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Posted by CygnusX on Jan-20-2003 12:28:

I try to be as sincere as possible to my love. TatanaGirl, you rock my world and I love you!!!

Posted by ranvel on Jan-20-2003 14:50:

For many, emotional men can be *such* a turn-off! Not when they are saying how much they love you, but when they let out other crazy emotions. It's can be a disturbing scene. I don't think you can let out some emotions and block the other ones up (actors can make it seem like this is possible though).

Posted by Munken on Jan-20-2003 15:01:

I remeber when i "finally" open up and let out my emotions, and things i wouldn't tell my friends, coz i has afraid to hurt them or ruin something all i got was this "WTF dude"

So now i dont see the point... i tell a girl i love if i do, but i keep what i think for myself, coz deep down people dont wanna hear other peoples problems and emotions.

Posted by Lim�n on Jan-20-2003 15:04:

quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Neo

and Wlcked Red, if u read this, I Love You Baby xox xox

Aww that is so cute. Little teen boys are usually the type who make fun of other people's feelings for their significant other. A grown man is usually more open about these things. That's just part of growing up.

Posted by St�phanie on Jan-20-2003 15:30:

There is nothing sexier then a men looking you in the eyes and telling you that he loves you...
Darn movies!!!

Does that ever happen in real life?

Posted by mndeg on Jan-20-2003 18:52:

quote:
Originally posted by ranvel
For many, emotional men can be *such* a turn-off! Not when they are saying how much they love you, but when they let out other crazy emotions. It's can be a disturbing scene. I don't think you can let out some emotions and block the other ones up (actors can make it seem like this is possible though).

are you done with the dishes yet

Posted by Linx_da_cat on Jan-20-2003 19:00:

quote:
Originally posted by St�phanie_M
There is nothing sexier then a men looking you in the eyes and telling you that he loves you...
Darn movies!!!

Does that ever happen in real life?

yes. yes it does

Posted by TatanaGirl on Jan-20-2003 19:31:

quote:
Originally posted by CygnusX
I try to be as sincere as possible to my love. TatanaGirl, you rock my world and I love you!!!

I love you to, my love!!!!
There's is nothing sexier than a guy who is sincere about his feelings!!!

Greetz

TatanaGirl

Posted by Az on Jan-20-2003 21:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Julie_Spyder
Ya but u guys have GF's sot hats eazy..

wot i think fairy is trying to say is.. guys who are still just on a friend level.. they are shy about letting out their emotions to the girls they like..

because of our (my) immense fear of rejection

Posted by kirbtastic on Jan-21-2003 00:19:

screw that..ill tell any girl i love them...if it will get them in bed

Posted by Brett on Jan-21-2003 00:51:

I'm very open about showing my emotions about a girl - to some girls, its a turn-off, but to others its a wonderful thing... i think it brings people closer together, just my 2 cents =)

-Brett

Posted by USMC_Greg on Jan-21-2003 01:16:

Re: Guys this one is for you!!

quote:
Originally posted by Sexyfairy
Heres the question....Why is it such a no no to show ur feelings to a girl???? Thats what i wanna know!!!

'cuz they take big power trips and play with your mind.

Posted by Endlesswave on Jan-21-2003 02:40:

Re: Re: Guys this one is for you!!

quote:
Originally posted by USMC_Greg
'cuz they take big power trips and play with your mind.

Ding ding ding.

Posted by JM on Jan-21-2003 04:27:

maybe were fine being friends with benefits and kinda dont want things to change from that, but also dont want to tell them that, or lie to them either.

>JM<

Posted by Arbiter on Jan-21-2003 04:32:

Re: Guys this one is for you!!

quote:
Originally posted by Sexyfairy
Heres the question....Why is it such a no no to show ur feelings to a girl???? Thats what i wanna know!!!

Oh that's easy. Say you have two identical guys, except one is very expressive of his feelings, and the other is not.

9/10 girls are gonna end up going with the guy who doesn't express his feelings. Don't ask me why, but despite what girls think they want, they always go for the exact opposite type of guy.

