nice to know that deep under that deeply disturbed, ugly as Don King's shit-coveredx hemorhoids personality of yours, there's a sweet, romantic simpleton that cares so much for his inflatible imaginary girlfriend. God bless your Jesus-hating heart. Hope she gave you one of her most erotic squeeks, as your flacit little weewee bobbed in her vinyl hole. And that's what love is all about, don't let other trailer dwelling mongrel inbred brethren of yours convince you otherwise. Go forth, young nazi, and pop a big one as test of true love: hold her as a cushion with your arms outstretched, bravely facing an 18wheeler doing 75mph towards you. Her love (and psi) will keep you safe. Go on now, time is running out before 11 o'clock news. Go on, let me watch it tonight. At 11. Ill stay tuned.

how is your wife and her jesus obsession?

To the OP. Try killing yourself and leaving her a note saying it was her fault. That should show her.

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Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie I hate them for another reason - it makes men think that they SHOULD be buying women jewelry. The only time a boyfriend got me jewelry, I ended up selling it on Craigslist after the relationship was over. And because he bought me jewelry, I knew the relationship was destined to fail. But I made a pretty penny off of it, so that was nice.

Maybe it's just me, but I don't particularly like jewelry period. I rarely wear any, and when I do, it's only on very rare and special occasions. The only thing I would wear is a very understated necklace or something. Rings and bracelets get in the way, and I am sick of re-opening my earring holes every time I try to wear them (although I suppose that wouldn't be an issue if I wore them more often). I dunno... I just don't feel like I need to adorn myself with shiny things.

I would much rather that money be spent on an experience both of us can enjoy. The BF has talked about wanting to take me on a hot air balloon ride for my birthday. That's a real gift IMO. Something I will always remember and the experience together means so much more... not to mention that he gets to share in the enjoyment of it.

But like I said in a previous post... on VD or whatever, just a hand written note expressing how much I mean to him will make me more than happy. The first Christmas we were together we were both broke because we were moving to other side of the country. So we agreed not to spend any money and instead, he wrote a story book using the 12 days of Christmas theme, but with all of our inside jokes and stuff. He even drew hilarious pictures to go with it. It was one of the best Christmas gifts I have gotten

c0r version - it's the thought that counts.

if he goes with the hot air balloon idea he should also get you a parachute.

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