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Posted by SYSTEM-J on Dec-15-2012 18:32:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
That was after the explanation, and the explanation itself was quite polite.


It was, however, part of the post Matt quoted in full when he said "Overreaction much?"

Matt's response may have been somewhat insensitive, but very few around here would have been banned for making that same response. To pretend otherwise is foolish.


Posted by Psyshell on Dec-15-2012 18:35:

Perhaps he should've gotten a zero point warning (you may get suspended in the future warning) rather than a ban. It's silly that they tend not to use them around here.


Posted by Lira on Dec-15-2012 18:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Psyshell
Him being a complete dickhead... and then making a polite explanation that seems innocent enough but then later on devolves into him claiming the forum needs him indirectly, does not help his case no doubt.

All right, look,

We're mods simply because we want to help the community. We're not paid a single dime, nor do we expect to. We need to make some tough calls every now and then, and we even make mistakes from time to time. We could have a complex judicial system, with juries and appeals, but this is too informal a place for that, unfortunately.

Some of our actions will always be polemic, as every single system that involves judgements tends to be. In this case, we're talking about a user who has been suspended repeatedly (by different mods), reason why I didn't just warn him as I usually do. Besides, a suspension is pretty much just a slap on the wrist, and he'd be back in 2 weeks time (if not less).

As for the community rejecting newcomers, Jack, I've always fought against that. I've protected nearly everyone I saw being bullied, from Spacechica to Theresa. Trancer-X snapped precisely because I wouldn't do that. As a matter of fact, I suspect Matt was the first person I suspended this year, so I guess that's a very unfair thing to say.


Posted by Lira on Dec-15-2012 18:39:

quote:
Originally posted by SYSTEM-J
It was, however, part of the post Matt quoted in full when he said "Overreaction much?"

Matt's response may have been somewhat insensitive, but very few around here would have been banned for making that same response. To pretend otherwise is foolish.
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
In this case, we're talking about a user who has been suspended repeatedly (by different mods), reason why I didn't just warn him as I usually do. Besides, a suspension is pretty much just a slap on the wrist, and he'd be back in 2 weeks time (if not less).

So, in short, I'm not pretending I gave him the same treatment I'd have given anyone else. That's what I'd do to someone who should've known better, and it wasn't that harsh a punishment anyway.


Posted by Desiderata on Dec-15-2012 18:52:

But in honesty all he did was troll his Jesus swag while never really caring about staying on topic or caring about anything really that I ever seen in the CoR.


Posted by Vivid Boy on Dec-15-2012 18:52:

I remember once upon a time when I used to be suspended once a week and unsuspended the same day until neo finally flipped out over it


Posted by SYSTEM-J on Dec-15-2012 18:53:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
As a matter of fact, I suspect Matt was the first person I suspended this year, so I guess that's a very unfair thing to say.


I'm not talking about you personally. I didn't know it was you who had specifically made the call. When you told Eddie "It's the least we could do" I assumed it had been a group decision by the mods. I'm just talking about how this community as a whole works, which I actually think is a good method. It's helped give this forum a distinctive texture which is often lacking from message boards. In general, 95% of offensive, insulting and confrontational shit around here gets ignored by the mods, because that's just TA. However, there are obvious instances of widely-derided members being on the sharp end of unforgiving moderations, and the reasons are clear.


Posted by Lira on Dec-15-2012 18:59:

quote:
Originally posted by SYSTEM-J
I'm not talking about you personally. I didn't know it was you who had specifically made the call. When you told Eddie "It's the least we could do" I assumed it had been a group decision by the mods. I'm just talking about how this community as a whole works, which I actually think is a good method. It's helped give this forum a distinctive texture which is often lacking from message boards. In general, 95% of offensive, insulting and confrontational shit around here gets ignored by the mods, because that's just TA. However, there are obvious instances of widely-derided members being on the sharp end of unforgiving moderations, and the reasons are clear.

I was the one who pulled the trigger. The other mods have backed me up so far, but I used "we" rather than "I" because I tend to think as part of a group when I make calls as a moderator.


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Dec-15-2012 19:03:

Matt, they tried to silence Jesus, too. Consider this a test. You reacted to this with such acrimony- is that what Jesus would have done? You're on the cross right now, my brother. Did Jesus want to lash out at the Romans or even Judas? No, he said "father, forgive them, for they know not what they do". Respect.


Posted by Lira on Dec-15-2012 19:04:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Matt, they tried to silence Jesus, too. Consider this a test. You reacted to this with such acrimony- is that what Jesus would have done? You're on the cross right now, my brother. Did Jesus want to lash out at the Romans or even Judas? No, he said "father, forgive them, for they know not what they do". Respect.

Fun fact: Romans killed Jesus.

My name? Marcus Vinicius.

