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If she's hot, you go up to her, introduce yourself, give her a compliment that has nothing to do with her body (excluding her eyes), talk for a few minutes, then end the conversation and leave to talk to someone else.

If she's hot, she'll be curious why you didnt say anything like the typical guy does complimenting her. And with her ego, she'll wonder why you didnt try to shmooze her longer. Then stop by to talk to her again later and she'll be trying to get you to stay longer cause now you have her intrigued.

There you go! Now everyone knows the secret.

Irish

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Originally posted by irish_4_you If she's hot, you go up to her, introduce yourself, give her a compliment that has nothing to do with her body (excluding her eyes), talk for a few minutes, then end the conversation and leave to talk to someone else. If she's hot, she'll be curious why you didnt say anything like the typical guy does complimenting her. And with her ego, she'll wonder why you didnt try to shmooze her longer. Then stop by to talk to her again later and she'll be trying to get you to stay longer cause now you have her intrigued. There you go! Now everyone knows the secret. Irish

u know...ive tried that approach..never did work....when ur physically unnactractive to the bone, it never works....and yes EVERYONE IS AT LEAST A BIT IF NOT VERY SUPERFICIAL.

so now i just say fuck it...women like me as a friend only and thats all they want with me, so thats life...i dont even bother about liking women anymore...always ends up in disaster with me all broken up hoping for something to happen and nothing ever does

always wear foot mirrors when ur trying to pick up a girl..cause if she rejects u ... at least u saw her panties (possibly more) and then you have the last laugh ... and u got a peak of what u were going after anyway

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Originally posted by kirbtastic i just whip out my man junk .. either il get slapped .. or the girl is coming home with me .. 50% is good enough for me

yep, 50% is better than 0.....this a tried and proven method.... But in reality i never get a chance to meet girls anymore cept 2 times a week and thats when i work downtown...other than that i have deemed myself a music nerd i spend all my free time working in logic and programing synths not to mention guitar and piano...and going to college or trainspotting tracklist(which im just about out of, i may switch genres just to hear new music.) Oh and now i got a puppy which i gotta watch all the time too.

don't let her cute looks fool you she lives to tear shit up....

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Originally posted by irish_4_you *snip* ...now you have her intrigued. There you go! Now everyone knows the secret. Irish

aye. that IS the secret. what's better, being charming or mysterious?

it's not about saying compliments. compliments are just empty words. you have to be able to get the girl interested in you.

Listen, listen. I'm about to give all of you some good tips for getting girls

1. Make her feel important. Listen to everything she says and respond with questions that would allow her to continue to talk. Ask her questions about her. People love to talk about themselves! And this definitely is the cure for uncomfortable silences

2. Use her name when you address her or talk to her. To them, their own name is the most beautiful word in the English language Don't just say "Hey", say "Hey Amy" for example. You'll definitely have her full attention if you do.

3. Smile, laugh when she laughs. Don't be fake though. Girls can smell bullshit.

4. Act like she's the reason you're having a good time doing what you're doing.

5. Make eye contact with her even when other girls are around. Especially her friends. This shows that you're attention is on her and whatever she's gonna say or do next. Look right in her eyes when you talk to her.

6. Be funny if you are funny. Don't force it.

7. Compliment her when appropriate. Girls looooove compliments. When you give a girl a compliment she'll think about it all day.

we've had waaaay too many threads on this topic already in this forum

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Originally posted by fr0st

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no need to chase ..when u have a puppy ..they will come to u...find a nice outside spot at an outside pub on a busy a street and sit back and have the beav come to u...dont forget your foot mirrors though

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Originally posted by BeatFreak 2. Use her name when you address her or talk to her. To them, their own name is the most beautiful word in the English language Don't just say "Hey", say "Hey Amy" for example. You'll definitely have her full attention if you do.

jeez, i forgot when was the last time i was adressed by my name from my friends...

I hate to say this but its true. You have to treat each girl differently for the most part depending on what they look like and how they dress. One of my favorite quotes..."I'm not shy. Just studying my prey." You have to have an idea of what method you need to use for each girl. If she is fairly attractive, you need to separate yourself from other men by making her intrigued. And that means doing something opposite all the other guys do. Like...if she is with a friend...talk to her friend more than her even if her friend is less attractive. Then work your attention towards the hot one. Its all about intrigue with the hot girls.

Then with the girls that actually have some character, then you do the charm. And use their name. And make a connection. Its all a game unfortunately. But never be fake. It may be a game because there's strategy for each girl...but you cant be fake.

Irish

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Originally posted by DJ Chrono I think you'll find this guide rather usefull. Fast Seduction 101 Player Guide I've read through most of it, and there are some very valuable tips and techniques in there.

dude, thanks for that link

some good readin'

gonna try that eye contact exercise @ work.
at least half the cashiers are hotties

It's all about being yourself and NOT opening up completely right off the bat with the girl. Being mysterious is key, I mean the girl will get bored if she knows everything about you right away. It's about getting her attention and keeping it. I'm working on all of that stuff and just being me and hopefully it'll work out. (Thing is the girl's friends are constantly telling her to stay away from me, soley because she met me over the net :rolleyes Sooner or later she'll give in and I will keep talking to her as a friend (at the same time I refuse to wait around forever though).

