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Posted by VDub on Mar-16-2011 23:06:

How many of you know who she's talking about??

Posted by kotsy on Mar-16-2011 23:07:

Re: What do you do when you find out you've been a MISTRESS for the past year...

quote:
Originally posted by Lynzi007
happily married

that can't be...

Posted by Capo di tutti on Mar-16-2011 23:16:

If you're just a piece of ass and he's kept you for a year he's got another one or two snatches he's smashing here and there - That's a given...Aslong as he washes his schlong inbetween dipping it in his other Hau5's and before he sticks it in you...who careesssss, but in all honesty you should be getting paid for your services.

Posted by Capo di tutti on Mar-16-2011 23:17:

#wrankin

Posted by Lynzi007 on Mar-16-2011 23:24:

Re: Re: What do you do when you find out you've been a MISTRESS for the past year...

quote:
Originally posted by kotsy
that can't be...

I thought that too... but yeah.

Posted by Capo di tutti on Mar-16-2011 23:31:

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quote:
Originally posted by Lynzi007
I thought that too... but yeah.

Also, looslips sink ships...so by confronting his wife isn't enough you confront the guy on a msg board he "may or may not" be on.

He already is losing(on his on accord) alot more than you are, so why kick the dead horse when he's down.

Posted by Jayx1 on Mar-16-2011 23:38:

Re: What do you do when you find out you've been a MISTRESS for the past year...

quote:
Originally posted by Lynzi007
Just wanted to put this out there to see what responses I get...

So what happens when all of a sudden, you find out that the person you've been dating for the past year and a bit has been happily married for 15 years with two kids?

Honestly, I feel worse for his wife in this situation more so than myself. Or maybe I feel bad for the girl he dated for 4 years before me... And for sure I feel horrible for what the kids have to suffer with now.

Guess I need to start doing background checks on guys before I start dating them. But should it REALLY have to come down to that???!!!

wow i had no idea...

Posted by VDub on Mar-16-2011 23:40:

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quote:
Originally posted by Capo di tutti
Also, looslips sink ships...so by confronting his wife isn't enough you confront the guy on a msg board he "may or may not" be on.

He already is losing(on his on accord) alot more than you are, so why kick the dead horse when he's down.

Hell hath no fury...

Posted by Capo di tutti on Mar-16-2011 23:42:

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quote:
Originally posted by VDub
Hell hath no fury...

like a hitman?

Posted by jad on Mar-16-2011 23:43:

Shitty situation. As some peeople said, you shouldn't post this info on a public forum. It's none of our business. Posting this online just adds insult to injury. Go ask a friend for advice.

Posted by Capo di tutti on Mar-16-2011 23:45:

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Originally posted by jad
Shitty situation. As some peeople said, you shouldn't post this info on a public forum. It's none of our business. Posting this online just adds insult to injury. Go ask a friend for advice.

Thanks man...I think TA became gay about 3 years ago when people came on asking about relationship advice, someone asked for heavy duty legal advise etc...

Are you fucked?

Sad day when you can't call 1 person you know for advise or perhaps a professional such as a lawyer or insurance broker...morto di fammeeeee!!

Posted by exraver on Mar-16-2011 23:46:

Walk away.
I know, it's all boiling inside of you right now, but do you want to be responsible for breaking up a family, no matter how shitty it is?
First of all, it's bad karma, second, think of 2 kids, they have somewhat normal life now, if you rat him out, it's gonna be nightmare for a next few years for them and his wife.
Don't do it.
Just put yourself in place of his wife.
If anything, maybe she knows, but still prefers to not confront him about it.
Bad peace is better than good war.

Posted by mdm8 on Mar-16-2011 23:48:

*cough*

http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...fo&userid=54250

Posted by Capo di tutti on Mar-16-2011 23:51:

quote:
Originally posted by mdm8
*cough*

http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...fo&userid=54250

Uh oh..Major TA-LEAKS...

Posted by VDub on Mar-16-2011 23:52:

Too little too late...

She's already told the wife and everybody else apparently...

Posted by Capo di tutti on Mar-16-2011 23:54:

quote:
Originally posted by VDub
Too little too late...

She's already told the wife and everybody else apparently...

Whoaa...who's more fucked up...way to ruin a fucking family....wow, the years of anguish and sorrow these pro kids will have in a broken home over a piece of ass...wow.

Selfish.

Posted by mdm8 on Mar-16-2011 23:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Capo di tutti
Uh oh..Major TA-LEAKS...

*goes back to lurk mode*

Posted by Capo di tutti on Mar-17-2011 00:02:

quote:
Originally posted by mdm8
*goes back to lurk mode*

RUTHLESS!

Posted by srussell0018 on Mar-17-2011 00:11:

Yikes, he was one of the only TOTAs I've met at the Guv

Posted by VDub on Mar-17-2011 00:12:

quote:
Originally posted by mdm8
*goes back to lurk mode*

Yah dude. That probably wasn't the coolest thing to do and maybe you should edit that...

Posted by VDub on Mar-17-2011 00:13:

Posted by mdm8 on Mar-17-2011 00:16:

quote:
Originally posted by VDub
Yah dude. That probably wasn't the coolest thing to do and maybe you should edit that...

Posted by srussell0018 on Mar-17-2011 00:19:

quote:
Originally posted by VDub
Yah dude. That probably wasn't the coolest thing to do and maybe you should edit that...

Well it's not like the wife and kids didn't already know, but it's still nobody's business on here. Although apparently the OP put his name in the thread in the first place before she edited it, so whatever.

The guy got caught, and he's paying for it now. Moving on...

Posted by yankeeBaby on Mar-17-2011 00:21:

quote:
Originally posted by Capo di tutti
Whoaa...who's more fucked up...way to ruin a fucking family....wow, the years of anguish and sorrow these pro kids will have in a broken home over a piece of ass...wow.

Selfish.

Thats harsh to call HER selfish and that she ruined a family. I think HE did that. It was his job to be truthful and faithful in his marriage, not a random chick who is none the wiser (albeit obviously naive). It would be completely different if the mistress was whoring out and was *aware* of the marriage, but in this case, she doesnt present it as such.

I would have told the wife. She has a right to know that her husband is a lying man-whore who has no respect or concern for his family. The wife can take the information, and then have the opportunity to stay or leave as she sees fit. Its the cheaters fault, period.

Posted by mdm8 on Mar-17-2011 00:23:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Thats harsh to call HER selfish and that she ruined a family. I think HE did that. It was his job to be truthful and faithful in his marriage, not a random chick who is none the wiser (albeit obviously naive). It would be completely different if the mistress was whoring out and was *aware* of the marriage, but in this case, she doesnt present it as such.

I would have told the wife. She has a right to know that her husband is a lying man-whore who has no respect or concern for his family. The wife can take the information, and then have the opportunity to stay or leave as she sees fit. Its the cheaters fault, period.

This, although I've known OP for years and she is the furthest thing from naive.

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