That girl i LOVED is now GONE....personal vent.,

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Posted by Swamper on Dec-09-2002 22:55:

Sometimes if you get too clingy to a girl you drive her away and in the end you're left confused.

The thing is, some girls say they want exactly what you were giving her, but, subconsciously they crave a guy who won't treat them as well.

That sounds dumb, but unfortunately - that's reality.

This is why at times you see the sweetest girls hanging out with thugs.

By summer 2003 you'll look back on this thread and see how far you've come.

Posted by tiesto14 on Dec-09-2002 23:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Swamper
Sometimes if you get too clingy to a girl you drive her away and in the end you're left confused.

The thing is, some girls say they want exactly what you were giving her, but, subconsciously they crave a guy who won't treat them as well.

That sounds dumb, but unfortunately - that's reality.

This is why at times you see the sweetest girls hanging out with thugs.

By summer 2003 you'll look back on this thread and see how far you've come.

yes i gather you are right....maybe me seeing her show so much and care so much made ME open up to her even more...which like you said in a way drove her apart.....i know what u mean...kinda hard to explain.....

All i know is that it is going to be VERY VERY hard to fall for another after this....i always trust girls....and now the next one, if she says good things, i wont beleive her...

Sad thing is some girls ask why guys are such assholes...but when it comes down to it...it is because some girls in each bad guys life fucked him over....and now he protects himself to avoid more pain....

But i can not, and refuse to be a mean guy, a thug, or a guy who treats girls poorley....one day my sensitive side and my loving heart will find the right girl...and when i do she will set ALL my dreams to gleam.....

i refuse to give up hope on love.....

i will more then likely look back in the summer and laugh at this...but as we all know, when you are going through the pain NOW...it feels like it will never end...like your lost and alone...like you will never find another....

Time is a healer...and time is the ONLY thing that can heal a heart....but time moves so slow when the air that u breath has gone in search of soemone new.

Posted by musicaddict on Dec-09-2002 23:49:

Sorry to hear that man. But yeah this happened to me a while back so dont you feel alone. You sound like a caring person and it's her lost man. You will find the right one eventually. Don't do anything stupid. It's not worth it for a girl like that. Bes of luck to you.

Posted by Trance-Canada on Dec-10-2002 00:27:

You can't have the good without the bad, it'd be to easy. I've also went through this with a girl, don't wanna do it agian.

Posted by Fir3start3r on Dec-10-2002 00:31:

CURE:

Success is the best revenge...

Posted by trancendental on Dec-10-2002 00:41:

quote:
Originally posted by Fir3start3r
CURE:

Success is the best revenge...

A succesful revenge?

Posted by AnotherWay83 on Dec-10-2002 00:48:

t14...booty call...this is the time to call up ur ex-GFs....

Posted by IronDragon on Dec-10-2002 01:06:

sorry to hear about that. Been down that road a couple of times, though not as far as you from what I can gather.

I guess my experiences have taught me one thing:
Women are strange, strange creatures and lord knows what they want so don't even bother trying to give them anything unless they explicity ask for it and even then be wary.

Posted by Prototrance on Dec-10-2002 01:12:

Ouch that hurts. I was listening to Airwave - When things go wrong when I read it. Quite an appropriate track.

Well mate, the last woman I was with tried to get herself pregnant by me to trap me into the relationship so I havent got high opinions of women at the moment either.

Take it in your own way for now, just do what you feel not, what you think

Good luck

Posted by decode on Dec-10-2002 01:35:

Relationships are the great depression of our lives, most of them fail and it causes more grief than there worth in the beginning.
im single atm and im the happiest ive ever been in my life. Im happy been on my own atm, and i dont want a relationship go to and ruin me life (not just yet anyway ). No offense to women, i dont dislike them in anyway but the relationship thing is a bad trap to fall in
thats my opinion anyway, everyone is different.
Thats some serious unlucky shit tiesto14. But dont worry in time u will feel fine. It will make u stronger as a person in the end, which makes u less likley to be fucked around in the future

Posted by benfica88 on Dec-10-2002 02:15:

Hey, I know how you feel m8. I'm sure lots of people do. I had it just as bad man.I was 18 though, still in school.The biggest problem was I had to keep seeing her everyday, I had class with her.I skipped so many times because of that. You think everything is all set, it's all fine, and then it happens so quickly and right before your eyes. You keep asking yourself why, why, why?? You want to ask her the same question but it doesn't matter. The only thing I can tell you is to just pass it and look forward. And please don't turn to drugs or alcohol, It really won't help m8. Just think about the future and how there are so many things you can in the world!

Posted by JM on Dec-10-2002 04:34:

stop being so soft. this isnt the first time that i've seen you on here crying about a girl. girls come and go, and if it werent gonna work out then it werent. ...damm u fall in love way too easy. yeah i love girls too, but you just gotta be careful, play it right, and if things work out good, if not too bad for her.