Regardless of who she is...there should never been any waiting around. If she knows that you are waiting, then you will keep waiting. Cause now she knows she has the collar on you. Never wait.

Irish

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Originally posted by fr0st yep, 50% is better than 0.....this a tried and proven method.... But in reality i never get a chance to meet girls anymore cept 2 times a week and thats when i work downtown...other than that i have deemed myself a music nerd i spend all my free time working in logic and programing synths not to mention guitar and piano...and going to college or trainspotting tracklist(which im just about out of, i may switch genres just to hear new music.) Oh and now i got a puppy which i gotta watch all the time too. don't let her cute looks fool you she lives to tear shit up....

Thats a very attractive dog

The best bait to use to catch any girl is too show her your credit card!

i dont chase "babes"

be yourself and be nice and funny to girls and you will find a cute sweet girl that will treat you right!

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Originally posted by Endlesswave (Thing is the girl's friends are constantly telling her to stay away from me, soley because she met me over the net :rolleyes

I think you have to see a girl and spend a little time with her before you start cyber-romancing. because who knows, you need to know if the chemistry is there.

Some tips:

if she's hot:
when both of you have locked eye contact, don't look away until she does. This shows you're not intimidated by her looks etc. I've actually tested this and it's interesting, they'll keep looking for quite some time before breaking eye contact!

Mirroring:
copy their moves and match them. it psychologically shows that you are interested. also match their tone of voice, volume level, energy, and if you're good match their breathing pattern.

Trance words:
get into a conversation with her, get her to describe how she feels about certain things. pay close attention to the words that she uses. When you talk to her be she to use these "trance words" cause she'll be able to relate to them

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Originally posted by davinox I think you have to see a girl and spend a little time with her before you start cyber-romancing. because who knows, you need to know if the chemistry is there.

Of course. She wants to as well but she doesn't want to offend her friends because she is VERY close to them (she was even at one point defending me against what they were saying).

I'm gonna speak from a few harsh truths (Children beware of the following) and say the following......:
[and when I say this, it's not my full opinion, just a few clarifiers that float in the back of my mind about women]

-most girls are very superficial... if you're not good looking at first, and you don't approach, there's no chance.... if you're good looking and don't approach, they MAY come to you.
-the only exceptions are the intellectual ones...not the smart and academic ones, the "intellectual" ones.
-most all females want the same thing...sex...usually more than men...the difference is, they don't usually know what they want, thus we men must let them know what they want.
-some girls, however put emotional crap in the way, which in the end leaves them with no sex either, so they lose out too.

-Monogamy in my opinion is not possible due to science.... since it's in our deep human-animal nature to pro-create.... the pleasure from it is only a very noticeable by-product that we men seek.... it's nature's way of telling us to make babies. If one female won't let us do the act of mating often enough...we feel the need to move on to other women to satisfy this inevitable need. Remember...marriage is a society-created thing, over time.

Sure this is quite "controvertial" and I may sound like a sex-deprived psycho.... but put it to mind and think about the logic and truth.

By the way: I do have a girl and a healthy sex-life.

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Originally posted by davinox i dont chase "babes" be yourself and be nice and funny to girls and you will find a cute sweet girl that will treat you right!

this is also a good tip....i agree.

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Originally posted by DJ Chrono Some tips: if she's hot: when both of you have locked eye contact, don't look away until she does. This shows you're not intimidated by her looks etc. I've actually tested this and it's interesting, they'll keep looking for quite some time before breaking eye contact! Mirroring: copy their moves and match them. it psychologically shows that you are interested. also match their tone of voice, volume level, energy, and if you're good match their breathing pattern. Trance words: get into a conversation with her, get her to describe how she feels about certain things. pay close attention to the words that she uses. When you talk to her be she to use these "trance words" cause she'll be able to relate to them

Very good tips. Just be confident, don't be shy, and keep a comfortable environment going.

how about grabbing the gal?

I dont think there is a way of pulling girls effectivly as 99% of girls are differnt. And i guess how it means pulling , if you mean pulling and then shagging there brains out well its gonna need some workin on the pulling or maybe you might get lucky , i think its best to get an eye contact first then a smile , if you dont get one back then i wouldn't bother going over. a picture paints a 1000 words, if she smiles back then i guess your in luck, personally id play it cool , id hang around with my mates unitl i goto the bar for another maybe if shes alone start talkin, nothing to blunt tho , and the 3 second rule comes into place , you have 3 seconds to say something or she aint gonna be interested , if she is good looking then she has prob been hit on hundreds of time , personally id keep it short and simple , and id say something like i might see you around later and if she says yeah then go for it later on , when shes had a few more drinks. approaching girls in groups wont work , you need em alone , a girl wont fuk off her mates for you. Just be yourself , check your breath etc, and go for it my son !

thanks vesa good advice....to anyone that can answer, when i am talking to a not so attractive girl i can maintain a pretty constant eye contact but when i find a very attractive girl i can barely look into her eyes what wrong with me and how do you guys do it?

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