Coincidence? I think not


Posted by enydo on Dec-15-2012 19:25:

Honestly seems like a dumb reason to ban him. I've seen people troll with way worse on here and suffer no consequences. He may be a bit of bint, but he actually attempts to contribute which is more than can be said for the vast majority here.


Posted by SYSTEM-J on Dec-15-2012 19:35:

quote:
Originally posted by enydo
Honestly seems like a dumb reason to ban him. I've seen people troll with way worse on here and suffer no consequences. He may be a bit of bint, but he actually attempts to contribute which is more than can be said for the vast majority here.


Heh. I've no idea what "bint" means in Atlanta, but in the UK it's derogatory slang for "woman".


Posted by EddieZilker on Dec-15-2012 19:35:

quote:
Originally posted by SYSTEM-J
Uh huh.


Maybe it hurts my case but I stand by that sentiment. I realize this is the COR and thicker than normal skin is the dress code but Matt was being a callous asshole and there are some topics that (I believe) are owed more sensitivity than others. They aren't calls for trifling meditations on the Biblical ontology of evil and Matt's rumination in that regard is barely capable of sustaining such a conversation.

If he'd started a separate thread, whether or not it was related to the topic he posted in, I'd have taken a different stance. I probably would have ignored it. Unfortunately, he didn't. Even though it is instructive as to why I am not a moderator in this forum, if I were one with banning privileges, I'd have banned him. Not a suspension - just an outright ban.

http://67.19.207.150/forums/showthr...25#.UMzQNnfheSr

The fact is that I have tried to deal with it diplomatically, prior to this episode. Matt was just as dismissive about it, then. The fact that I've been party to pissing him off enough to start an alt account and post his objection to the way he's been treated brings me a great deal of satisfaction.


Posted by enydo on Dec-15-2012 19:36:

quote:
Originally posted by SYSTEM-J
Heh. I've no idea what "bint" means in Atlanta, but in the UK it's derogatory slang for "woman".


It doesn't mean much of anything here, I use it derogatorily because I like how it sounds. Now that I think about it, it is slang for a woman in the UK isn't it? Lol.


Posted by Trance-M on Dec-15-2012 19:36:

quote:
Originally posted by enydo
Honestly seems like a dumb reason to ban him. I've seen people troll with way worse on here and suffer no consequences. He may be a bit of bint, but he actually attempts to contribute which is more than can be said for the vast majority here.


After some thinking I feel like this too, personally I would like to see others get soft banned or at least warned for the rude language they use sometimes.


Posted by SYSTEM-J on Dec-15-2012 19:58:

quote:
Originally posted by EddieZilker
Maybe it hurts my case but I stand by that sentiment. I realize this is the COR and thicker than normal skin is the dress code but Matt was being a callous asshole and there are some topics that (I believe) are owed more sensitivity than others. They aren't calls for trifling meditations on the Biblical ontology of evil and Matt's rumination in that regard is barely capable of sustaining such a conversation.


Fucking hell, Eddie. Some poor bastard gets sliced up in a freak accident and the COR's standard response is to have a pun contest, and you're outraged that Matt "ruminates on Biblical ontology?" You're not from this planet.


Posted by Chimney on Dec-15-2012 20:06:

quote:
Originally posted by EddieZilker
there are some topics that (I believe) are owed more sensitivity than others.


Like all those threads with people getting injured or having other mishaps happen to them and cor members competing to make the best pun? Matt is harmless compared to some of the other users here. I can't possibly fathom what he could have said, here, to deserve a ban. Actually rather curious.


Posted by Vivid Boy on Dec-15-2012 20:13:

I guess we can all say MattSanity is a BANana. get it!




sorry guys i always sucked at these


Posted by tubularbills on Dec-15-2012 20:21:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
I guess we can all say MattSanity is a BANana. get it!




sorry guys i always sucked at these


Posted by LAdazeNYnights on Dec-15-2012 20:34:

ITT: The c0r turns against Eddie

PERMABAN HIM FOR THIS


Posted by Vivid Boy on Dec-15-2012 20:38:

I WILL BREAK FREE! I WILL BREAK FREE!


what we got here is....failure to communicate.


Posted by Sleightful on Dec-15-2012 20:41:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
what we got here is....failure to communicate.


I first heard that quote as just a vocal cut; blew my mind when I found out it was an old guy saying it. Always thought it was an old lady.


Posted by wienerschnitzel on Dec-15-2012 20:46:



Posted by Vivid Boy on Dec-15-2012 20:47:

boogers for all


Posted by Kylle on Dec-15-2012 20:48:

So basically he got banned because Eddie felt offended?

Eddie, i don't understand how you can feel offended by what a religious nutjob posts on a forum. Why don't you just ignore him?


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