>JM<

Posted by tranceDJ on Dec-10-2002 04:34:

I'm sure there's other girls with those qualities you listed, yes...they're hard to find but they're out there. For now, I say you go and hunt down the chick in your sig.

Posted by Endlesswave on Dec-10-2002 06:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Juricimo
stop being so soft. this isnt the first time that i've seen you on here crying about a girl. girls come and go, and if it werent gonna work out then it werent. ...damm u fall in love way too easy. yeah i love girls too, but you just gotta be careful, play it right, and if things work out good, if not too bad for her.

>JM<

Exactly. Ever hear of the quote "No man/woman is worth your tears" or something to that effect. Whenever I get crushed by a girl I just say "FUCK IT" and move on, if she did that to you to begin with then she's not even worth it anyway.

Posted by Chuck Norris on Dec-10-2002 07:29:

Just broke up with my GF last week, not nearly as bad as this but still...

Listen to the Platoon Theme a.k.a Samuel Barber - For Strings
Makes me cry of happiness

Posted by sothis on Dec-10-2002 08:45:

i just had a guy basically "dump" me... we werent dating, but he cut it off, and it had been going really fuckin well. "im getting back with my ex girlfriend".. whatever.

at first i was really depressed.. but now im just thinking, yanno, its his fault hes such a fucking dumbass and cant realize he just passed up the chance at a really good thing. his issue, not mine. try to think positively like that. she'll be the one regretting it someday.

Posted by Lira on Dec-10-2002 09:21:

Sorry to hear it, mate

quote:
Originally posted by tiesto14
HOW...someone PLEASE tell me HOW....a person who showed all of herself to me and had everything above can turn so COLD so fast??????????????????????????????????????????????

Sometimes, we like someone so much that we think she's perfect, when she's not (nobody is). The only thing I can tell is: take your time.

Posted by Fundamental on Dec-10-2002 10:04:

Time is a great healer... Unless you've got a rash then you're better off with ointment.

Posted by AussieTrance on Dec-10-2002 10:09:

Sorry to hear , but like other people said, eventually you will get over it, but it will take some time, and being by yourslef makes it alot worse - I find friends and family are best because they keep your mind of such an event.

Personally, I dont like to listen to trance during a time like that. All those songs about life, love etc... do more harm than good, hehe.

Posted by Endre on Dec-10-2002 10:34:

hey man, shit happens

cheers!

Posted by Lira on Dec-10-2002 11:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Endre

Posted by sothis on Dec-10-2002 11:18:

endre, those new eyes in your signature are really scary. the ones you had before were pretty.. these ones remind me of like, a heroin junkie whos face has become all skeleton-like and shes all strung out or something

Posted by Az on Dec-10-2002 11:27:

quote:
Originally posted by Juricimo
stop being so soft. this isnt the first time that i've seen you on here crying about a girl
>JM<

damn straight, you seem to be on here every other week blubbing like a baby about something or other, get a grip man. Face it, women are evil, and will on every opportunity fuck you over. Women like bastards that treat them like shit (for some strange and unknown reason), ask Fly, he's a fairly decent guy, treats a girl like shit and they all love him. I, like you, find it hard to treat a girl like shit (contrary to popular belief, I'm not a **** ).
Also writing poems is a big no no, seriously, are you from the 1650's or something? who writes a poem and leaves it at someones work? a weirdo, thats who. You've got to take stock of what you're doing here, you sound like a mentalist, and noone wants to date a mentalist.
Dwelling on the matter is pointless, she doesn't want you, and she's found someone better, nothing will ever happen.
My point is get some balls and a new girlfriend

Posted by Fundamental on Dec-10-2002 11:32:

quote:
Originally posted by Az
damn straight, you seem to be on here every other week blubbing like a baby about something or other, get a grip man. Face it, women are evil, and will on every opportunity fuck you over. Women like bastards that treat them like shit (for some strange and unknown reason), ask Fly, he's a fairly decent guy, treats a girl like shit and they all love him. I, like you, find it hard to treat a girl like shit (contrary to popular belief, I'm not a **** ).
Also writing poems is a big no no, seriously, are you from the 1650's or something? who writes a poem and leaves it at someones work? a weirdo, thats who. You've got to take stock of what you're doing here, you sound like a mentalist, and noone wants to date a mentalist.
Dwelling on the matter is pointless, she doesn't want you, and she's found someone better, nothing will ever happen.
My point is get some balls and a new girlfriend

That's a bit harsh...

Posted by Az on Dec-10-2002 11:39:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ Fundamental
That's a bit harsh...

would you rather I told him everythings going to be fine, she's coming back to him, they're going to get married, have a big family, and live happily ever after??
Not enough people say it how it is in threads like this, and saying everything will be fine isn't going to help. Then again when asking advice from unqualified people you don't know on the internet you're not going to get the same response you get in Dear Miriam in "the sun" or whatever
and I'm in a harsh mood

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