So there's your answer, guys do it because it produces the best results. Thank you, come again!

Posted by drizzt81 on Jan-21-2003 06:53:

Re: Guys this one is for you!!

quote:
Originally posted by Sexyfairy
Heres the question....Why is it such a no no to show ur feelings to a girl???? Thats what i wanna know!!!

a sign of weakness.

Posted by matt_a on Jan-21-2003 11:47:

I have this exact situation atm. Pisses me off.

I don;t give a fuck about showing weakness, it's jsut that we are such good friends and I am afraid that if I say anything she's gonna be weird about it and I'll lose our friendship. It's happened before when I told a chick how I felt. So I sort of convinced myself I'd never do it again for that reason. Plus I really don't think she feels the same way, I have no idea, but I'm guessing she doesn't. Esp cause of the whole "I'm into older guys" thing.

But yeh basically I'm scared of losing friendships and stuff becuase of it. Damn bad experience!

Posted by waXology on Jan-21-2003 13:13:

theres some things i dont get... im a guy i belive im sensitive..im shy and i would do anything for my girl!! anything! we went out for two years and in october past she wanted a break.. i couldnt hide my emotions after that long... once u trust someone so much and love them its impossible not to have any emotions unless the relationship was a fake or something. Anyway after a week im like stuff this a break hurts to much! so i broke it off.. and thats something i though i would NEVER do.. like i was ready to marry her! Now it still hurts me everyday thinking off things we used to do and just thinking she could be with another person.

what im saying is some girls may think all guys are insensitive and stuff but shit im like a girl when it comes to emotions! i keep everything in unless im with my girl then it floods out and she knows how i feel.. but i could never get angry with her. in 2 years we had not one fight! the wrst it got was us both getting silent at eahc other "whats wrong babe?" "nothing" etc... but that was it.

stuff that!
Bring on Loveparade 2003!

Posted by waXology on Jan-21-2003 13:16:

someone show me the nice looking women who like to be looked aftee/taken out and treated well! hahah!

where are they!

Posted by matt_a on Jan-21-2003 13:30:

quote:
Originally posted by waXology
someone show me the nice looking women who like to be looked aftee/taken out and treated well! hahah!

where are they!

WERD!

Posted by halo on Jan-21-2003 14:16:

Re: Re: Guys this one is for you!!

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
Oh that's easy. Say you have two identical guys, except one is very expressive of his feelings, and the other is not.

9/10 girls are gonna end up going with the guy who doesn't express his feelings. Don't ask me why, but despite what girls think they want, they always go for the exact opposite type of guy.

So there's your answer, guys do it because it produces the best results. Thank you, come again!

I second that!

Posted by Prototrance on Jan-21-2003 17:06:

I always let women know how I feel about them because it cuts out all the bullshit and leaves the following options:-

1> You tell her you are interested in her and she likes you too. Bonus, you give it a try.

2> You tell her you are interested in her and she tells you thanks but no thanks. And you get on with life until you find someone else using this system.

If you love someone tell them. BUT FOR FUCKS SAKE MAKE SURE YOU DO ACTUALLY LOVE THEM IF YOU TELL THEM.

Dont play games with the words 'I love you'.

Posted by Az on Jan-21-2003 17:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Prototrance

Dont play games with the words 'I love you'.

fucking word

Posted by Lira on Jan-21-2003 21:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Prototrance
Dont play games with the words 'I love you'.

Fucken werd (I know AZ already said it but it was so true that I had to post it myself as well )

Posted by Abject Silver on Jan-21-2003 21:34:

Re: Guys this one is for you!!

quote:
Originally posted by Sexyfairy
Heres the question....Why is it such a no no to show ur feelings to a girl???? Thats what i wanna know!!!

it's really rare to find a girl that will truly be able to appreciate what a guy has to say if the relationship is even a bit superficial. guys want to be a girl's first love, girls want to be a guy's last romance.

a lot of guys don't want to say something to a girl if it's already been said to her.

plus, on top of that, pricks like munken make fun of their friends if they say they love a girl.

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